I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loves me so much. I don't have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her wasn't that deep. If I left her, I won't have anymore sex and she'll be heartbroken and I will start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I will be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have meet you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.
2007-02-27 17:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When she was alive, I never once cheated on her. I knew if I cheated on her, she will leave me. I don't love her. I only like her.
2007-02-27 17:47:54 · update #1
and for christ's sake, does the tenses really matter??? jezz! fine, tomorrow, I will double check my grammar and repost this question tomorrow. I am in a hurry to post this question. that is why my grammar is wrong.
2007-02-27 17:50:09 · update #2
so what is your problem??? I think maybe you're feeling guilty for not loving your wife. you say you treated her well ,so what are you feeling guilty about?? she's gone now. sounds like you can go on with your life.
2007-02-27 17:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Meli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of don't listen the crappy people on here...It makes me sad when all the judges come out.
The only thing wrong I see is that you wasted a big portion of your life with a person you just liked. You're obviously a better man then most because most men would have left at first young hottie (stripper) that gets thrown their way. It is time now to let your hair down and enjoy your self. Mingle a bit away from the immediate family. Take a singles cruise or a singles vacation and have fun. Your a good man and she would have wanted you to do the things that make you happy. Keep your head up and Good luck!!
~moralityisrelative1~
2007-02-28 01:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are feeling guilty. You say you never loved her but you must have had to have feelings for her to write this. If you did not love her why did you pretend? How could you be so cold as to say you don't feel bad about her death. She was a human being. She was good enough for you to have sex with but not worth crying over when she died. You are a sad person. I hope her ghost haunts you for the rest of your life!!!!
2007-02-28 10:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes listen to Meli she makes sense, that is the best advice your going to get and your problem is not at all serious, made me click on your question for nothing when some one else could really need my help lol pleeeease.
2007-02-28 02:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the problem?
BTW, your math doesn't add up, and your tenses are all wrong, so I have to wonder if this is even a serious post.
2007-02-28 01:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a 54 year old retard with down syndrome what the hell are you talking about....
2007-02-28 01:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Iam_canadian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is needless to think wat all happened. it is all over. the matter that matters the most is wat u wanna do now. u r a matured man by now i will just say u think before u leep.
2007-02-28 02:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋