Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

It just seems that all the cute guys are taken and only the geeks and freaks ask me out. Im 16 and i only kissed a guy once. I know you can't make guys like you, but any tips on getting a boyfriend or something? My friend gets all guys because she sleeps with everyone (those were her words) but i don't want to be that kind of a girl. Any help?

2007-02-22 09:04:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are in our 40's. there was a huge mutual attraction and after the second date he said that he wants me sexually very badly but knows i don't want that. i invited him over for dinner and he said no he wants me sexually and knows i don't want that. i want to know him better before getting physical. is he saying he already knows he could never feel anything but lust for me? how is that possible? i don't know what i could feel for him in the future since i don't know him yet. someone please explain this - hopefully a man in our age group. thanks!

2007-02-22 09:03:51 · 6 answers · asked by sue s 1 in Singles & Dating

make new friends here, the friends i have are never on and they never e-mail me back, its been almost two months now.

2007-02-22 09:03:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not a pervert but i just don't know what goes on. I have heard a lot of bad stories and want to know if they are true or not. I trust my fiancé not to do anything but i would still be really upset if someone touched him even if he didn't reciprocate.

2007-02-22 09:03:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I’m 22, my co-worker is in the 40’s and married with kids. He is always telling me that he cares for me and loves me and wanting to do things for me. I have made it Clear that there could be nothing between us and that I have a boyfriend. My co-worker got a job offer that pays him a lot more and it is a better position than what he has not. He is turning this job down because he says he wants to see me every day. I think that it is a great opportunity for him and he should take it. I’m not sure what to tell him and what else I can do to discourage these feelings he claims he has.

2007-02-22 09:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by N 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and in 10th grade, my gf is 15. I had my first kisses with my last gf and she liked how i did it.... but this one says that she's uncomfortable with me getting so close when I'm kissing. she sais she is fine with kissing, but she doesnt like my body being so close to hers. how do you comfortably kiss w/o being at least almost pressed up against the person? (I'm not talking about a little peck where u just lean over give her a peck and back off, I mean long kisses. not french kisses, just long ones).

2007-02-22 09:03:09 · 2 answers · asked by new b-boy 2 in Singles & Dating

Sure, we are pretty strapped for cash these days, but he's known about this day for 1 year now!! Plus, I've been reminding him every other day!! Then, a few days after our anniversary, he went out with his buddy and bought himself a new stereo system for his car. And still, not even a card. He said when we got some money, we needed to go on a trip together. well, the money came and went and not a word about any such trip. He's only making plans with his buudy instaed!

2007-02-22 09:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by hotrodhedda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 13 my boyfriend is 13 he gave me a yeke on my neck how ever u spell that so whats so bed about it

2007-02-22 09:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by cupcake 2 in Singles & Dating

PSP, ipod nano, ipod video, or cell phone? and YES i have the looks and personality but i just want to know what i should get.

2007-02-22 09:01:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have already asked a similar question, but I am still confused. I know that I cannot get inside my ex's head, but we have technically known each other since we were 16 and we are both 24 now. We got back in contact with each other last may and still had feelings for each other so we got back together. things were more intense this time and we had a lot of problems. I know there were a lot of things I said to him a few days before we stopped talking. I was really angry with him for not coming to see me for christmas. I don't know if he just didn't have the guts to break it off and just thought cutting me out of his life was easier or what. This kind of behavior isn't like him because we have known each other for so long and we would always get back in contact with each other. I really believe he loved me and can't undersatnd what I did. He did text me back and tell me he missed me.. he put a sad face next to it. this is the last I have really heard from him. I cling on to those words

2007-02-22 09:01:20 · 8 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1 in Singles & Dating

He sweettalked me just to get some... now i found out he used me... but i still want him... i have a million and one reasons to hate him but i dont... what should I do??

2007-02-22 09:01:20 · 16 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

Couple have not lived with each other for 24 years. Each went their separate ways and since lived with another person for all these years. The couple did have on child together and she is 24 and married on her own. They live in Alaska.

2007-02-22 09:00:59 · 8 answers · asked by ginger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i always feel worried and suspicious that my boyfriend thinks other girls are prettier or more interesting than me, etc...
i used to not be so insecure, trust me. i'm very confident otherwise.
but ever since he and i started dating, he would comment on other girls because i would talk about other guys sometimes without noticing. he stopped doing that after awhile, but....
i still feel like i'm not the number 1 girl on his mind....
i used to feel like number 1 to him (we dated for 2 yrs a long time ago, and he wanted to marry me) but then i dumped him for half a yr because i wasn't ready for marriage, and after that, he made me wait, and only after 2 girls rejected him, he came back to me. those 2 girls are so ordinary and not his type!! he used to only go for girls who look like me (even before he met me)!!!
i really like him but... i don't know what to do, because he's so sweet now and so much more considerate than he used to be.
help!! i need HONEST advice, please.

2007-02-22 09:00:44 · 12 answers · asked by aMeNa_aCid* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 09:00:38 · 11 answers · asked by PrettyLittleLiar 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys, would you rather have a girl (who likes you) be straight forward with you, and skip all the little games?

2007-02-22 09:00:34 · 5 answers · asked by kittenraz1 1 in Singles & Dating

he's sits next to me in math class and i caught him staring at me a few times today i heard him say to his friends " shh she doesn't know yet" i like him but lately i've been depresed because i might have to get surgery what should i do??

2007-02-22 09:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

i am really depressed i have been with my partner for 8 months, we live together...i love her to pieces, and she is wanting freedom and claiming shes not in love with me anymore. When shes gone i cant think about anyone else, or anything else. Im alone here with no friends....Its hard to let her go. We have all these plans for the future.

2007-02-22 08:59:19 · 12 answers · asked by joni_noel 2 in Singles & Dating

Im talking about a guy that doesn't at all care about a girl, her feelings or anyone else. what is the worse damage he can do?
(my friend is determined ot ask out this horrible guy, i need to know what to prepare for)

2007-02-22 08:58:36 · 18 answers · asked by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a weird story, I’ve always been shy, and timid around women. I was merry for 18 yrs. And Have a beautiful son, and a beautiful daughter. My daughter has 3 kids, and my son just had a son of he’s own. They are the joy of my life.

Juli and I have been friends for a long time, in the last 5 years we have been in each other’s company, and up until a year ago last Christmas we were find except for the my problem. About that time I was hearing about Juli having sex with another man. I was sick, I asked her about it and she admitted it, and I left her for a year.

If she want to do that I know that I have no say in it, and know that she’s a grow women and she can do what ever she wants. I know I can’t change her I can only change myself. So I stayed away for a whole lonely year. No contact.

About a week ago I heard that her son had passed a milestone in his life, He’s 12. So I agonized over this for a couple days, and finally called her to congregate David.
David and me get along fine, and I care for him and his mother very much. She said that she messed me and that she wanted me back in her life, but with no sex. It is not like I would attack her or anything like that, NO, NO,
NO. But I would like to think that in the future, that we could be intimate and maybe think about a family. We’re both in our 50’s, but she is the most beautiful woman I’ve ever known in my life. I don’t know how long I can take this. Being away from her is just killing me.
Lou Cortez

2007-02-22 08:58:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so this guy asked me out and i don't know if i like him enough to go out with him but hes all i think about i just don't know what to do . HELP!!!!!

2007-02-22 08:57:59 · 4 answers · asked by tamra l 1 in Singles & Dating

My boy friend seems very into it.
I did it twice, but I felt I didn't do it right. because he was excited, but not that much.
So, how to do a blxx job properly? thanks.

2007-02-22 08:57:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 08:57:11 · 13 answers · asked by Brit 1 in Singles & Dating

Do men prefer hairy or shaven?
I feel really self conscious because my bf told me all the girls he's slept with in the past were shaven, and im not. I trim a bit, but i am natural. I have VERY sensitive skin and ive tried various methods of shaving, creams and gels, home wax kits and whatnot. Its always good the first day, but after that, its just so painful.

I want to be able to get rid of hair without the excruciating agony.

is there any way without going to a salon and having someone else do it? HELP!

2007-02-22 08:56:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i called this guy that i have crushin on for a year now and told him he was "eating me alive" he told me it was mutual and that he thought I was beautiful. He said he had no idea thats how i felt. He also said he has been dating someone for a month now and he wants to be honest with me thats why he is telling me that but he continued to tell me that im so beautiful.So i told him he had to tell me to let it go and move on and he said no, i told him he had to, he said he cant because im beautiful.So what is going on with this? What do I get from this? Was he sparing my feelings by not telling me to move on or is he in a pickle now and is confused on what to do?

2007-02-22 08:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who i have become very close too and i genuinely care for him. How do you know when you cross over from caring about that person to actually loving him? I would not want to imagine my life without him.

2007-02-22 08:56:25 · 3 answers · asked by Bellababygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this mean girl in my class who was trying to fight me just because I told her I wasn't the line leader and she thought I was getting loud but I wasn't and her friend held her back and said I was about to die and she said she didn't care if I went to the guidance counselor I want to tell my 2 sisters and mom but they get crazy when it comes to someone bothering me What should I do?The teacher was right there and didn't do anything about it and she wants to fight 1 of my other friends but she is not in my homeroom class.This is a violent girl and all she does is fight I've never done anything to her

2007-02-22 08:55:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just wondering If any guys had to wear their wife's panties and lingere that they made them wear just wound the house or what not.

2007-02-22 08:55:30 · 17 answers · asked by manandy55 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are planning an engagement party for my new fiance and I? Should we register for gifts before this event or wait until the bridal shower? We are planning a long engagement, wedding is 2 years away.

2007-02-22 08:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by emeralds821 1 in Weddings

well im w/this guy who weve been 2gether since January 12 2007 and he lives in another city. hes my friends cuzin and well at a party we got together but we only see each other like wen theres parties at my friends house and thats like once a month! i gave him my # and he gave me his but all my friends tell me not to call him cuz guys are the ones that are supposed to call u so im disapointed cuz he might think i dont care about him or that i dont like him wat if hes thinking the same thing? hes only called me twice and so have i! and how do i know hes cheating on me? i mean he added me on myspace but he rarley goes on it check him out for me www.myspace.com/keila_luvs_u hes on my top one.

please help

2007-02-22 08:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Kay-Luh<3 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this girl in my class she too feel she pretty an she is totally NOT(no offense) she always talking bout other people an how they ugly but sometimes i have to wonder if she ever look in the mirror or even own one l.o.l
then one day in interpersonal relationship the teacher was talking bout bad odors coming from our body and she some girls to stand up in the corner and they started to laugh an look on her as yea then iwas talking to my classmate one day an she told this other girl in the class (who is very quiet u don't know the girl at school sometimes) say that how ( the girl's name ) arm booming like stonewall( a music production its like a D.J, they play very loud music ) so now i have to wonder if someone should go to her an tell her or just out of niceness and the classes HEALTH buy her deoderant or a giftset
WHAT SHOULD ME AND MY CLASSMATES DO SHE'S KILLING US!?

2007-02-22 08:55:06 · 5 answers · asked by Honestly 3 in Friends