whenever i see him i get so nervous and can barely even look at him. He probably thinks i am the biggest loser because i can barely hold a conversation with him. how embaressing. I really do like this guy but he has a girlfriend and of course i have my boyfriend. I honesly have fantasys about this guy though. i feel as though i am in jr high even though i am in college. I have never felt this way about a guy before. What the heck do i do
2007-02-27 15:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lynne. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me sweeetheart...bad idea. This can end a number of ways and none of them are pleasant. But let's say you two did get together. You know the saying: What goes around, comes around? The same way you get him might very well be how you lose him to another....Besides that, you have a guy who doesn't deserve that and he has a girlfriend who doesn't either. It would make the both of you look terrible (especially the girl...you know about the double standard) if you decided to act upon your feelings....
2007-02-27 15:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you really need to think of where your going. Do you honestly like him? Or are you somewhat attracted to him and the wrongness of hooking up with not just someone who's got a gf, not just having an affair, but with your BF's best friend, actually makes it seem really attractive?
Sometimes we want what we can't have.
You also have to think would he do it? Betray his best friend and his girlfriend? If your having these fantasy's and thoughts maybe you should break it off with your boyfriend.
2007-02-27 23:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for us to get attracted. Learn how to manage your feelings and recover your composure. Being attracted to someone although normal may not be permanent. Its actually a long and continuous process. The person you liked now may not be the person you'll like in the future. Focus to some other activities rather than thinking about him. Its also unfair if your BF will find out.
2007-02-27 23:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by ad_sessionrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All's fair in love and war. But if he doesn't like you back, then what's the difference? Anyway, I guess you aren't so in love with your current bf, better break it off with him...unless you can use him to get to his friend...but I doubt he will betray his friend for you...maybe you can see him secretly. Have an old fashioned affair. Very exciting!
2007-02-27 23:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by james B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why uu lieng
2007-02-27 23:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋