I been dating this guy for 5 months, well we broke up for alittle while and im crazy about this guy I love him to death
well he was seeing a girl I was seeing this guy for about two weeks then he went to bootcamp he never wrote or called so I thought we were broken up so me and my ex got back togeather on v day well we been doing good so far and all of a sudden I get a letter from the guy I thought who I was broken up with and noticed we were still togeather and now I dont know what to do because Im not to crazy about the guy i just dated him cuz I got bored and now im with two guys one that i love one that I cant stand so how can I get rid of the guy in boot camp I just cant write him a letter saying I cheated on him?
2007-02-22 09:04:37 · 5 answers · asked by Still Inlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, there are some things going on here that can be resolved. Your boyfriend and you broke it off for awhile; as in a giving each other a breather, and that happens. So you met this other one that you really liked, but here's the thing, you weren't really THAT serious about him and neither was he because he wouldn't have just left you like that for the military. Neither of you really owes the other anything, but do politely write back and explain that you thought it was over between the two of you and you are back with the ex boyfriend etc...no need for details, just make it nice and simple =). Even if you guys don't stay together doesn't mean you'll "need" to get back with the one in the military. Keep me posted! Good luck!
2007-02-22 09:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him that he took 2 long 2 write u and that u have moved on u dont got 2 say u cheated unless u want 2
2007-02-22 17:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by sasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him that you cheated on him would be very cruel. Just write him and tell him that he is a great guy, and that you appreciate his service to this country, and respect him for it. Then tell him that you will have to break up with him, because you don't hear from him often enough, and you want to go on with your life. Say, "I DO wish you happiness, and I do pray for your safety, but, I need to go on with my life." Be kind, but be honest.
2007-02-22 17:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the guy in boot camp. tell him that things have changed since he left and that you dont feel anything for him anymore. just get it over with and stay with this new guy.
2007-02-22 17:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say you cheated, just say that something happened and you don't feel it anymore, the normal break up... sumthin like that
2007-02-22 17:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Babygurlie237 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋