My boyfriend is 16 years old and we've been together almost 4 months. He says he wants to be with me for the rest of his life and if he can't, he'll die. I'm a senior and probably going off to college soon...so there's no way around it, I'm gonna HAVE to leave him :( Well today we got into a fight and while we were talking about it tonight, I asked him if he thought we should take a little break. He said "NO! We can work it out..." Then I got quiet and he started crying, saying I didn't love him, saying that God was doing this to him. I tried to reason with him but he got really emotional.
The last thing he said before he hung up was: You won't see me tomorrow.
I am SO frustrated and confused....what can I do?????
2007-02-27 15:46:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but the boy needs psychiatric help. He is too dependent on you. He may be just trying to scare you and manipulate you, but even if he is serious, he needs immediate evaluation and help. Have you discussed this with your parents or his?
My ex-husband had bi-polar disorder. When we first married every time something a little difficult would happen or if we had an argument, he would threaten to kill himself. It use to really scare me to pieces. After a while I figured out that he was just being manipulative. When he was diagnosed he wouldn't stay on his medication and he refused to stick with counseling. I couldn't take the mood swings and meanness.
Don't go this alone. You need some other people involved. Together you can get him some help. Remember that no matter what he does, you are not responsible for his behavior. He has to be willing to admit he has a problem, seek the help he needs, and stick with the program. It may be a good idea for you to get some counseling as well. It will help you cope with all of this. God bless you very much!
2007-02-27 16:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by jnjsnana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call down and call him back. Try 2 call him down and explain 2 him that u love him and that u shouldn't do anything crazy. Check these sites. Google suicide if u need anything else. Good luck and god be with you.
2007-02-28 00:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sha-Sha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his words very seriously. It might just be a cry for attention but it could also be a real threat. Let someone know asap!
2007-02-27 23:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by G-Lanz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds too me like your bf needs help. I would tell his parents that he is talking about suicide and acting strange.
2007-02-27 23:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months, what a freak! Dump him.
2007-02-27 23:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents. Next, you or your parents needs to tell his parents. Finally, you need to keep your distance from him. He is very unstable, and I feel he could do something drastic you or to both, you and him. Be safe.
2007-02-28 00:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this psycho before he jams a knife into your head.
2007-02-27 23:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by dank_vile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THREATEN , THAT YOUR CALLING 911 AND /OR THE POLICE .MAYBE IT IS BEST TOO THAT YOU TALK WITH THE POLICE CAUSE YOU WILL SAVE HIM FROM DYING ..TRUST ME , GOD LOVES US ALL AND IS NOT CAUSING HIS PROBLEMS ! GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES!
2007-02-27 23:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really think he might do somthing stupid call the polic3e for help, if you think he will do somthing stupid and you dont call for help....................... buy somthing black.
2007-02-27 23:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋