I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.
2007-02-27 17:44:55 · 6 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When she was alive, I never once cheated on her. I knew if I cheated on her, she will leave me. I don't love her. I only like her.
2007-02-27 17:47:50 · update #1
and for christ's sake, does the tenses really matter??? jezz! fine, tomorrow, I will double check my grammar and repost this question tomorrow. I am in a hurry to post this question. that is why my grammar is wrong.
2007-02-27 17:50:28 · update #2
So whats your question ?
2007-02-27 17:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree u have serious problems! whats ur question? if u didnt love her then u couldnt have treated her like a queen! id rather b left alone than b n a loveless love! maybe u should get help from a professional! not this! i dont understand why you would write this in! u sound heartless! she died and your all ur thinking of! and yes i am married so i no how that is!
2007-02-28 03:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
are you saying that you did not want to be married to her or that you did not want to have sex with her, or if you should you feel guilty about leading her on, and making her feel that she mattered in this world to someone before she dead. if it were the latter then you should feel very guilty. think about what you have done to yourself and to her. you got to live a life of lies and so did she. only thing is she thought that she was living a truth, what a wast of time life and false love. not to make mention of the fake tears you mustered for her family on the day of her funeral.
2007-02-28 02:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a psychotherapist. I think your problem is deeper than you realize. There is a lot of confusion in your mind, and to sort it out it will take more than a short answer. It may take weeks, months, and years to heal. Take my advice: find a good psychotherapist and talk to him (male would be better for you) on a regular basis.
2007-02-28 01:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by dansdna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly is the problem? do you feel guilty because you don't feel sad?? I feel sad for you because you've lived most of your life not experiencing deep and passionate love.....
2007-03-03 19:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And your question Is ????????????????????
2007-03-02 22:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by jumps62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋