Family & Relationships - 26 February 2007

How did you do it? Did you become friends or try to get to know him better, or drop subtle hints and got him to ask you out, or just straight up asked him on a date? I'm just curious, I've never asked a guy out before.

2007-02-26 06:06:45 · 14 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are in a LDR, or just think you know of some ways to be intimate, please let me know.

2007-02-26 06:06:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

More and more women have their breasts enlarged these days. Not every man likes big breasts as I personally prefer women with small breasts. For men: Would you be turned off by women whose breasts are too small? For women: Would you leave men who criticize your breast (size) but who are great lovers in bed?

2007-02-26 06:05:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I keep on getting jipped by people who say that they think i'm uncool unless I can do something for them. HELP ME! I need some good comebacks!

Enjoy the rest of your day =D
I'm not =(

2007-02-26 06:05:23 · 12 answers · asked by Davey 2 in Friends

I have a husband that would do anything for me as far as help clean up, run out in a storm and get things for me, understands my moods and copes nicely with it....stuff like that. However, he has no ambition to better himself, he doesn't like to socialize, he wont fix anything, he always naps and watches sports. He talks about the same stuff over and over. We hardly ever go out. He claims to be this strong Christian that doesn't need people out there to bring him down yet he never goes to church. He's an emotional person so he cries a lot when I get too frustrated with him. He literally drives me crazy. What are your thoughts on this?

2007-02-26 06:04:32 · 31 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

starting to really like him but i'm not sure if he likes me or not what should i do?

2007-02-26 06:04:20 · 18 answers · asked by Ninja3 2 in Friends

i've been told by my friends that i look bitchy and impatient when i don't want a guy that i'm not interested to talk to me. ex: if i see a group of guys standing in a corner none of which are my type( usually the extremely ghetto, aggressive, player types) i automatically put on this cold exterior i didn't even know i was doing this; until one day a male friend friend from work saw a guy trying to talk to me whom i didn't like and i was so uncomfortable with him talking to me that i gave short one word answers and got a little cold. when it was over my friend turned to me and said " he was just trying to talk to you" i felt so bad! does anyone else feel like this? i'm really actually a very nice person (warm and affectionate) can some one please help me!!

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oh just to clear up any confusion its only when the guy is making an obvious romantic offer, like aking me if i have a man or if i want to get with them. if he's just talking to me its ok i ca

2007-02-26 06:03:10 · 7 answers · asked by ponypuffgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 06:02:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-26 06:02:55 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't want him to leave, he doesnt even seem to understand my feelings in this. He is more worried about what people wil think, especaily his bro, if he gives wp up for a gir. But we know we are soulmates, we can't explain it, but we are. I don't want to be an army wife and have my life be al about his career. Help. I don't want that chance of being alone in life, wiht him dying at war. ANy sugesstions on how to talk to him about this?

2007-02-26 06:02:46 · 7 answers · asked by samantha g 2 in Singles & Dating

so me and this guy met once and hit it off great!
he hasnt been online because of school work.
but whenever one of us has to go, he always says "you can call me anytime" and "we should hang out"

i reallly want to call him today to make plans to make sure he doesnt lose interest?
ineed help though.
what should i say?where should we go?etc,etc,etc.
im 13 and hes older so it cant be anything babish.
hellppppp pleaseeeeeeeeee.
and ill deffaintly pick best answer.

2007-02-26 06:02:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So there is this girl that I have danced with about 2 times at a club. I added her as a friend in my space but she has responded to half of the messages I send her. I really like her. I don't have her number. I know I will see her again but I don't know when....age21.

2007-02-26 06:01:42 · 2 answers · asked by Gus 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy is crazy.
One day he says i love you and the next he is flirting with some tramp.
he says i love you!but then he doesnt want to be in a Relationship.
Help!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-26 06:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by Livin by each second 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey, i'm 16 and just wondering if any one can give me some good things to talk to girls about, because i always find it hard to start a conversation, and please i'm 16 nothing about knitting, cheers

2007-02-26 06:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-26 06:01:26 · 3 answers · asked by vivian t 1 in Friends

Hi! I am a18yrs old boy. I like a girl very much and I want her to like me. how can I do so?

2007-02-26 06:01:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is proper respond ???when a woman tells you that she does not want to hear from you again.should i let it go and not ever contact her or write her back and tells her how much i like her and express my feeling for her?

2007-02-26 06:00:57 · 8 answers · asked by dolphin61wolf 1 in Singles & Dating

In Dec, my husband & I spent time with my Mom (she lives out of state) for a family gathering. When packing to leave, my husband accidentally packed my sister’s jeans (the ones that are around $150). When at home unpacking, I realized we had them. She insisted I mail them to her even though we were all gathering again in 2 wks. Well to this day, the package has not arrived (& I did not insure them). It has turned into a HUGE argument. Normally, I would reimburse her, but 2 yrs ago, we loaned my sister almost $4K. She was "supposed" to pay us back, but we have not seen a penny of it (and don't expect to either). I told my sister I would normally pay her back, but I found it disheartening she was buying expensive jeans when she owed us (and others) so much money. Also, I told her I was confused on her double-standard: we “should” pay her back, but she has shown nothing toward paying us back. I am not going to reimburse her, but I just would like to hear other viewpoints.

2007-02-26 06:00:40 · 13 answers · asked by BMD 3 in Family

My husband and I are not divorced. We have been separated (not through courts) since March 2006. I had a baby in September and he has not had anything to do with him or me. I want to keep him from showing up at daycare or my parents, etc, and taking our son since he doesn't pay anything and the baby doesn't know him at all. How can I do this without being divorced. He wasn't even there for my entire pregnancy.

2007-02-26 06:00:07 · 7 answers · asked by skyjava1974 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She was involved in a break up last July. Since then, she's been seeing/dating various men. Many of them have been to her house for her 15 year old son to meet. I feel that it is not healthy for the son to meet a variety of men, who are not around after 2 dates. Also, my friend, who is 51 goes out to clubs at least once a week, leaving the son home alone. She rarely cooks, the son eats fast food most of the time. I want to diplomatically tell her my feelings without hurting hers. We have been friends for more than 40 years. Please advise. Thank you.

2007-02-26 05:59:45 · 7 answers · asked by sfmismee 1 in Friends

you love most about your bf/gf/significant other

just wondering...

2007-02-26 05:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM IN SCHOOL RIGHT NOW AND THIS ONE GUYS IS LIKE CRAZY AND WEIRD. CAN YA HELP US OUT...

2007-02-26 05:59:37 · 19 answers · asked by cherry*lynne 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with benefits with a guy for four months now, but I want more. Trying to make this situation into a real relationship hasn't gone good. Should I continue to try and make a relationship with my FWB or break it off and try to make a relationship with someone else.

2007-02-26 05:58:52 · 23 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently became single, not nice but I'm not too hung-up, these things happen. I know I'm a good catch and something better will come along – eventually.

I've had some really horrible relationships, I deserve a good relationship, but right now I know that being single is best for me, but I also know that I want to start looking for long-term relationships again, settling down – granted I feel left behind as all my friends are jumping head-first into marriage, family, etc.

There seem to be so few ways to meet people, when I do find someone I worry about settling, and it concerns me even more that they turn out to be not-so-good so I'm left alone again or feel rejected by people I shouldn't worry myself over. I hate this transitional period between loves, you know you have to wait and can't force it, but you also know you could be waiting for years, fear being alone.

How can I whack some sense into myself and make myself feel happy about being single? – Could be worse.

2007-02-26 05:58:11 · 26 answers · asked by Bella-bella 3 in Singles & Dating

Hate or apathy? Would you rather have a friend or spouse hated you so strongly that he/she wished death upon you, or rather have a friend/spouse whose life would be little or no different if you were dead?

2007-02-26 05:58:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have messed up really bad, i slept with my bf and i am 15
i have done the worst. and i dont want to live in this world anymore...my parents found out and i have been past the last 48 in a living nightmare
i have to break up with him but i care so much for him and i dont want to ....but i am going to because i cant lie anymore,according to my parents i cant talk to him, send him notes, i cant even look at him.... i feel horrible about the whole thing but my parents think i only think about myself and that i dont care about how they feel, but i do, i do very much, and i have regain their trust again
i dont know how to cope with this. so i need a little help.....

and a word of advice to others or younger.......dont be stupid, talk and be honest because lying only gets you in a deep whole, even if you can think you can get away with it, you cant so... dont

2007-02-26 05:57:39 · 21 answers · asked by its her. ♥ 1 in Family

2007-02-26 05:56:45 · 10 answers · asked by pixelchick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After having been dumped twice miserably by the same woman,...and feeling the pains of her whimsical ending of our 5 year relationship together...(by the way...no explanation for any of these departures was given either)... why is it I still have deeply hidden desires to wanna be with this unexplained departure filled woman? I know it seems silly,...but I should actually be pissed off more then anything else. We haven't verbally communicated or talked since last November,...and my friends all say I should stay clear of her without question. What do my friends know about her that they're simply not telling me?...and why? She still confides in a couple of my pals. So what's up with that stuff reasonably? My feelings for this woman are not feeling normal by most of my previous relationship standards. I should be looking in another direction right now to deflect recent events assuredly. So why am I still stewing about her anyways? Any thoughts reasonably?....and try to be nice about it.

2007-02-26 05:56:42 · 1 answers · asked by scott s 6 in Singles & Dating

I want it always, she wants it never. I try to tend to her needs, take care of the kids, rub her feet, do the dishes, get up in the night if the kids need me, had a vasectomy so she wouldn't have to go through any more pain. Seems like every other day would be reasonable; half the time we do what she wants (no sex) half the time what I want. Is this unreasonable?

2007-02-26 05:56:31 · 23 answers · asked by Killer B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating this guy for 3 years, we got engaged the last year of the relationship. Six months ago we broke up; I ended it because I felt like he did not appreciate what he had at home. For example he stayed out late and I found out he was talking to an ex on the phone. Besides that no real extreme issues. I was just fed up so I ended it. He pleaded and pleaded to try to work it out...I ignored him and his calls. I recently ran into him at a get to gather our friends had. We had not seen each other in almost 6 months. I knew he was there but he did not know I was coming. He was shocked! We all (friends and him) talked about our break up. He says he has really changed and realized what a good person he lost. Should I believe him and give him another chance?

2007-02-26 05:56:07 · 26 answers · asked by female83 2 in Singles & Dating