I still love my ex-girlfriend. She was going through a very bad time in her life when we dated. I've heard from friends of hers that she's doing a lot better. We've had a few brief conversations, and that chemistry is still there, but I'm not sure how to get her to go out with me again. It would be too wierd to call her because we never talked on the phone....we're just not phone people I guess. But, I always catch her staring my way....or visa versa for her. I need help. I'm kind of shy and our break up was messy, so I don't know if she's still hurt.
2007-02-22 09:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright, one step at a time =) It's nice to hear she's doing better. Since the chemistry is still there it will make communication a bit easier, you know? If you see her a lot in public, ask her out then but make it casual. Something like, "want to get something to drink, coffee or whatever"...that way you can keep it light and casual and neither of you will feel awkward etc...break ups usually are messy unfortunately, but don't let that stop you. Just be nice and easy about it and let things go from there! Let me know what happens! Good luck!
2007-02-22 09:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and set up a time to catch up. Let her know how you feel. Try to not show the fear. If you love her and she is worth it bitting you'r tung and being pulled down by you'r fears isent gonna work. If you cant let her know what in you'r heart then maybe you'r not ready to jump into a relationship with her agean anytime soon!
2007-02-22 09:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try, that was in the past, keep it pushin. We tend to see only the good things that happened in our previous relationships and not any of the bad things that cause the breakup in the first place. Let it go and move on.
2007-02-22 09:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by queenone4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Just muster up the courage and when no one else is around like after school or something walk up to her and express your feelings. But be like "we need to talk" or something along those lines. Good Luck
2007-02-22 09:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man just ask the girl out
2007-02-22 09:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend , think back to when she was your wife, how did you met her, what did you do to get her to see you,, honest i try if i was you to call an ask her out for coffie are a drink, what you got to loose, the most she could say is no
2007-02-22 09:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to make her jealous than be seen by her wiht another girl and like start making out with her, and finally if you still have feelings for her tell her how you feel and tell her you love her and she means everything to you
2007-02-22 09:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out . if she tells you no then go on with your life
Be brave your going ti loose her if you don't
2007-02-22 09:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A closed mouth will not get fed.
2007-02-22 09:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋