I have a weird story, I’ve always been shy, and timid around women. I was merry for 18 yrs. And Have a beautiful son, and a beautiful daughter. My daughter has 3 kids, and my son just had a son of he’s own. They are the joy of my life.
Juli and I have been friends for a long time, in the last 5 years we have been in each other’s company, and up until a year ago last Christmas we were find except for the my problem. About that time I was hearing about Juli having sex with another man. I was sick, I asked her about it and she admitted it, and I left her for a year.
If she want to do that I know that I have no say in it, and know that she’s a grow women and she can do what ever she wants. I know I can’t change her I can only change myself. So I stayed away for a whole lonely year. No contact.
About a week ago I heard that her son had passed a milestone in his life, He’s 12. So I agonized over this for a couple days, and finally called her to congregate David.
David and me get along fine, and I care for him and his mother very much. She said that she messed me and that she wanted me back in her life, but with no sex. It is not like I would attack her or anything like that, NO, NO,
NO. But I would like to think that in the future, that we could be intimate and maybe think about a family. We’re both in our 50’s, but she is the most beautiful woman I’ve ever known in my life. I don’t know how long I can take this. Being away from her is just killing me.
Lou Cortez
2007-02-22 08:58:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she thinks of you as a friend and not a potential partnes im so sorry hun you seem so kind good luck
You are probably just attracted to her outward beauty, because people who cheat are not so beautiful INSIDE. You are in love with who you WANT her to be. But, she has made it clear that she wants ONLY a friendship with you. So, take the friendship, or nothing. Be very careful though, as I have known many women who drain a man of all his money---all in the name of friendship.
Lust and love are two different things. Do you know the difference? Is there a chance you just lust for her, and have it mixed up with love? Sounds to me like that may be the case. Good luck to you.
I think that since you love her the way that you do, that it would be best to have her in your life by accepting her terms to do so. Be in her life as her friend, & then maybe eventually you will have her in your life the way that you want. If that is not the case, at least you have the joy of her friendship in your life. Slow it down, & maybe even date around untill she comes around.
2007-02-22 11:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by xoxoLove Hurtsxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just attracted to her outward beauty, because people who cheat are not so beautiful INSIDE. You are in love with who you WANT her to be. But, she has made it clear that she wants ONLY a friendship with you. So, take the friendship, or nothing. Be very careful though, as I have known many women who drain a man of all his money---all in the name of friendship.
Lust and love are two different things. Do you know the difference? Is there a chance you just lust for her, and have it mixed up with love? Sounds to me like that may be the case. Good luck to you.
2007-02-22 17:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that since you love her the way that you do, that it would be best to have her in your life by accepting her terms to do so. Be in her life as her friend, & then maybe eventually you will have her in your life the way that you want. If that is not the case, at least you have the joy of her friendship in your life. Slow it down, & maybe even date around untill she comes around.
2007-02-22 17:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she thinks of you as a friend and not a potential partnes im so sorry hun you seem so kind good luck
2007-02-22 17:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋