Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

dont want to tell her around people in case she turns me down in front of them and makes me look like an idiot for the rest of my life

2007-02-22 08:30:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were given a girls number that you don't really know is texting a message ok before you actually call?

2007-02-22 08:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by Confused78 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy who i became really good friends with (because his best friend liked me then started liking some other girl.. and he was there to help me through it..) so anyways, he's told me a million times he Really likes me a lot and all this stuff lately.. but i've told him i just want to be friends (because i don't see him that way.. i see him as a good friend that's it..) and so he decided he wants to still "hang out" but to him is he still thinking of it as a Date?? because i think he will.. so i don't know if i should? the last time we hung out, i made it clear it was as friends, and we went and saw a movie.. and then that next night was when he told me he really liked me a lot.. so if i go out with him again i don't know if that will be good..?!! but if we are just friends then i don't want to be like i don't want to even hang out with you. but basically it's the same as like a date.. so when guys say hang out do they really mean it? any advice or thoughts??! thanks.

2007-02-22 08:29:41 · 11 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I think childhood ends when a person becomes sexually aware ..... then your thoughts seem to focus on the opposite sex .... and childlike play becomes secondary. Other times I think it just ends at a event in your life .... like entering high school ..... or graduating from high school ..... or even college.
At what age do you think your childhood ended ...... and when does it end for most people ??

2007-02-22 08:29:15 · 8 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im getting depressed about this i love him but he dont love me please help!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-02-22 08:29:01 · 2 answers · asked by courtney M 1 in Singles & Dating

A new one.. not over say... 1 month.

ready


set...


Go!!

2007-02-22 08:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by Derrick Zooolander 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to go out with him but I can't talk!

2007-02-22 08:28:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that we would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote "that we can meet up

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continues..." that if I wanna meet up sometimes we can" But he can't say that he is interested in meeting up as an ongoing thing" How would you interpret that...

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He told me that he is shy when it comes to women because he has been rejected alot in the past...and that he chooses not to pursue women, but he didn't give ny explanation as to why he doesn't

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Well.technically speaking he has asked me on a date..well not a date ..but he has offered that we work out together..and wants to see me play basketball..but then again he never followed through..

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Not to keep rambling on...But when we did work out togethere a few weeks ago...he kept saying you don't have to be here if you don't want to" and I 'm thinking geez why would he think that...then while we were working out..he picked up my phone and looked at it before handing it too me...and told me who it was...now that was weird to me

2007-02-22 08:27:41 · 3 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Friends

My husband is telling people that he left me and the two kids because he was unhappy for all ten years of the marriage. He actually left after he got involved with a woman who lives four blocks away, who is separated but not divorced. He then moved down the street and so the whole thing is in my face daily. I am having a hard time saying to people that he left and then wondering whether to tell people the part about the other woman.

2007-02-22 08:25:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you leave these photos to remind your ex of what they've lost or would you take them fearing revenge?

2007-02-22 08:25:25 · 20 answers · asked by mark my words 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom went through my email account without my permission and read an email and got mad at me for it.

2007-02-22 08:25:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anna 3 in Family

more specifiacally the players...... I have liked some bad boys, and I wonder what makes it so atractive about them? It is frustrating because u know u are going to wind up hurt but still you do it anyways........

2007-02-22 08:24:22 · 13 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Singles & Dating

He has hurt and used me over and over and I think I have finally fallen out of love with him. Is this possible? Has it happened to you? We are talking about a love you thought would always be there.

2007-02-22 08:24:03 · 16 answers · asked by jlynna10 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends, well I don't really hang out with her much, but I know her. She's getting married this Saturday. A couple of months ago, I noticed some of our friends chatting about getting invitations, and I began 2 wonder if I would be invited. A couple of weeks ago, she came up 2 me, and said " I wanted 2 tell u that u and your family are invited 2 the wedding, but I ran out of invitations. But your definetly invited." I don't know if she was saying that just to be nice, or if that was really an invitation to her wedding. A wedding shower was thrown 4 them, but I wasn't invited 2 that, so I didn't go. But I feel like since I didn't get her and her fiance' anything, and that I didn't get a real invitation, that I shouldn't go 2 the wedding. What do u think? A couple of my friends have told me that they already RSVPed 4 it, & they were going. She didn't tell me I had 2 RSVP, so I don't know if I still have 2, if i'm planning 2 go? I want 2 go, but I just don't know if i'm welcome?

2007-02-22 08:24:00 · 19 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Weddings

I had a LOVE affair with a women for 2 years. We loved eachother. Her Husband found out by hiring a PI. She is going to counciling and sent me an emil basically telling me she is going to try to fix her marriage and familiy. There are Kids involved. I told her to go work on her marriage since that is what she comitted to do. She still calls me-tells me she loves me- is not sure what to do. I have told her to go make it right with her husband-she is not ready to leave him. I think she is stringing me along in case it does not work out. I ahve told her this and she tells me nothing has been decided yet. She is just trying to stabilize her kids situation. I would marry her because I love her. My instincts keep telling me that i am being strung along and I need to tell her NOT to call unless she is really ready to leave her husband. To go make it work...or split with him and then we can make plans. Do you agree? What are my options?

2007-02-22 08:22:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 17 F from Northern Cali, just north of the Bay Area (by Wine Country). I am not interested in men, don't have a man, and consider my self a lesbian. I am freaky, and love anything kinky. Older women are a +, I'd love to have a mom-type to show me the ropes, and my age or younger are also a huge +... but I am open to any and all womyn! Look forward to hearing from you girls. Here is a link to my pics:

http://new.photos.yahoo.com/jessica030186/album/576460762371283243

2007-02-22 08:22:50 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica M 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-22 08:22:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend treats me like i dont excist when his son is here.he says it might upset him but even when his son is asleep i cant give him a cuddle without him sayin keep the noise down he might wake up

2007-02-22 08:21:35 · 22 answers · asked by welshpinkbaby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I'm 17 now and I have been dating my boyfriend for a while. Anyways he's my first boyfriend and I'm really not allowed to date. Well my mom and dad dont really mind. It's just my grandfather that I'm worried about (I live with my grandparents). My mom got pregnant with me while she was in high school and he thinks that because I do alot of things like my mom, I'm going to go out and do the same thing she did( get pregnant). I'm wondering whether or not I should tell him about my boyfriend. It's not like I dont have any experience with guys, because I've talked to alot of different guys just never thought much of any of them to actually make them my boyfriend. I'm clueless at the moment because I think its time I tell them about him. What do you think I should do?

2007-02-22 08:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by marcy_baby89 1 in Family

How'd that work out?

2007-02-22 08:21:26 · 7 answers · asked by Bart Simpson 2 in Singles & Dating

Any nice, secluded place we could go? Plus...once we become "hubby and wifey," how long do you think we should stay out of the office (meaning "extend our honeymoon")? When should we get back to the office? She's the accounting dep. head, and I'm an accounting supervisor.

2007-02-22 08:20:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been friends with Angela for 3 yrs. She is 3 yrs & 8mths older than I am. When we met I was 21 & she was 25. I am now 24 and she's 28. We became instant best friends. We went through everything together. I was immediately in love w/ her. In fact, the first 6 months I knew her I asked her out like 5 or 6 times all w/ resounding, no's. But we still maintained an AWESOME unconquerable friendship. We started dating after my paw-paw passed away. We dated for a year but argued too much. We still maintained the friendship...BEST friends. We had sex for about 5 months after we broke up. It has now been 3 months since we've done it, & she's gettin ready to move to a whole other state (13hrs away) I've asked her to take me back numerous times but she says no, but I still see some fight in her eyes, like hesitation. I don't want to pester her, we REALLY are best friends. She wants me to be happy, and I want her to be happy. My question: How do I make myself more appealing to her sexually?

2007-02-22 08:20:26 · 5 answers · asked by chrissexysmile 1 in Friends

I've been married to my husband for 3 years. He's been a great step dad to my two kids and a good husband. Few days ago, i met with my ex (kids' father) at his apartment to discuss plans for our daughter's birthday and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I feel so bad. i didn't plan on it happening. Should I confess to my husband?

2007-02-22 08:19:51 · 49 answers · asked by Sarah Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was simply walking through the park close to where i live and i fell in love again. I do not believe this happens to other people as often as it happens to me. What i want to know is... what is the best way to get this off my clothes, i have tried everything, putting them on a boil wash to using a scrubbing brush, i have heard that freezing the clothes is the best way. Please let me know..
Oops, sorry i meant so say i fell on some gum.
Thanks for any answers in advance

2007-02-22 08:19:37 · 18 answers · asked by dave h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 08:19:06 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

my sisters children were taken of her about 8 years ago, i dont know reason y, and they were put in to care, uk, my niece now 14, wants contact with me, she has phone contact, her social worker is aware of this, and so is the childrens home and they are happy with this, we are actually considering visiting her, which the social worker has said will be unsupervised, my sister has to have supervised contact at her daughters request. but my sisters not impressed with my contact, only cos she is not in control, can she stop it, whats her parental rights, considering all of her 6 kids r under care order, and 2 little ones possibly being adopted,

2007-02-22 08:18:39 · 6 answers · asked by sue 3 in Family

she throws things on the floor and is allways shouting

2007-02-22 08:18:25 · 45 answers · asked by joseph b 1 in Family

How do you trust someone who has cheated?

2007-02-22 08:17:46 · 14 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a really nice girl who is good friends with my new friends. She seemed very shy, so how should I approach her to be my friend without scaring her away! ;)

2007-02-22 08:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by none 2 in Friends

2007-02-22 08:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends