Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I was with this girl for 5 years
my job keeps me away 7-10 day at a time but than I can take off us much as I want to
4 years into the relationship she becomes unaffectionate, distant, cold all the typical behavior of a woman who wants to break up and she did....but she was back the same night with big tears telling me how sorry she was for hurting me and wants me back....since i still loved her we got back together
but I made her promise if she ever has an issue come talk to me and we work it out
she did agree to that but year later around late September early October of 2006 she start to do the same thing but worse....she would change her plans 3-4 times a day just to avoid me when I got back to town
not answer calls etc...if I was lucky enough to spend some time together she behave like a friend not a girlfriend....even in bed when we were sleeping ....no not having sex....just sleeping and I tried to take her in my arms as I did for 5 years she would push my arm away and than in the morning when I asked what was that all about she would say “oh I was just sleeping, sorry” but I know she was not
then Oct17 sweetest day after I tried to arrange some time wither and sending nice txt msg she tells me she does not believe in sweetest day when for the past 5 years she did...she change plans that day 3 more times so I confronted her and thats when she said she needs some time to figure out who she is
two weeks later we broke up and her only excuse was that she was 19 and I was24 when we met and she is changing
its been few months now, but I'm resenting her more and more as time goes by.....if she acted like an adult and was honest with me and told me up front maybe we could have been friends but all she did was lies lies lies and deceiving.....and women wonder why all the guys out there are jerks
as far as I'm concerned she broke up with me on sweetest day after 5 years of loving relationship ( never had a fight)
will I ever stop resenting her for it?

2007-02-15 01:10:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you thing I should tell my room mate that her boyfriend tried to talk to me at dance? But I think that he was just drunk and talking out of his head. So should I tell her or not?

2007-02-15 01:08:56 · 9 answers · asked by bedtimebear_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

see a hot women walking with her fat unattractive man? honestly :)

2007-02-15 01:07:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love online sex to me it's safe to talk about sex and dream your having sex with that special someone what do you think?

2007-02-15 01:06:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known this guy for four years and we haven't been that close. I know he used to like me, but I thought he got over it. Recently, I have been spending more time around him, but only because we have the same extracurricular activitites together. He keeps glancing at me and watching me. Yesterday (V day) I smiled at him and he got all red in the face and walked away quickly. What does this mean???

2007-02-15 01:06:02 · 7 answers · asked by kc 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend are always fussing and breaking up. we have our happy days sometimes. people are always telling me things about him and when i ask he say no and get mad cause i dont believe him so he break up with me. yes i think he love me but i am getting tired of all these ups and downs every single day. we might have 1or 2 days out of the week with out fussing

2007-02-15 01:06:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, i didn't get any phone call from my bf last night, but i did call him like 3 different times. I had gotten no answer. I was waiting around all day till 8:30 pm last night for his call, and i got nothing! So i thought i would call my boyfriend. It was so sad, he didn't even pick up nor answer his cell phone.
So...i dunno. i did leave him a message!
Do you think that there is something going on???
I really think that he wouldn't cheat on me and go with a nother girl out to dinner. Maybe he didn't pick up cuz of he was out with his family or his friends.
What do you think?
-me and him sure DIDN'T break up...i know this cuz he loves me-

2007-02-15 01:04:26 · 18 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I got chocolates :)

2007-02-15 01:04:20 · 17 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Singles & Dating

I have worked with this guy for a year and lately I have gotten to know him more and now I have feelings for him. My problem is should I tell him? If this was any other situation, I wouldnt be questioning, but I'm afriad if he does not feel the same, he wont want to speak to me anymore and then it will be awkward and I lost someone completely that I care about. Hes kinda shy but friendly. I've actually had him ask me questions about my age and w/e to maybe see if I care about the age difference between us which I dont. He is 18 and I am 20. I am kinda sure he might like me but what are some really obvious signs. I know I sound like a teenager and I wouldnt be asking this if I didnt work with him

by the way its a part time job for both of us and dating is allowed.

2007-02-15 01:04:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is going away for long periods of time to study and do practical work! I will rarely see him, for that I have to stay home and finish my studies! He wants to marry me in 2 years time; we are like twins and still very much in love! But he is going to be gone for so long!! I will wait but is it the right thing to do? I love him, but we are still young and so much life to live!! Is it right to have a relationship like this? I know it’s a weird question but I sincerely can’t find the answer!!

2007-02-15 01:03:35 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Sunshine Angle 2 in Singles & Dating

this question is brought on by some events that happened a couple days ago. a man was found to be having an affair, his wife moved with some of his kids he seemed sorry but still dates the mistress. In order to have visits with his kids and to avoid being financially ruined (so he says) he told his wife the affair never happened and he wants to work it out. she has allowed him to have the kids two nights per week with her there at the house but he has made arrangements with the mistress (a close friend of mine) to see her on the days his wife and kids are not there he says he loves his wife but he is in love with the mistress. men can this be true? isn't it better and more fair to each women to be honest or are men really that afraid of what they will loose in a divorce? can a married man love two women? or is he just a dog?

2007-02-15 01:03:14 · 24 answers · asked by sexylousleo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know Valentine's Day is over but there is a school dance this weekend celebrating it. This guy I know likes me, and I him, told me he doesn't see the point in V day. However, I do. Should I get him something or not???

2007-02-15 01:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by kc 1 in Singles & Dating

they separated and he had a 1 night stand.mum seems to have forgiven.can she?

2007-02-15 01:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 01:01:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been casually dating a guy for 2 months. We go out 2 dinner every now and then or 2 the beach at night or 2 my house 2 watch a movie. We don't speak everyday but will send each other a little text message or something. He and I have both just gotten out of long term relationships and he has said he doesn't want to move too fast at one point. So I keep my distance and play it cool. I try not to ask him out but he always asks me 2 go out at least once a week when we are not busy.(we are adults) Problem is,he made no mention of spending time together on V.day. He sent me a Happy Vday text in the a.m. and that was it. I'm not romantic and didn't expect anything but figured he might have wanted to at least see each other. Does this mean he is not really into me or what? Neither one of us have ever really spoken about our feelings toward one another but it is clear that I like him. He is going out of town this weekend and has said he wants 2 see me before he leaves so why not Vday?

2007-02-15 00:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been fighting all the time for the past month. We are very tight on money and I am unemployed. I am looking for a job, but I know it takes time on that. Anyway, she comes home moody (after asking it´s because her bosses are idiots) but of course she shouts at the one that loves her the most, me. I will say now, that I am irresponsible and stupid (you hear it enough, you believe it) but I have made many changes since living with her, including one about the amount of fellatio I used to give. However, she is depressed (yes, I know) but she is not taking care of herself like she used to, she doesn´t dress up sexy anymore, the fellatio is abysmal (yes, I am a man, so like it or not, it is an issue for me), the sex is less, and the blaming and finger pointing (from both of us, I can admit mistakes) is much much more. That´s the thing. I can admit a mistake, but she is (ALWAYS) right even when she is wrong. Since I came here the one problem I would say I had with

2007-02-15 00:59:28 · 2 answers · asked by nassim420 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he was single for 6 months before i met him and nothing happend between them in this time.

2007-02-15 00:59:24 · 16 answers · asked by beth w 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a boy in my homeroom i like.He is sooo funny and cute.He loves to bug me too but I don't know if he's doing it becuz he likes me or not.I need advice on how to tell if he likes me/and or how to ask him out. Thanx!!!!!!!........a lot

2007-02-15 00:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by bubble_cherry4 2 in Singles & Dating

we were good friends but my mother told me never let a man come between your friend ship and so wat should i do . dump him and keep my friend or dump both

2007-02-15 00:58:26 · 26 answers · asked by zapprah s 1 in Friends

Why do Usa & European men Jealous about African hooking up with their Ladies. Someone tell me the best way to date an American lady while in Africa. and also how to avoid the wrat of the selfish racists called men in there who do not know how to respect and treat a womanbut want to posses them by all means?

2007-02-15 00:58:13 · 5 answers · asked by Child of God 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 00:57:14 · 27 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What about choosing your partners....are you just as careful, or does that careful stuff go out the window, because love clouds your judgement? let me hear ya.

2007-02-15 00:56:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's not the first time either. For years he has neglected to get me ANYTHING on holidays, even my birthday and christmas.

When he sees I'm hurt he's all like, "I'm such a schmuck" or whatever and then just waits for me to get over it.

I never asked for or wanted anything fancy...even just a card would be nice. In the past I have cried, gotten mad, and everything. This time I just said nothing and later I was crying to myself. There was nothing he could say. I just didn't understand it. I don't ask for much from him ever. A note, a thought, a kind word. Anything.

What can I say or do? I know guys aren't into all of that. But it means something to me, and he knows it.

I didn't get him a gift, but I had a fabulous dinner, little valentine cups with handmade treats in it, and a balloon centerpiece. Just thoughtful stuff.
Any advice?

2007-02-15 00:55:53 · 27 answers · asked by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm also unemployed + skint, drink too much, gamble and smoke like a chimney..... but I am filthy in bed

Would you know any girls who might be interested in a date? (I put out)

2007-02-15 00:55:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT KINDS OF BOYS U WANT?

2007-02-15 00:54:46 · 14 answers · asked by aryan 1 in Friends

2007-02-15 00:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by M.S. M 1 in Friends

2007-02-15 00:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by crystal_cutie9 2 in Family

I am looking for stories that ended well. Either they bought the house and it ended up being the best thing ever or they broke up and everything ended up being ok. (They sold the house and ended up making money etc.) I am considering buying a house with my boyfriend of three years and I want to hear some positive real life situations that have come from buying a house with a boyfriend. Thanks!

2007-02-15 00:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by dazed and confused 2 in Family

I have a crush on this guy and I have befriended him. I told him that I have a crush on him before(2 years before... the same year I became friends with him) but he said it's ok as long as we're just friends and all. He's really nice... Last year, he slow danced me, he gave me a gift for my bday and he's always there for me. Then this year, he asked me to be his prom date. First a friend of his then he himself asked me. His family knows me, he's helpful to me though I think he's kinda shy.. He kissed me this christmas when I greeted him and gave him a gift(in the cheek), he's very suppportive and always cheers me up, and can't seem to look me in the eye... He always says hi to me whenever we meet even if I ignore him, and just this valentine's, he gave me a gift with a note inside.(which he doesn't normally do) and he said that he thanks God that he had a "one of a kind" friend like me. His friends say that he likes someone but won't tell..Is he just plain friendly or...

2007-02-15 00:52:53 · 2 answers · asked by Ichigo14 1 in Friends

And how can I ask a girl to go out with her?

2007-02-15 00:52:35 · 12 answers · asked by Triple H 5 in Singles & Dating