Sure, we are pretty strapped for cash these days, but he's known about this day for 1 year now!! Plus, I've been reminding him every other day!! Then, a few days after our anniversary, he went out with his buddy and bought himself a new stereo system for his car. And still, not even a card. He said when we got some money, we needed to go on a trip together. well, the money came and went and not a word about any such trip. He's only making plans with his buudy instaed!
2007-02-22 09:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by hotrodhedda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm... that doesn't seem right, especially since he got several reminders. *sigh*
2007-02-22 09:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah u should be upset come on now this is you guys anniversary instead he goes out with his buddies and spend money and then turns around and buys a stereo system when u guys dont have no money sounds like to me he just cares about himself and u told him b4 the anniversary comes up and doesnt wanna to listen and tells u u guys are going on a trip and money comes and go i would be upset with him alot he couldnt even get a anniversary card for you but buys a stereo system for his car so if he could that much on that crap then could have got u a card at least or tell you happy anniversary when the next time hes broke or whatever and u been working hard with ur money and save it up put it to the side and when he comes around i wouldnt give him 1 single dime good luck
2007-02-22 09:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by LifesJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its upstting if he forgot, but you dont even know for sure that he forgot.. You have a choice, dont say anything and be upset or mention it to him and enjoy ur anniversary. Kife is too short to play games. Just ask him what he wants to do for your anniversary. Its not worth stewing over.
2016-05-23 23:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make you feel better - my husband made an important appointment on my birthday (which is 4 days before our anniversary) which ran into our first wedding anniversary. he did not realize it at the time. i told him, did not make a big deal but let him know I was disappointed. he later made it up to me and we've been married for 11 years now.
2007-02-22 11:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With husbands you have to explain these things to them. As boyfriends they are much better- they are trying to impress you.
You need to let him know he hurt your feelings. Sounds like more is going on if he wants to with his buddies all the time. You really need to communicate with him. Do not hold it in. Thats what I did and once I decided to start talking it was almost too late. Almost0 its great now- but thats because we BOTH started talking to each other.
2007-02-22 09:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by momof2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would make him sleep in his car with his anniversary gift he got for himself, and if he wants some company, call one of his friends and tell them to stay with him. meanwhile, you should go and celebrate your anniversary by shopping for something really nice that you would like. let's see how he feels about that. if he says anything about it, tell him you thought the 2 of you were celebrating your anniversary in your own individual ways because as you can see that's what he did by going and buying a car stereo.
2007-02-22 09:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, That sucks that your husband did not get you a card but atleast your husband was there, My husbund was in Iraq for our 1 year anniversary and for our 2nd year anniversary, but I would tell him straight up how you feel about the fact that he spend money on himself and not on you and if he does not get the picture then I say go out and spend some money on yourself.
2007-02-22 09:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Nicalo22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to let him know how hurt you are, I find him to be selfish, but if you allow yourself to be treated that way and except it,so will he. No matter how broke you are You can buy a card,and enjoy the night together.
2007-02-22 09:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by lennie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, hell no, i wouldve atleast grabbed a peice of paper and a box of crayons to make a card if i were strapped for cash... he needs to be in the dog house... i say go have a girls' night WEEK!
2007-02-22 10:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by jhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a well deserved shopping spree!!! He better be careful or you'll be sharing your next anniversary with your new husband!!!
2007-02-22 09:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you should be upset!!! Sounds like he never got married to me and the buddy still comes first.
2007-02-22 09:15:13 · answer #11 · answered by queenone4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋