Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

i'm trying to find out what guys should really be like and not the phonies they act like

2007-02-22 09:19:37 · 11 answers · asked by snookie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i used to have this boyfriend. and we were in love. And i know we were. Like i've never felt like that about any other person. we went out for ten months. And we broke up in November. Things have never been the same. Well he's now talking to 2 other girls. But like he doesn't seem to like them around me but everyone is like telling me things. The other day he told me he still loved me. And i told him i wasn't ready for that. Cuz our relationship was really.. i cried alot. He didn't but i did. And he said okay then. And he gets 2 new girls. And now he talks to me like its no big thing and i try to act like it but then i have to like leave cuz i start crying. I just feel so stupid about it to.. And i mean i told myself "I'm not going to talk to him. I'm not going to talk to him.." but yet again i still do. And i cry and i cry and i cry. Even when i see him i cry. I miss him so much. SO what do i do? i have no idea where to go from here.

2007-02-22 09:19:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jade B 1 in Singles & Dating

ive heard that coloured guys make great lovers, but is that a fact or is it just a myth,ive heard they are generally have a larger penis than white men and have more physical stamina when making love and better sexual technique is this true, can anyone help me with this question especially if your a white girl in a relationship with a black guy i am interested to know and can you give me reasons why or why not these facts are true or false.

2007-02-22 09:19:21 · 1 answers · asked by leanne 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I get his family to stop bugging him about how different we are.
He lives and supports his family but all they talk about is how white our kids would turn out to be or how I don't eat the food as him.
It's really starting to get on my nerves and his nerves he tells me just to ignore it but when your under the same roof, that's kinda hard

2007-02-22 09:18:53 · 1 answers · asked by Peacen 3 in Family

i Am working on searching for a wonderful family but how to choose an agency online is almost impossible. So many I just don't know where to start. I do plan to move if the right family comes along which makes choosing a site right for me even more tricky. any advice!

2007-02-22 09:18:28 · 1 answers · asked by jennybeninni 1 in Family

He is the only guy in the group that she does this to. She hugs and is playful with him often, even in front of me...should I be bothered?

2007-02-22 09:18:01 · 1 answers · asked by Noodles 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I let a man know I love him without saying those exact words? I am looking for a different way of saying it. Not in a foreign language just some other words that tell him how much he means to me. Thanks!

2007-02-22 09:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

This boy says to everyone that he likes me behind my back, but to my face(sort of) he says not really. I can't forget about him and move on! Any suggestions?

2007-02-22 09:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by blah blah blah 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I have been together since freshman year of college, which was 4 1/2 years ago. Lately everytime I talk to a friend they ask if we are engaged yet. While I am anxious to get engaged to him (it will be somtime this year, I have no idea when) I am getting sick of everyone asking. On top of that I recently found out that at least once a month a few of my girlfriends talk about our wedding & what a huge & great party it is going to be. I have found out from a few other friends as well that they are expecting this great party. I am starting to feel pressured to throw this amazing & entricate wedding & while I am sure my wedding will be wonderful & fun & coordinated becuase that is the kind of person I am, I am getting sik of the pressure & being asked when are we getting engaged. Now his family is starting! How do I get them to stop? I have an obbsessive personailty & I am already starting to obsess about the wedding. I worry what will happen when we actually plan it

2007-02-22 09:14:52 · 11 answers · asked by Molly SH 4 in Weddings

2007-02-22 09:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Manolo L 1 in Singles & Dating

I just had a conversation with a guy that I know. I just walked up to him and asked, "you don't like me do you?" He was taken aback and naturally denied it. I brought up the fact that whenever we cross paths he looks the other way when saying "hi" or something. He said, "Well...I don't do it consciously. I'm sorry if I do, I don't do it on purpose." That is what caught me. He actually does not look at me when passing by; he isn't rude or anything, but he just talks to the wall almost. (well, when I was just talking to him, we had a face-to-face little conversation. He didn't appear nervous, but he looked and seemed like he liked it that I was talking to him) There have been other instances where I looked at him and when he looked at me -- zip! he wasn't looking at me anymore. I once caught him looking at me and zip! again he really tried to look somewhere else. So, IF he said was true about not consciously looking away, does that mean he might subconsciously like me?

2007-02-22 09:14:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Scorpios...What are some dos and donts to get a Scoripo man back???
I was with a Scoripo man for a year and he recently broke up wth me because he was under A LOT of stress and we got into some trouble at school and he was upet about that too. I want him back into my life... girls and guys (scoripos) what should and shouldnt i do to get him back into my life??

2007-02-22 09:14:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 09:14:31 · 10 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to get a sugar mummies in Nairobi, please may you help me to tell how and where.

2007-02-22 09:13:44 · 1 answers · asked by kuri j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He told me h loved me and that i was the only one he loved and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and that he wanted to take me to the moon and get married...Why did he lie??when he broke up with me he told me that i was to perfect for him and that he could not fit my standerds...BUT HE LOVED me......

2007-02-22 09:12:13 · 24 answers · asked by <3[D@ViDs]_{Qt}<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I still love my ex-girlfriend. She was going through a very bad time in her life when we dated. I've heard from friends of hers that she's doing a lot better. We've had a few brief conversations, and that chemistry is still there, but I'm not sure how to get her to go out with me again. It would be too wierd to call her because we never talked on the phone....we're just not phone people I guess. But, I always catch her staring my way....or visa versa for her. I need help. I'm kind of shy and our break up was messy, so I don't know if she's still hurt.

2007-02-22 09:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please be truthful

2007-02-22 09:10:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I plan on making the food for my wedding, which will have a cocktail party reception. I only plan on making heavy hor d'Oeuvres. I'd like to know how much of each recipe (at least 7 recipes in total) should I make that will be enough to feed at least 130 people. I'd also like to know how long in advance would I be able to keep the food in the freezer prior to the reception, as well as whether or not I should heat the food when I first prepare it or should I freeze the food, uncooked, and cook it the night/morning before the wedding?

2007-02-22 09:09:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My dad is starting to annoy me. When i'm in my room in the evnings, he'll just walk in lye on my bed, flip throuh my books and start talking to me. I know this might sound wrong, but it's really annyoing!!! What should I do?

2007-02-22 09:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by flashingsigns♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never been to a bridal shower. What are good gifts for the bride? Do I get a gift for both the groom and the bride?

2007-02-22 09:08:34 · 8 answers · asked by Xica25 3 in Weddings

My best friend of 16 years is getting married, and this is my first wedding to be in. Not only is this my first wedding but I'm the maid of honor. I want to make this super special for her and we always have fun no matter what we do. I would like some unique ideas on a bachlorette party. I also am hosting the wedding shower so any fun ideas for that would be great. Our group of friends are from 21-35 and we are both 25 we live in the Minneapolis/St.Paul MN area. The wedding is in the summer/fall time so the weather will be warm. Our group is a good bunch of people and we can have a sick mind but we are not perverts!! Just love our lives and each other!!! I just want this to be the best ever!! Also any good wedding day ideas or tidbits would be wonderful!!! Thank you so much!!

2007-02-22 09:07:50 · 6 answers · asked by cyan_8199 2 in Weddings

2007-02-22 09:07:22 · 18 answers · asked by sillysimu 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 09:07:18 · 27 answers · asked by Mark S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out she always topup for any boys that she likes. She been stealing just to sustified her friends. We (my hubby n me) try to control her by not allowing her to keep hp. Later she started to steal others hp.She said the hp just like her life, she just cant live without one. She started to lie me n her friends, most of her friends hated me. I did scolded her and punished her for all the things that she did. She told her friends that i dont love her thts why im doing that to her. One of the guy that sms her asking for topup scolded me, said im better of dead being a mother to her, im useless mother, thts why my daughter wanna runaway.
IM so frustated after read all those sms. Its really kinda sad, im teaching my daughter am i wrong, by punishing her,
She never clean up her own room, clean her own plate after dinner,never pickup her own clothes, im wrong for pampered her too much, coz we have a maid to do for her everything, she is my only daughter, how can i correct things?

2007-02-22 09:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by ironlady42 4 in Family

I am a 17 F from Northern Cali, just north of the Bay Area (by Wine Country). I am not interested in men, don't have a man, and consider my self very highly curious, and a lesbian. I am freaky, and love anything kinky. Older women are a +, I'd love to have a mom-type to show me the ropes, and my age or younger are also a huge +... but I am open to any and all womyn! Look forward to hearing from you girls. Here is a link to my pics:

http://new.photos.yahoo.com/jessica030186/album/576460762371283243

2007-02-22 09:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 09:05:57 · 14 answers · asked by Julie C 1 in Singles & Dating

i started tryin 2 lern more bout my puerto rican culture=speakin spanish, hangin out wit my latino frens, all of wich i luv...but my fam don seem to approve. they almost seem to resent the fact that im latino. even tho we all noe latinos is soo cool n stuff...im jus like y cant my fam accept me for who i am? no im not adopted...my fam is black...im black n puerto rican.

2007-02-22 09:05:03 · 5 answers · asked by xNENA . 1 in Family

Did anyone find a great and deserving person who makes them happy after a breakup with a serious relationship? If so, How long did it take and How did anyone find it? Any encouraging story..

2007-02-22 09:04:58 · 19 answers · asked by sweethoney 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive only had it with skinny guys. Is a muscle man better? What is it like having sex with a huge muscle man?

2007-02-22 09:04:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I been dating this guy for 5 months, well we broke up for alittle while and im crazy about this guy I love him to death
well he was seeing a girl I was seeing this guy for about two weeks then he went to bootcamp he never wrote or called so I thought we were broken up so me and my ex got back togeather on v day well we been doing good so far and all of a sudden I get a letter from the guy I thought who I was broken up with and noticed we were still togeather and now I dont know what to do because Im not to crazy about the guy i just dated him cuz I got bored and now im with two guys one that i love one that I cant stand so how can I get rid of the guy in boot camp I just cant write him a letter saying I cheated on him?

2007-02-22 09:04:37 · 5 answers · asked by Still Inlove 2 in Friends