She for some reason said "It's not an affair"
married for 10 years then two weeks before she left me she purchased about 20 pairs of "G" string panties,which of course she told me that they where for me. I never saw them on her! Told me that she kissed him. Stayed at his house but only slept in the "guest bedroom"-whatever! Coworker told me that he crossed the line with a married women . Friend of mine saw her car at his house about 4 times while married. Rented a room in the nearby city to visit a counselor ,she told me that he came to the room and they just "talked". She blew the meeting with the counselor the next day and bought him breakfast . Its like she has zero freakin respect for me. What does a guy gotta do?????
2007-02-27 17:31:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yup it is an affair. My ex-husband would tell me he was helping her move furniture. Get tested for HIV and STD's including HPV. If she has done this once she has probably done it before and will do it again. Get a good divorce lawyer and dump her. It's not worth it. If you continue having sex with her use protection. Your health is important. Get retested at a year and another year after that. Best of wishes for you. I know for me the divorce was the best thing and we were together for 8 years and we have a child. I have full custody and I am still in contact with his daughter who he doesn't have any parental rights to. Do whats best for you.
2007-02-27 17:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, what a tangled web we weave! I'm sorry for the pain you are feeling and the grief you will go thru. It's your choice as to what's best for you and your relationship, but it sure sounds like an affair to me. The question I'd be asking is it her first one? Listen to your heart and follow it!
Good luck in the path you choose!
2007-02-27 18:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that's an affair actual or not if... - they shop it secret from you and that they are discussing own issues different than artwork - they are spending extra time "talking" than you too do preserving it secret from you is the risky section...equivalent or extra so than something surely actual. in the event that they shop it secret, then of their minds, they already comprehend it could head someplace incorrect or already has. there is not something incorrect with an considerable different talking to a different individual of the different intercourse in the event that they are doing it to "help" the different individual via a hard time or to get via subject concerns of their lives or in the event that they are in actuality in basic terms acquaintances. yet, they could additionally be letting their considerable different comprehend approximately such an interplay (not the small print of discussions yet a minimum of that what's between them is a friendship).
2016-10-16 22:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let go, in case you don't know she might have no love for you anymore, no use keeping some like that beside you , some times to love is to let go, follow your heart, relax, and you will find the special someone who would never do this to you .
2007-02-27 17:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, sounds like a duck and acts like a duck, it's probably a duck. Same with affairs.
You have 2 choices, get counseling, or file for divorce.
2007-02-27 17:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are past counseling my friend. You should spend that money on a good lawyer. The goal now is to get out of paying her to sleep with this guy. Good luck.
To answer your question... YES
2007-02-27 17:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by orcena550 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
o hunny im so sorry that's def. an affair. sometimes love is blind so u dont see things like that even wen the clues are right there. u need to get rid of her ***** ***, and find someone who will appreciate u.
2007-02-27 17:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by blonde_brownie526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce!
2007-02-27 17:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HER! Coming from a women who has cheated....she is cheating. "Just talked"....stayed in the guest room.....yeah right....don't be so naive. Tell her goodbye and find someone who deserves you!
2007-02-27 17:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of things he is at queerland. Dont cut your nuts off, grow some and **** the ***** off.
2007-02-27 17:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by toymod 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋