How did anyone find a deserving true love after a serious breakup?

Question

Did anyone find a great and deserving person who makes them happy after a breakup with a serious relationship? If so, How long did it take and How did anyone find it? Any encouraging story..

Answer 1

love wiil find you~!

Answer 2

i was forced to end a 10 year marriage, adultery, and him not wanting to work things out. thought there would never be anyone of me, my self worth was badly damaged, my ego completely gone. about 4 months after my divorce i called an old friend, i had known for many years, hoped he was still single, and wasn't in another relationship, feared rejection but decided to call anyway. well all fell into place, we got back together, have a new home much nicer than the home i lost, have a man much kinder and loyal than the one i divorced. so there is a future out there, i have to admit, i never thought i would even date again, i was that messed up, but good things do come to us, there is a god who seems to see and take care of us, he seems to put us exactly where we need to be with the person who can give us just what we need. but we have to reach out and and seek it and go after it even though we fear more pain and more hurt. we have to trust someone, although hard after a serious breakup.

Answer 3

Love really will find you. I suffered a pretty serious break-up that left me very wounded. After the break-up, I felt like I would never love again. I wasn't even sure that I could stand to love again. About 4 months later, I was out with a friend just kicking it and BAM! I wasn't looking for anyone, but I was praying that God would send me someone that would love me the right way. Believe me, he took my mind off of ALL of my problems and he's a much better man than the last.

Answer 4

I was disengaged by my ex-fiance in 1998, and then in 2000, I met the woman I married. Went over 2 years without even dating anyone. Not one date. I was sick of women, and what was worse, I hung out with a dude that never dated either. People started assuming we were a couple. Long story short, I got married in 2003 to the woman I met in 2000. Now I have a child, and a very supportive wife.

Answer 5

I was with Chris for 2 1/2 years when we broke up he promptly started having sex or dating the friends we had together. I was upset at first and then realized i didn't need or want him anyway. Once i had figured out how much better off i was without him love came sneaking up on me when i least expected only 6 months later. My husband Dennis who i have now been with for 2 years and love more each day is my soul mate. There is always hope and love comes to us all if you have the guts to try it. Heck i moved countries for my man and wouldn't change a thing

Answer 6

There are no encouraging stories. The world has become a horrible place and people are becoming more and more evil every day. Happy relationships are like the end of a rainbow that will never be reached.

Answer 7

The best answer I can give you is Don't go looking for it! The best things happen when you least expect it! I'm living proof. When I met my husband I was getting over a divorce and the Last thing i wanted in my life at the time was another relationship!! But it just happened and I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life! I believe if it's meant to happen it will!

Answer 8

I found allot of them .Married 2 but what is true love anyway. I think its all just to procreate after that I'm happy alone I have 6 kids what more does a man my age need. Thing is you really don't know what you wont until your 45 by then your to old to use it so don't be so picky

Answer 9

Keep your heart pure and your mind sharp. There are many users and abusers out there that pray on the broken hearted ones. I found my perfect one through family connections(my family knew hers for years) after a 14 year nightmare of a first marriage, I met my pefect one. She was with me for an incredible 16 years before losing her to cancer. I have no regrets - that 16 years will last me a lifetime! There truly is one perfect match for everyone out there. Don't let anyone thrash your hopes - be patient and keep looking!

Answer 10

I was dumped for Christmas 2005 after dating who I thought was the last woman of my life for 2 1/2 years. It turns out on Thanksgiving while I had the flu she had met this guy who had promised her more than I knew I needed to promise her and so she dumped me, in three weeks got engaged and was married in four months. I was devastated, for three months I wept sobbing in bed to sleep. I was a backboneless, a lump of bones and skin. Useless as soap to a wild hog. At the end of March I met a woman who said she wanted me, I took a step out of the sewer I was in and she left three months later. I met another woman and took another step out of the gutter, only to have her leave as well. I was still very emotionally screwed up by being left by who I thought was my true love and by August I had met two women and both of them wanted me and I had to decide on one,(they wouldn't share me) I decided on the wrong one. We broke up in January this year and within an hour of me walking I met a customer I had known by phone for 11 years. A woman I respected and knew well from all what she told me all about her family and friends every time her company ordered products from me. When she said WHAT YOU ARE SINGLE AND NOT DATING ANYONE? THEN WE HAVE TO MEET! So! The really neat thing is we have been out five times in five weeks tomorrow night will be our sixth date and my life is changed by this woman. I am so in love and she with me, it is so scary...... I have no idea how long this separation is going to effect you, nor how long they might still haunt you in your dreams (or nightmares is probably more correct) but it took me four women and over a year to finally be able to actually not care about the heartbreak any longer.... It is going to be tough, but good luck..... you can always say hi I will always take time to help if I can... Thank you, K

Answer 11

I dont want to jinx myself by saying its true love although it is for me but I was married for 6 years 4 and a half happy anyways I have met an absolute gem. It didnt take long 6 months! but I really wasnt looking and it just happened. So as another answer I see before mine is love comes to you.