I have a horrible mother who is very manipulative, and my grandmother is sick and can barely talk. I have I'm 19 years old and Ive been moving from house to house since I was 17 and working in strip clubs to pay serious bills. Now that I'm living with my grandma I can just finish up my 1 1/2 credits to get my diploma and get a respectable job and not worry about bills. But my mother and Aunt just got my granma to kick me out, and I'm back to square 1! God, I dont want to strip again and I'm tired of moving now I'm in someones house and their gonna let me finish school here then I'm going to live with my father! My aunt just played me by saying, "thats why you don't have a pot to piss in, and a window to throw it out, and all of our bills will be paid." That **** just hurt my family can be sooooo cruel my mom and my aunt is living off of the Army ANYWAY! Can someone give me tips on how to make myself happy, and at least make $100,000 a year as soon as possible! You know the 6 figure job
2007-02-27 17:28:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
really want them to eat their words, and I'm dedicated, I want to be way more successful than them, I want them to see that I dont need the Army! Whatever it is I need to do please tell me! What courses I should take to get rich quick, who should I talk to, WHAT SHOULD I DO! I deserve it man, Ive been abused for physically and mentally by my family and I really need some good advice!
2007-02-27 17:28:56 · update #1
Britney Spears- Young, Rich, Beautiful, Sexy, Famous, Idolized by many..where is she and how is she doing?
Obviously, Being Beautiful, Rich, Famous cannot make one really Happy and is DEFINITELY NOT the desire of one's heart.
Peace of mind and love is what makes one truly happy.
FIND GOD, BELIEVE, OPEN your heart and you will NOT be dissapointed. "Ask and your shall recieve, Seek and you shall find, Knock and it will be opened up to you"
Allow yourself NOT to be distracted by the world, be still...be quiet..for a time and HE will whisper gentlly. Just ask for help and you will be healed.
PRAY my dear. Y
you'll realize that GOD is all you need when HE is all you've got
I Suggest you go to a BLESSED SACRAMENT it is a portal to HEAVEN... you'll see. A MIRACLE within you will happen. Listen to His whispers.
if you do this you will get more than the benefits of $100,000 a year. Its the TRUTH. why not see for yourself
2007-02-27 18:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Saint777 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that you must live for you and you alone! Don't think about getting rich quick - The diploma you want to get, I am assuming its a high school diploma? You probably want to go to University and study something. While you are at college, speak to a career advisor - they'll help you decide what you are good at. You are better off following a career that you enjoy and also pays well - but not just following something for the sake of money.
I wish you all the best - and hope things turn out well for you. Suicide is never a good thing - it would just prove them "right" if you know what I mean. Be strong and rise above all this - educate yourself - you will get somewhere.
2007-02-28 03:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first piece of advice is to not kill yourself.
Second would be get away from your family for a bit. Just say that you are going to try and figure things out. Find a job at McDonalds for awhile while you finish your degree and stuff. Get a small apartment you can afford.
Then maybe join a group to talk about your problems.
Then once you are on two steady feet, try contacting your family again. If it doesn't work though, maybe you're better off without them.
To be happy, learn about yourself. Realize who you are and what you want. Then work to achieve your goals.
Don't do anything drastic. People do love you and life will end up great eventually. Best of luck!
2007-02-28 01:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by unoulvme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything in the medical or computer/technology field is bound to bring you a good salary.
With all that you've been going through, it might be a good idea to vent some of your frustration in a blog or journal (I would recommend counseling, but that may not be the best thing for you since money's an issue). You've already done well for yourself by getting through college. If you're going to live with your dad eventually, perhaps he could help you out financially until you get back on your feet again.
2007-02-28 02:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Persephone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to get your diploma and you want a 6figure job. You are working for it at least but at what cost to your self respect. Our inner holy spirit has a way of tearing ourselves apart if we are not in God's plan for our lives. It is called guidance. I would hope you will look at your spending and see why you need a 6figure job to begin with. set out a plan to get out of debt and get stabelized. Get your self respect back and get on firm ground without stripping and i bet you will feel alot better.
The battles of life all come back to discipline. give it your best shot and don't worry about what others think. Your a work in progress. sorry for the tough love.
2007-02-28 01:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Dennis James 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, do not KILL yourself!!! Even though you might think that you have it bad,.. there are people who have it a lot worse than you. Thank God for whatever good you have in life, no matter how little it may seem to you. Use your determination to accomplish the goals that you set for yourself to be successful. Have faith in yourself and in God, no matter who you choose to pray to. Keep your head up and keep on, keepin' on!!
2007-02-28 02:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by younghitman1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋