I have asked this question before but no one has really helped me so i thought i would try again, my ex and I were dating for three years, we broke up about 4 months ago beacuse we were always fighting we both agreed that we didnt want to stay in a relationship were all their was fighting, but since our break up i have relized what i have lost, I love him more then anything in this world, we talked today and he said that the only thing stopping him is the fighting (whitch i understand) I know that he doesnt want to be with someone where all they do is fight but i think now that we been broken up for so long that if we got back together we could be happy and not fight about the same stuff we once fought about, I think I have gotten better and I want to show him that we could be happy in a relationship again and not fight, I want to work everything out and be with him again, how do i start this process with getting him back and what are some tips i could use to show him that i mean it?
2007-02-27 15:51:44 · 5 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really couldn't tell you , but go for it girl!! Just be yourself. If he caNT DEAL WITH THE WAY YOU ARE THEN DON'T BOTHER... u SHOULDN'T CHANGE YOUR WAYS IF THESE ARE GOOD WAYS OR GOOD BELIEFS FOR ANYONE... MAYBE YOU HAD A REASON TO FIGHT...ONLY YOU WOULD KNOW, BUT IF YOU WANT HIM THAT BAD.. GO FOR IT...
2007-02-27 15:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kaykee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get back together, you really need to think about why you guys fought all the time. You also need to figure out the subjects of the argument's and resolve them, if you don't and you do get back together its guaranteed you will fight again you will both end up hurting. So I would say go for a cup of coffee or something and discuss why you fought and try to resolve the issues. Communication is key in any relationship if you can resolve the issues then good, if you cant then it wasn't meant to be, Good Luck!
2007-02-28 00:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do or try, just do it.
To make a relationship work, communication is very important.
To have a relationship, love to be precise, you must have two people involve and both are willing to give it a try.
If one wants to try, but the other doesn't want to, you wont be going anywhere.
these are some of the important things you need to sit down with your ex and talk about, you both must agree to try and see where it goes... but know that, if it doesn't work out, you both have to be prepared for it.
this ain't easy, but the choice is really up to the two of yous at the end, because you two are the ones that will have to deal with it and take with at the end of the day.
Clear your mind, think it through, have a talk and see what happens and if it doesn't work out, you know that you've tried.
Take care.
2007-02-28 00:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a pact that you will LISTEN to each other even if you don't agree.
Often, when people fight it's because they think the other one isn't even listening.
Also, take the biggest, most recurring subjects and try to actually resolve them up front.
And by the way, fighting isn't so bad IF you quickly talk to each other afterwards and get calm, friendly, and loving again.
2007-02-28 00:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and tell him that you want to give your relationship another try. keep the lines of communication open so that there isn't the big suprise of a fight. Talk things out before they become an argument.
2007-02-27 23:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋