why does she get so jealous?
whenever im around my other friends she acts all mad and stuck up.and i ask her whats up and she says shes not mad and nothings wrong. we were pretty attached at the hip but i do have other friends. she dont even talk to me.i kinda think theres sum stuff shes not tellin me.help need advice
2007-02-27 17:39:53 · 5 answers · asked by rockinweirdo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is one of those girls that wants you all to herself. if you are more popular than her that might also be the reason for her jeolousy. i know people that are like this. is your friend a scorpio because scorpios are infamous for doing this kind of stuff
2007-02-27 18:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by T. N 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous cause of your split attention. Dun make her feel that way, as it hurts her a lot. She unable to deal with this kind of jealousy, and since you are her best fren, you should assure her that no matter wat happen, she will still be your best pal. UNless you dun think so.
I used to have this kind of fren when i was studying at Secondary school. We are so closed, and she will hurt herself whenever i go chit chatting with other girls. It also hurts me a lot whenever i saw her hurt. Even my frens also can sense that she's jealous whenever they came to chit chat with me.
You are rite, everyone are entitled to freedom in making friends. I truly agree with you. It took me some time to deal with this, but one day, i did something very sweet to her. It happened during our PE time. She did not attend the class but hide herself inside the classroom. As a class monitor, i was searching for her high and low as requested by the teacher.
When i found her, her hand was bleeding. I dunno what overcame me, i just hold her hand and then i hugged her closely to me. I told her, if she's unhappy, my shoulder is wide enuf for both of us. At that time, she was crying and i just let her cry and pour out her feelings. I know she was having problem with her family at that time. At that time, she was so touched that i bother to worry about her & show concern for her. Furthermore, she admitted that i'm more popular than her. Also confused why i can take her as my best fren. Hehe, we are a known "couple" during that time.
Over here, i just want you to be sincere to your best fren, and let her know she will always have a place in your heart. Just think to yourself in her shoes.
2007-02-28 03:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to totaly get over her self. you should just tell her straight up how you feel. if she gets mad then she wasnt a very good friend in the first place. and if i was you i would't take advice from someone who cant spell. lol
2007-02-28 01:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by LAINA LOU 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's just insecure and wants all of your attention. It's understandable. Being left out is never fun.
2007-02-28 01:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is a stubbern frined to be honest i would just call her my aquantance. i would just tell you watch your step. be caushous
2007-02-28 01:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋