There was this guy who liked me, but for the past week, he's been ignoring me. I try to find opportunities to talk to him, but they are so few and far in between. I think he's given up, I've missed my chance. Is there any way I can turn this around? I never realized just how much I liked him until this moment, I feel empty inside when he's not around, it hurts me so much when he just ignores me like this. :(
I mean, we never even went out, I was just about to ask him out.
2007-02-27 15:39:46 · 37 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't have a girlfriend.
2007-02-27 15:42:43 · update #1
Let me tell you from experience....What do you have to lose??? Nothing..life is way too short to not take things into your own hands and do something about it. Go girl...and find out what you want to know. Guys are sensitive too. He might be really flattered and you never know...maybe he is just waiting because he thought you didn't like him either. You can do it!!! Go and try to get this guy. Just on thing first...Don't make yourself seem needy. I bet he would be very happy to know how you feel. If he liked you then, I'm sure he still does. Just be prepared for whatever he has to tell you. Go get him....
2007-02-27 15:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I had the same thing happen to me when I was in high school. I had been dating a guy on and off but was over him and really liked this other guy. Well I thought this other guy didnt like me but I went ahead and put myself on the line and asked him to a banquet I was going to for school. He said yes and now we are married. So if you have a dance or a dinner or something like that, that you are going to with some friends ask if he would want to go. Also it helps if you have at least one or two of the same friends so that way if you all go out together he wont feel like he is taggin along with just your friends. Maybe a group date will get the ball rolling. It did for me and we are going to celebrate our 2nd anniversary this April (oh and no one thought we would last the first year of marriage because we were too young. He was 20 and I was a week shy of turning 20 when we got married) Dont give up. You still may have a chance. Good luck
2007-02-27 15:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ryne's proud mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it few & far between that you see him?
If I were you I would square my shoulders walk up to him, call him or what ever & ask him out. If he says no, leave it at that. If he says yes, then there you go......
I have noticed several people saying you should ignore him & that will bring him around. I don't know how old you are, but DON'T play games. No relationship should start out with either person playing a game. In ANY game there is ALWAYS a winner & a loser. You could end up the loser by playing the game.
2007-02-27 16:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be he's just been very busy or preoccupied w/things in his life right now. Are you bold enough to go right up to him and say something like, "i've been wanting to ask you a question now for a few days...would you like to go out sometime?" It puts him on the spot so try doing it when noone else is around. If you can't pull that off, at least make the 1st move doing something before he does lose interest and moves on.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 15:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by aweety69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deeep breath,,,, OK let it be.... if he likes you he will follow..... get ahold of your emotions they aren't as real as they seem... this is a hard time in your life you will become better at controlling feelings... "he" will be the first in MANY heart throbs in your life... So sit back if he likes you he will call or met you some how some way he'll talk to you... if he doesn't there are others just waiting for your smile or wink...
Have fun while your young don't get so serious ya got allot of miles to travel to get where your going
2007-02-27 15:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by S h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's ignoring you because he understands how women work. Whether you want to admit it or not you want what you can't have, you like the challenge. If he came up to you and started doing things for you and caring about you, you'd be turned off. I know it sounds messed up but it's the game. If you're lucky enough he'll more than just ignore you, he'll start treating you poorly and then you'll fall madly in love with him.
2007-02-27 15:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Donny Q 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't say how long he has liked you, and did you like just ignore him? It may take awhile for him to come around, it really depends on how you treated him, sounds like you must have really hurt his feelings. Write him a letter and tell him about your feelings and let him know that you were going to ask him out, it may help. Good luck.
2007-02-27 15:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by espee65 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was the guy, i would reconsider if you did something unusual and interesting. something that would hold my interest, yet not seem too desperate. you have to figure out what that thing is though ( personally i would like it if the girl showed me trust and took me to her favorite thinking spot or something, to just talk about life, something to show that you care and are about more than just superficial stuff)
one of my best moments was at a volunteer build site, it was late at night and me and **** were talking, it started to rain, and we were trapped under a tarp for over an hour were we simply talked. nothing unusual, but it was very pleasing. it got me trusting her and gave me the feeling that i could talk to her, a very important aspect in a relationship.
hope i helped
2007-02-27 16:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by sage w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he still doesn't seem to like you, then maybe the relationship wouldn't work out all that well anyway. However we are starting to live in the day where girls ask out the guys, but not completely. If you really like him, ask him out now, or just try to talk to him alot first and see what happends.
2007-02-27 15:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't quiet see the open doors until they are closed...
Sometimes we try to hold on to something so much, we forget to look around... know that he was around and still is around and if you don't even want to wonder for the rest of your life, go and ask.
I mean, what have you got to lose?
You rather know and get hurt, then to not know and wonder for the rest of your life.
Follow what your heart thinks and be prepared for what ever that may come.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 15:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋