Ive noticed lots of my friends make the females pay on the dayes now
is this how its supposed to be? is this what the females want with womans rights?
usually when i go on a date with a female, ill let the bill pass me and let her pay
rarely do i pay for a female, unless shes really hot and i want to get get her drunk
2007-02-27 17:35:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no problem with us to pay for dates.. as today we are self confident and earning so there is no question left as who will pay for the dates
2007-02-27 17:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by sonali s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not like you always have to pay for female, when u are dating u can split, or sometimes take turns, sometimes she pay, sometimes you pay. When u are on 1st or 2nd date or 3rd whatever, if she insist to pay ok let her, but out of courtesy pay for movie ticket than or leave a tip to the server than. Unless u want ur girlfriend to be ur sugar mama ok fine, but i'd think that u're totally cheap guy. U mentioned u will pick up a bill if she is tottaly hot, what of uptight way of thinking, get matture, open ur mind and think beyond hot looks.
2007-02-28 01:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by M A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very offended to go on a date if the guy didn't pay for it. Or at least offer. I want to be treated like a lady and if a man asks me out then he should pay for it. I would never give the guy a second chance if he made me pay for the dinner. Not to mention it doesn't make a great first impretion when she tells her friends and parents and whoever that she had to pay for her own meal.
2007-02-28 01:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by MelC 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you offer to pay for something for someone it's a gesture of goodwill. It means you are willing to give things up for them and not just trying to get things. Usually men do this first, traditionally that makes sense as it helped to convince the girl that he wasn't just a random scumbag trying to steal her virginity or something and that he could actually look after her when they were married... Now normally a girl (who isn't just into a guy for his money) will offer the same gesture back. If you're letting someone else pay all the time it usually means you don't care for them enough to overcome your greediness and give away money... Not good.
2007-02-28 01:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, women don't have equal rights, dude. And it's sad because they are fighting for it. Anyways, ever since I got with my lady, she been paying for some of my meals. I ain't ashame of it. You gotta let your lady be nice sometimes, you know. But I'm not spoiled on this factor. I don't ask her to pay for me when ever I want. I've done it twice, then I pay her back. But it's all having equality in the relationship, you know. So I hope this is what you mean about women's right. I hope you don't get a feminist answering you in a bad tone. Good Luck!
2007-02-28 01:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been along time since I dated but I think it depends on the individuals. When I dated a guy who made more money than me it was OK for him to pay but then I would cook a meal. There are also a lot of ways to date inexpensively - a picnic on the beach for example. Personally I didn't expect a guy to spend lots of money on me and was not impressed by guys who felt they needed to.
2007-02-28 02:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by britchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females pays for their dates because they are indenpendent and telling the male they are capable of taking care of their own needs. It is okay sometimes as a man do not have it all the time. But in essence he should make provision for the lady unless otherwise he is out of line.l
2007-02-28 01:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any female that pays for a male is pathetic....females have everything a guy wants and you guys need to work for it. The problem is that so many women just throw themselves at guys and that is why so many get their hearts broken. If men had to work for it, it might actually start to mean something to them. And any guys who make females pay must not have been taught proper manners growing up.
2007-02-28 01:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by SB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whoever asks the person out needs to pay. end of story. However if on the 1st date the guy doesn't pay he will not get a second date because I consider paying being a gentalman but thats just me
2007-02-28 01:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, the one doing the asking does the paying. When you "invite" someone on a date then you pay for them. Going "Dutch" also works, but you should agree on that beforehand. It all depends upon how the two of you treat money and how you allow it to impact your relationship.
2007-02-28 01:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋