I have already asked a similar question, but I am still confused. I know that I cannot get inside my ex's head, but we have technically known each other since we were 16 and we are both 24 now. We got back in contact with each other last may and still had feelings for each other so we got back together. things were more intense this time and we had a lot of problems. I know there were a lot of things I said to him a few days before we stopped talking. I was really angry with him for not coming to see me for christmas. I don't know if he just didn't have the guts to break it off and just thought cutting me out of his life was easier or what. This kind of behavior isn't like him because we have known each other for so long and we would always get back in contact with each other. I really believe he loved me and can't undersatnd what I did. He did text me back and tell me he missed me.. he put a sad face next to it. this is the last I have really heard from him. I cling on to those words
2007-02-22 09:01:20 · 8 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also want to add that i have tryed emailing him a couple of times( didn't want to get obsessive or start calling him a lot because I dont want him to hate me). I haven't got a reply from him. 2 months ago when this first started he did tell me he would write me back but kept stalling. even though he said he missed me too , he said that he would write me back because i deserved that. i could tell he wanted to break up and I don't see why after all these years we have known each other, why he could not tell me something. we went through a lot together, and it's to much to put in here. I do know he was going through a lot with his family. his family had a messed up history. i just feel helpless. I miss him so much and can't let him go.. =(
2007-02-22 09:04:26 · update #1
Sorry, but I think it's over. He doesn't seem to be interested.
2007-02-22 09:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. You deserve much better than that. You are not pitiful just human. Don't hang on to a text. He has probably forgot all about it. Girls like to hang on to things more than guys. As for problems in the relationship do not read to much into it. Sometimes we look back and see only the good he did and the bad we did. When it was really from both ends. And if he dose not have the guts to end it himself you are better off. You will find someone a hole lot better.
2007-02-22 17:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you havn't appologized to him, i suggest you do it soon. And he's a boy, boy's a weird. We all know that. This is probably his own little way that he deals with things. Ask him if he wants to go out for lunch or dinner some time soon. If he says know, then back off a little bit. Maybe he's just confused on what he wants right now. and if that's the case, then give him time to figure out what he wants. If he comes back to you, then he's yours, if he doesnt, he never was.
2007-02-22 17:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get on with your life, you can't tie yourself up waiting for him. Their is someone out their who will respect you. You must go out and meet new friends, be friends for a while, so you can get to know them, then you can move to the next level!
2007-02-22 17:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are not the #1 to him like you sound be. either that or he just needs time. Im sorry.
2007-02-22 17:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Blake B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i just expeienced the same thing and what i say it's their loss. so move on, get out more, forget him.
2007-02-22 17:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget him and relax... You can get plenty of other guys.
2007-02-22 17:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think hes not instrusted any more
2007-02-22 17:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by lilmed4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋