The other night we were joking around but being serious at the same time, and i said that we would never have sex again, and she said she was fine with that, and that she didnt "need" sex. and than i asked her if she even likes doing it or if she does it just to make me happy, and she said both, she does it sometimes cause she wants to and other times cause i want to. now i have told her before that i dont "need" sex either so im not to concerned about that but should i feel bad that she dose it sometimes cause i want to and that she dosent need it or is she just being a normal women????
2007-02-26 05:50:04 · 14 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like your NOT fulfilling her needs and it is very, very possible she may have someone on the side that is fulfilling her needs.
2007-02-26 05:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by cornbread3604 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't joke around as now you both could be hurting. Some girls don't have a big sex drive and can do without it longer than others, but she shouldn't do it because you do. Both of you need to talk about what you both want in the relationship and what you both like in bed
2007-02-26 05:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't ask a question unless your ready to hear something you may not want to. You asked her and sounds like she was being honest. Also, it's normal to not want it all the time. If she does it sometimes because you want to she's being thoughtful, don't you think? Of coarse you want your partner to want you but I wouldn't worry about it if it isn't happening all the time. If your not worried about it than thats what matters. Who cares what other people may tell you. Love is not easy just go with the flow and like us all you learn as you go....:o)
2007-02-26 06:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Poptart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess women are just wired a little bit differently when it comes to sex. Sure we want it but perhaps our partner wants it more often than we do so we get in the mood to be able to please them. I wouldn't feel bad about her comments. I've done it plenty of times with my man when he was the one in the mood, but once we get going I usually find myself equally as excited about it. I don't think your gf meant to come across as though it's just for you and she'll lay there and take it to make you happy, I think she was just saying that the mood sometimes needs some persuasion (sp?).
2007-02-26 05:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by JD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. do u always do it cz u want to or maybe u do it sometimes to please her ? :P it doesnt mean she doesnt like it but as a person she just might not be so excited everytime... i would say its normal... and yes no need to feel bad ... if u guys r happy then let it be it and dont let such things come between... if u love each other then sex comes second.. and since u dont seem to have a problem with that then just enjoy it :P
2007-02-26 06:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so sensative! Women can go a lot longer without sex than men, and recieving love and affection from you is sometimes better than sex. Consider yourself lucky that she "does it" for you at times, some women make guys wait until they are damn good and ready to give it to them......
2007-02-26 05:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by bossfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are playing a silly game. Women can go a long time with out it, so if you want it your going to have to make the first move, she might just want to see when you'll break
2007-02-26 05:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal for men and women to want to please and satisfy each other. No relationship can last for long when one or both partners care only about their own sexual pleasure and don't care about the other's need for the same.
And my advice to you is to go out of your way to please your girlfriend too, just as she has done with you. That's what love is all about.
2007-02-26 06:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just a normal woman, but if you marry her,, sex will end, to get her excited about sex try different things, woman like sex for the closeness to their guys,, guys like sex for the O.
2007-02-26 05:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is being a normal woman. We dont want to do it 24/7....i mean we do have a good week when we might.....there is nothing to worry about!
2007-02-26 05:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋