well im w/this guy who weve been 2gether since January 12 2007 and he lives in another city. hes my friends cuzin and well at a party we got together but we only see each other like wen theres parties at my friends house and thats like once a month! i gave him my # and he gave me his but all my friends tell me not to call him cuz guys are the ones that are supposed to call u so im disapointed cuz he might think i dont care about him or that i dont like him wat if hes thinking the same thing? hes only called me twice and so have i! and how do i know hes cheating on me? i mean he added me on myspace but he rarley goes on it check him out for me www.myspace.com/keila_luvs_u hes on my top one.
please help
2007-02-22 08:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Kay-Luh<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really him tho im 14 and so is he
hes parents know my parents and my friends parents so basically everyone knows besides my dad lol
2007-02-22 08:57:16 · update #1
I know from experience that long distance relationships don't work. If you're having doubts about the relationship, then maybe it's not meant to be? If I were you, I'd forget what your friends say about calling him and I'd call him. No-one else should be involved in the relationship apart from you and the guy. If you want to call him - call him. You're not going to know what's going on between the pair of you if neither of you speaks up about it. You don't get answers unless you ask.
2007-02-22 09:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this is 2007. Girls can call boys.
Second, you don't know and won't know if he's cheating on you. You either trust him or you don't.
Third, a long distance relationship like that at your age is probably not going to work. It's just too hard to see each other.
2007-02-22 16:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you well i think you are not suposed to give you personal info. well ok let see i don't think there is such a thing that the boys are the once to call after they called you more than once or even once so I think you are having the worng ifo. well you would not know if he is chiting on you and once a month that is well nothing well I think you two should see more each other or stop the thing cause this is not going ony were.
2007-02-22 17:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a player to me sorry to say. If he doesn't make the effort to call you or even see you that often then whats the point. I don't know if he is cheating on you but sounds like he isn't a one woman man. You should dump him like a hot potato or at least find out whats going on.
2007-02-22 16:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by hopeisnotforgotton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not calling you much, he obviously isn't that in to you. Find somebody you can actually spend time with and not somebody who just sees you at parties so he can get you wasted and get into your pants. If he really liked you, he'd want to just hang out and talk sometimes, too.
2007-02-22 16:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno......my friend gave a boy a number to call...actually it was her boyfriend and he still doesn't call....maybe it's a boy thing LOL....I dunno...you should ask him if he likes you at the next party.
2007-02-22 16:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Vanessa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep waiting. if he doesnt respond within a week its over.
It's happened to me before
2007-02-22 17:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should definately call him
but not everyday or anything like that then he'd just think that ur clingy
2007-02-22 16:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by crunchypickles93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds pretty bad... he might like u.. but my guess is he's also into other ppl
2007-02-22 16:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋