What should I do to make my friend miss me?

Question

I have a very nice friend but things r going a little hard with both of us. She is not having time for me and I am feeling like I have become a burden on her. I think now she even needs space and even I need time to think and sort out things. I heard absence makes a person miss u. So I want to be absent so that maybe she miss me. Can any 1 tell me what can make her miss me? or how should I avoid her for a few days? I cant tell her I want time to be alone. I dont want to be rude with her. So plz tell me what should I do so that she starts missing me.

Answer 1

Perhaps the best thing you could do would be to be honest with her. Tell her "things r going a little hard with both of us" and "You are not having time for me and I am feeling like I have become a burden for you". Then say, "I think you need space and even I need time to sort out things." Finally say, "I want to be helpful to you, but only if you need my help. I'm going to take a few days to think, but if you want to talk, just call." Then give her a nice understanding hug and head out. If she doesn't need the space she'll stop you from leaving. If she does, go think about things and maybe she'll miss you and call in a day or so.

When you figure out what you want, call her, tell her you want to meet, and then tell her your thoughts when you get together. Either way, plan on spending the next few nights talking it out. Honesty really is the best policy.

Answer 2

If she is going to miss you she will, you can't make someone miss you. Maybe she when she has sorted things out she will have a little more time for you, but I think if you are a good friend you will have a bit more patience and understanding.

Answer 3

it's happens sometimes to the couples, and i one of them.. i wanted my b.f miss me as i miss him, because i always calling him he just don't have feelings to me, and if i call him he never call me back, but rarely anyway to make her miss u, is the ignorants she need space she is busy no time to think about u, but i am sure she missing u, but want to make sure from her feelings, i know it's hard to give her some days to call u, but u are strong, don't think so much about her, be busy also, don't worry if she for u no one will take her... just give her what she need, maybe she feel lonely without u and saying i can't live without u... or maybe she said i felt that u are not the right one... just thinking.. but u must to accept everything because it's the destiny... good luck

Answer 4

Don't do anything, each one of us needs time to ourselves, by pushing a freindship you can actually drive it apart, If the friend is true they will alway be a friend, if they are not a true friend, it didn't matter anyway.

Just let time take its toll.

Answer 5

you're right... it doesn't have to be a long time apart... say you spend every day together? or mon, wed and fri? whatever it is, whatever time you regularly do spend, just skip out a time or two. you can invent an excuse.

Answer 6

first of all you need to think better of youself! secondly i think you need to find youself a new friend! your friend doesnt seem worthy of your friendship. if you find yourself new friends and start involving yourself in other activities maybe she will have time for you.

Answer 7

you can't make someone feel a way that they don't

you are really weird.

under 13, correct?

if you want to make him miss you just don't talk to him and make him jealous by talking to other people and going places with them..

Answer 8

don't do anything apart from letting her/him no that you miss them then maybe they will feel the same way aswell