is it wrong to keep waiting for this guy that i love or should i move on??because it dosent seem he wants to be tied down..i have no doubt he loves me he just is unsure
2007-02-26 05:50:19 · 28 answers · asked by A-Trip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pls do not wait and because if you wait and many cute guys will be asking you out and you tell them no thanks and later you found out that person you been waiting for find other woman better than you then you would go back find those guys been asking you out but find out they date someone or married or become gay or somethign but who knows... I think you should move on and that way you not waiting.. and if he did come to you want you back and want to dat eyou what ever it is tell him it too late I am in love with my man... you made that choice not sure and I made the choice not waiting for you.
2007-02-26 05:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Strange, I have been spending much time thinking about the same thing! My boyfriend says loves me but does not want to be tied down. I think this is a complete contradiction. Yesterday I told him that I deserved more and that I was not going to wait around till he decides that
things can go up a level, I am pushing 30, I want to settle down. This shocked the life out of him as I have never given him an ultimatum before. The way I look at it is that yes, it hurt because I do love him, but if he really does love me, and I am really the one he will choose me, if not
then I was waiting around for the wrong man.
Good Luck, and tell him how you feel.
2007-02-26 14:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by mary m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short and painful answer is no. Simply because you want something he doesn't. You might run into some one who is looking for the same level of commitment you are. If you pair up with a person that is looking for the same level of commitment then your relationship can be long lived. Most likely all you can get from a relationship with this guy is some short-lived fun times.
The long complicated answer is that love is really strange there is a remote chance that once you start dating your uncommitted man he might realize that you are the one he wants but this realization can only come via comparison he will have to date other women to realize that you are his true love he might date you and other women simultaneously if you tolerate that or break up with you to date other women. This is very painful I really don't recommend it because even if he does realize that no one will love him like you would he might still find that he loves some one else or that he still has lots of dating before he commits to you.
2007-02-26 14:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by stalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not "wrong" but likely a waste of time. This life is too short to sit around waiting on others to make time for us or to do what we want...move on...if he decides he wants a relationship with you in the future, and you are free at that time, then you two can explore that together then...
Don't sit around waiting for something that may never come to pass...
2007-02-26 13:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take A-Trip it can lead to nothing but heartache there should be a compromise and not your body if you are not ready there is someone is better who is willing to wait so trust in Jesus have faith that he will provide Leviticus 18 speaks on the subject and knowing what you want and standing up for it is just a piece of advice you might want to consider believe I know there was a time I should have!
2007-02-26 14:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on. If he doesnt want to be tied down, how is he going to handle marriage? Kids? a full time job? Let him go and find someone that wants a future with you.
2007-02-26 13:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste a single moment of your youth waiting for some man. You do not get this time back again. If it's meant to be, he'll come around. If not, then at least you have no regrets in wasting any time waiting for him.
2007-02-26 13:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it is wrong for you to keep waiting. Life is too precious to just sit and wait. Theres a whole world of opportunities you should be seeking. If he really cares, he will let you know. If not Live your life. bettyk
2007-02-26 13:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by elisayn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't ask yourself that much what he wants...it should be more important what you want...If you love him and you think he could be "The one" for you, than wait..Otherwise, move on and keep looking for you true happiness.
2007-02-26 13:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by Cory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-02-26 13:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋