My boyfriend had been going through issues for the last couple months, his grandpa died, he was drinking more and seemed depressed. We started getting along better the last few months, but it still seems like he just doesn’t really care about me or my feelings. This past weekend, he came home after working all day. And he said he sort of wanted to go out. Which was fine, I wasn’t feeling so good so I didn’t want too. But I told him to go if he wanted. He even said I was making it easy to go. But he said he didn’t want too. But then when I got up from the couch, he called his bro ‘just to see if he could come get him if he did want to go out’. It was clear he wanted to go, even though he denies it. Then he said the lights were on at his parents, so he was going to go check. But he was drinking a beer, so he got dressed in ‘going out’ clothes and never went to his parents…kinda odd.
I really thought he wanted to go out, so I just said “I want to be alone so just go”. And he called his bro to come get him. Fair enough.
So while we were waiting for him to go, we got into a fight and he told me he didn’t love me. Which is like the 6th time, and then said it was just out frustration.
Then he didn’t come home till the next day late. Now every time he has gone out like this, we fight, he leaves and stays out all night…he comes home with a girl’s phone number. He says they are just friends, some even have boyfriends….so he says. But is not WEIRD?
I’m not there…he gets a girls number?
Or am I reading too much into this? We live together and have been together almost two years now. I don’t want to break up, but I think some days it just not worth it. He doesn’t seem to even care about me.
2007-02-26
05:45:58
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