Okay, so I have a guy friend who I know is trying to get me in the sack, and he's recently been thinking that I want to go through with that even though we're just friends. How do I stop him from trying to get with me? I can't completely avoid him since I have dance class with him at school and he often ends up being my partner.
2007-02-27 17:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him straight out your Friends and that's it! don't try to do it nicely or he will think you are toying with him. some guys you just have to put The hammer on their toes to get their attention be safe not sorry date rape is a serious ting that can happen. If you don't send him a strong message you may regret it.,
2007-02-27 17:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Right 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww cute... but can sometimes get us girls irritated... I suggest talking to him about how you feel... Let him know you are there for him- as friends. Be a good listener, and I really mean this because people are not fully independent. We are always in need of others, from help with something, companionship, friendship...And there are times when we feel lonely, sad. Who's going to be there for us? Think about it... Is there a true friend in your life that is there for you when you need her/him the most... such as you got a flat tire, you are in jail and still sends you letters, your family member just passed away and she's there all the time not just when it happened, that when you are depressed they don't leave you alone and go on with their lives, remember your birthdate, last name, address, phone number by heart and your family members. Remember :What goes around comes around. Hey... If he is interested in that I would suggest NO...Once he gets it he's prob. going to be either there for you only for that or leave and you are going to be a laugh by all of his friends. Oh... he says it'll be between you and me and it'll be fun... sweet things NOPE wrong... You never really meet someone until you live with them... I'd keep it in the friendship level... and to ask yourself is he really a friend? Like I said a friend is only there for you at all times and is a good listener. Good luck... Love yah...
2007-03-01 01:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no, if you dont want to do it.
if you want to be friends with him, then have a talk with him, if he's not really a good friend then avoid him and not talk to him and get a new dance partner :P
2007-02-28 01:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. there is your answer.
Just say NO!! don't give reasons, or "I'm sorries",
When the situation comes up, just give a straight forward NO.
2007-02-28 01:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and have a serious conversation with him about the situation
2007-02-28 01:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by tiNkErBeLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋