Okay when we first started he made clear that we will not answer each others phone. Now he thinks it's cute for him to answer my phone even if it's my mom calling.
I mean his phone rings like crazy at all times of the day and i don't reach for it to answer it.
WELL last night my cell rang and I was in the bathroom and when i came out he was talking to someone on the phone. I mean being rude. I reached and toke my phone and apologized. It was my uncle from out of state whom i haven't talked to in a while. Did i have the right to go off on him? I mean he was the one with the idea in the first place!!!
2007-02-26 05:55:30 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you have the right to cuss him out. Not only for going back on his idea but also for being rude to one of your relatives! It's great that you two are far enough into the relationship that he feels comfortable talking to your family, but show some respect dude!
He should apologize profusely. You should make him win back your trust with hard labor, like polishing your car or something. And tell him NEXT time, he should discuss whether or not the rules have changed before he does something like that. Sheeesh!
2007-02-26 06:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt make a difference if he was rude or not. It doesnt matter if youre married or not... He doesnt not need to be answering your phone. Trust me that is a problem that starts early and turns into something else. Kind of like a snowball, it starts off small, but then before you know it.... your email will be getting checked, he's going to start going through your stuff (if he already hasnt) From experience, it's a trust issue. Anyone that can not trust you is not worth the headache or the time. Talk to him and if he cant respect your privacy your belongings, etc. then leave. I hate to sound harsh, but from experience I know where this can lead.
2007-02-26 06:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is kind of an ivasion of your privacy... it is your cell phone after all. if you don't like the idea of answering each other's calls, confront him about it. say that you respect his privacy and would appreciate it if he respected yours as well. if this is a sneaky attempt at probing around your life because he's insecure or suspicious, then maybe he should just realize that answering your cell is not the way to go at it.. nothing beats good, open communication between two people in a relationship.
2007-02-26 06:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you had a right, if that was a rule that you too or he made and you agreed to it then he needs to stick by it. You go girl!
My question would be why did he want that and then changed?
Was he talking with someone he didn't want you to know about and now he's wondering if your doing the same? hummmm?
2007-02-26 06:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sound like he has control issues. If you're going to stay with him and don't want him answering your phone, take it with you everywhere, even to the bathroom. He has NO excuse for being rude to anyone who calls you! That is inexcusable!
2007-02-26 06:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you should be mad and I feel you should sit down with him and tell him why you are mad. That is not ok if you agreed to not answer each others phones. I think he was Jealous and thought it was some guy trying to take u from him. Anyway tell him that wasn't ok and let him know u mean it no answering your phone.
2007-02-26 06:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Amie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes. 1. it was his rule not to answer each others phones. 2. he was rude to a family member of yours. i would question why he made that rule in the first place. maybe he has girls calling his phone and thats why he doesn't want you to answer.
2007-02-26 06:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by ravinskye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree that you have the right to go off on him......even without him making the "rule" that you do not answer each other's phones.......speaking rudely to anyone that calls you.......is just not acceptable....and what does he have to hide that he doesn't want you answering your phone anyway???? that seems a bit odd to me
2007-02-26 06:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by mystic_whispers_of_my_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u had every right too say what u had to say its sad how he made that agreement with u and then turns around and does that and if he keeps doing that sounds like he cant trust u and thats the case then dont waste ur time with some body that plays games like that good luck
2007-02-26 06:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you lot??
you are boy/girl
what have you to hide?
i dont have a mobile phone but hubby has & he has never said dont ever answer my phone, if he had said that i would want to know what the heck is he hiding?
but I rarely answer it & he yells out "get the phone"
2007-02-26 07:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋