What now?... Seems as if we are arguing over the Stupidest crap!... I know it's not that, it can't be... you know how certain things just Get to You!, and can get under your skin, but you can Normally brush most of them off?... most of the time at least?... well anyway, alot of little crap has been really getting to me lately that he (my boyfriend) does, or Doesn't do... I feel like I am Constantly repeating myself to him to get something done and it Never gets done, it seems like only those Certain Few little things he seems to remember, like asking him to reset the alarm for say 7:30am, since he has to get up earlier so I can go back to sleep, he can remember to do that, but when I tell him certain things that Really Bug Me that he does, it NEVER STOPS AND HE NEVER CHANGES IT!!!... Makes me feel he doesn't care, or it just isn't important enough to him, yet, to do a damn thing about it!, and then it just ALL Seems to add up into one Huge ball of C-R-A-P!!!!!! to me!!....
2007-02-27 15:48:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and after I get pissed about something "mundane" now... I can't even seem to get through to him about it!!!!...
How the hell am I suppose to!!!!......
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!...................
2007-02-27 15:49:53 · update #1
And to top it all, he gets pissed at me! like it's my fault!... aughh!!!!.... if it was, I'd take the blame!... but I can't even do that anymore because I'm so ******* pissed at Him!!! that he's so Fricking Blind about himself!!!!
I've tried to write notes, I've asked him to, he said he would, he owes me THREE LETTERS!!!, since 6 moths ago!!!1.. and he gets irritaded at ME! when I Mention that to him!, and he sas, "I have to be in the mood to write one to you" yeh whatever... and when he says, "I feel like writing you a letter now!, I'm in the mood to" HE NEVER DOES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
F**CCKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELP ME OUT HERE!!!!!!...
ANY ADVISE, SHORT OF BREAKING UP?... If that ends up having to be so, then it has to be, but I'm looking for Advise here for right now, until I believe it is completely doomed to hell... so be it, if it ends up being so... I'd hate to see that happen, so please help me TRY TO SHED SOME LIGHT ON THE SUBJECT INSTEAD!... Please!!!!!!!!! ............ :-
2007-02-27 15:57:20 · update #2
I'm not arguing over an alarm clock people, get real!... if you're going to try to help the situation, would you at least read the question as I wrote it, properly??? If it were to that point, I don't think I wold even have to Ask question such as these...
Holly...
2007-02-27 16:09:32 · update #3
He "owes" me the notes because it was a constant promise(s), on HIS PART TO DO SO, saying He Would write them to me. It was something I had asked him to do because it was too hard for him to tell me himself, and he thought it was a good idea too, and still has not happened...
Do you et it?... I'm Hurt because we are Not Getting Through to One Another, and he can't even try to Begin to Write the Notes to talk to me about things...
That's why.... it isn't a red flag... why are all question by many on here, and/or answers, seem to be so against so many other people, at least in the relationship area?.... It's not All like that...
2007-02-27 17:31:07 · update #4
I am going through the same exact thing with my boyfriend, and the only thinh i've learned is that guys think completely different from women, and just sit down and talk to him, but also try to understand the way he thinks!!..... Good luck
2007-02-27 15:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just doesn't give a crap at 7 am , no he never will re set the alarm and really why should .... easy to fix buy yourself a alarm clock, why fight over something so simple..... don't waste the bitching and nagging over something you can fix easily... because if you ***** and nag over every lil thing he wont hear you when it really matters , this is why men from mars and women are from Venus.....now if you get to have great makeup sex every time you ***** well then have at her , but there is allot more to a relationship than bitching about the lil , learn not to set yourself up for disappointment over the simple lil things in your relationship , let it go and fix it . Choose your battle's or you could lose him one day..... I am sure you love him and he loves you so live for yourself , be your own person but live a life together , do understand what i mean by that ..... you may live as one BUT you are 2 different people and women,en are good at setting ourselves up for disappointment.... ans the alarm situation totally sounds like you are doing that ..... good luck , have fun alarm shopping , and remember you are in a relationship not pissing match. the notes thing you mentioned , just becasue you wrote hom doesnot mean he owes you anything, by compareing that would be the pissing match idea i mentioned.....
2007-02-27 23:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by mystery_angel_oo7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men in general are not as literal as we would like them to be.however hes really getting under your skin take a few day apart and see if it changes the feeling if you are missing him and wishing he were there then you probably do love him and you'll need to find a new way to make yourself completely understood and heard-however if a couple of days apart you are relaxed and less irritated it may be time to call it quits for a while.wish you the best relationship can have so many ups and downs hope you find the answer your looking for.
2007-02-27 23:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by resigned 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That notes thing is a red flag -- why does he "owe" you notes???
2007-02-28 00:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋