I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.
2007-02-27 17:44:06 · 12 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When she was alive, I never once cheated on her. I knew if I cheated on her, she will leave me. I don't love her. I only like her.
2007-02-27 17:47:45 · update #1
and for christ's sake, does the tenses really matter??? jezz! fine, tomorrow, I will double check my grammar and repost this question tomorrow. I am in a hurry to post this question. that is why my grammar is wrong.
2007-02-27 17:50:35 · update #2
So whats the question? She's dead get yourself another women, and make sure she can cook
2007-02-27 17:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by toymod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you accepted her death well because you gave her the flowers while she was living. There was no unfinished business to take care of. People cry after a death cause they refuse to see their love ones go and wish they could keep them here or done bad things to them and live with hurt feelings. In your case you did not love her as much as she loved you and for 30 years, surely you felt something for her and in denial.
2007-02-28 01:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont have to mourn over ur wife whether u loved her or not. She is in heaven right now so u dont have to worry about anything. Just try n get ur life in order n move on. We r all in this journey its just that we dont know the time n day yet
2007-02-28 01:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by smart_eluh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you treated her well, that shows that she was inportant to you. You were committed, regardless of your feelings. That shows integrity. Perhaps you did love her as much as you were capable. Now she is gone. Wish her well and move on. If this continues to bother you, perhaps consider counseling. We go to a doctor when we are sick, a dentist for a toothache, but no one wants to see a professional when we have problems in the head.
2007-02-28 01:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't beat yourself up. it sounds like you were very good to her while she was alive you treated her well. also, maybe its just not hitting you yet. you were very lucky to have her in your life and have someone that loved you so much. maybe one day you will realize this and miss her. don't be so quick to say it wasn't that deep. you might just be having a delayed reaction. sometimes its hard to respond and not everybody cries. you might still be in shock. also sometimes in life you do things, and you don't think too much of them while you're doing it. (ie - you were just staying with her for various reasons). then when you look back you see it for what it truly was and you appreciate it more.
2007-02-28 01:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem? Are you sad that she died? Are you sad that you dont love her? Are you sad that she didnt die but you want to leave her? You said she is dead, but talk about her like she is alive, please clarify??
2007-02-28 01:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Reggie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh..... what a lucky man you are for having such a wonderful wife who loved you till the day she died.
May she rest in peace.
2007-02-28 02:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your question?? all im reading is that you a horny old man that played around with his wife just for sex
2007-02-28 02:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to see a question here.
2007-02-28 01:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May she rest in peace.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-02-28 01:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋