All they do if fight,fight,fight and fight, they don't hit each other but they do argue a lot about every thing....
2007-02-26 05:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
can you imagin waking up to argueing about every little thing that goes on that's what these people go trew every day, and my as a stand by in the middle trying to stop them from killing each other.
2007-02-28 05:57:33 · update #1
You know it's bad when you would rather be anywhere than go home. I used to work 6 days a week, and beg the boss for overtime, just so I would NOT have to go home. Like you, we fought all the time.....not physically, but verbally. I would rather be in dead than in that type atmosphere. I'm not married now, but it's QUIET! No fussing....no shouting....no defending myself! PEACE and QUIET!!
2007-02-26 06:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't necessarily mean "going bad" but it isn't good either. Communications have deteriorated. To the point that they're only open for fighting and nothing more.
If these two can sit down and discuss civilly what they see as faults with one another then maybe these things can be mended and an effort made to reconcile.
However if one party insists upon hurting another by turning this discussion session into a b*tch session then it may signal the end of it all.
Hopefully not. Anything after 10 years of marriage should be salvagable for the most part barring some horrible grievance.
After investing a decade in one another that means that you have what it takes to make this work. These two just have to sit down and try to make it last. If you can't discuss anything with your spouse after 10 years of marriage than you've failed. But being together for that long means you obviously care about one another (although they both may not feel so right this moment).
Talk, talk, talk. Nothing means more and will make it work than that.
2007-02-26 14:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, relationships get a little stale from time to time.
If they are fighting all the time, it is because one must accuse the other to dismiss ones self from failure and fault.
And the more they fight, the higher the pile they make, with words that are hard to repair. And the higher the pile of things they fight about, the harder it becomes to shovel that pile out of the way.
They need some sort of professional help.
They have locked horns and are stuck in a bad rut.
They may even love each other, but, issues have clouded that for them. And it doesn't mean that they are in a bad relationship, but that they are both lost in it.
2007-02-26 13:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's going bad. Marriage is supposed to be about love and respect. Sounds like that marriage is lacking both.
2007-02-26 13:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE SAME CLUES AS TO WHEN A 3 YEAR MARRIAGE IS GOING BAD, OR A 5 YEAR MARRIAGE OR A 7 YEAR MARRIAGE.
2007-02-26 17:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have to ask questions like this one.
2007-02-26 14:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have to ask that question on Yahoo.
2007-02-26 14:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are pretty good clues.
2007-02-26 13:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by professionaleccentric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋