I just reentered the dating scene and I am trying the online dating services. Is it ok to be speaking to other women as I am dating others? Or should I just be communicating with one at a time?
2007-02-26 05:51:23 · 30 answers · asked by Ken R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really don't believe so.
Its fine to talk to other women while dating ... sure. But to date someone else while dating another. I really think thats wrong.
You should give your undivided attention to one at a time. What happens if you miss out on the only one for you because you had to divide your time between two girls?!
2007-02-26 05:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that it is okay since you are just entering the dating sence. Do not get serious with one woman however if you are talking to many and dont keep it a secret. You are just trying to find qualities in a person that you want. Dating is playing the field. Seeing what works and what doesnt. It just becomes bad when it is done secretely and your playing with the womans emotions. Just be honest." He I like you but I'm in a dating process.. right now I'm just trying to have a good time and figure out what I want in a person, if your up to have a good time, let's go on a few dates.. if your looking for a full relationship right now.. I'm not your guy."
2007-02-26 13:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by youl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can pretty much do whatever you want as long as you're being honest and fair with the women involved. That is, don't tell a woman that she's the only one you're seeing if she isn't (= being honest), and don't expect a woman to stop dating other men unless you stop dating other women, too (= being fair).
I think that it's so easy to meet potential partners nowadays (thanks to online services) that **generally** people don't presume you're exclusive unless you have the talk or are leading them on by the way you conduct yourself.
Good luck!
2007-02-26 14:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u can have 1st or 2nd dates with a few different women. but once you start liking someone, and have the first kiss, you need to drop the others.
i think its totally ok to get to know different ppl while u are single, by having a date or two. but u need to stop as soon as there is a connection with one, as in u kiss, or you're really into eachother. otherwise when the girl finds out, she won't be so happy and you'll loose her.
2007-02-26 13:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by jeannes85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok to date several women at once as long as they know that you are 'dating around' and aren't up for anything serious at the moment. It's NOT ok however, to sleep with a bunch of women at the same time...that's std city!
2007-02-26 13:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not having sex with different women while you are dating them, and they know there are other women you're seeing. Let them know when one of the women become more exclusive. Don't use the dating service for sex only.
2007-02-26 13:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by scarfyrre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the girls know and you dont have to lie by doing so, then i dont see anything wrong with it. Its just dating. I would make sure all the women dont have a problem with it. Also i wouldnt lead them on to anything more than you want it to be..... You're just dating...but you dont want to get cuaght up in anything that can get you in trouble, especially if you end up really liking one of them in particular!
2007-02-26 13:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to date more than one woman as long as she doesn't think you are exclusive.
Especially with an on line service, you certainly can be in contact with more than one person. It's possible you won't go on more than one date with most of them! Keep your options open until you find someone you know you want to be with.
2007-02-26 13:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around and you could answer your own question. Is it ok for the girl you are taking to on the internet to be tring to hook up with another guy to see who is better or to talk to you only and to see if your a decent guy or not. Would you feel hurt or betrayed?
2007-02-26 13:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that seeing other women at the same time is ok... but dont have sex with them all. When you know which one you want a "relationship" with.... then you should only see her. Alot of it depends on your age, how you engage yourself with these women. Are you telling them they are the only one?
2007-02-26 13:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋