Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

So, I've had a crush on a woman for a long time now. We dated briefly several months ago and then stopped. We dated briefly for a couple of months, and then stopped. We still chat via text, which are often very flirtatious, and have the occasional lunch or dinner together. On those rare Saturday nights we see each other out we flirt like crazy, dance, I check out her *** & she stares down my shirt... The problem, however, is that she thinks I'm too young for her. I'm 29 and she is 35. I don't really see the problem. Even if I am a few years younger, I've had plenty of life experiences that age me well beyond my years. How do I make her see that I am really on her "level", and convince her to give me a shot?

2007-02-15 02:29:30 · 4 answers · asked by ca 1 in Singles & Dating

It's my passion.

2007-02-15 02:29:22 · 8 answers · asked by lmao 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

But even with all still talks to you ; he says if he still talks to you is because he honestly forgives and forget it all; but of course he forgets what he wants; some times he is the one remembering things from the past not just me.

Anyway; why with it all they still talk to you?

Yes and no do I think that; I do not tell him he is that at all; I just mentions his actions and his way to reject me as many times as he had was indifference; get close but then back off.

Is too damn hard to live this for both parts even when he honestly does not want anything with me; still in my heart I know I will always have him in a special place because he has been my first everything; is not a bad person but has not been great either as neither have I at times.

I say things I think blatantly; he wants honesty; but then is emotional about things so who can understand it?.
Why they talk to you again?
Why the indifference and see you again like nothing happened?.
I cannot be so forgivin

2007-02-15 02:28:06 · 3 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Friends

when it comes to all matters sensual ...;0)

2007-02-15 02:27:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i just need advice on what to do, because I am lost.

I love my boyfriend, and if I were to leave him it would be really hard because i would miss him so much! But sometimes putting up with his crap is hard.

If I get online on AIM, he yells at me and threatens to kill himself because he thinks I show my friend chris of 6 years more attention then I show him. I only talk to chris online tho! If I am an hour late home from work, he accuses me of taking someone home, or if i dont answer his text messages, he freaks out.
We usually hang out everyday, and sometimes i would like personal space. But when i tell him I dont want to hang out, he starts yelling at me because I say I dont want to. Weve gotten into physical fights before. I cant have my friends anymore without him saying that I treat them better then him. Yesterday for V-day, he started yelling because i couldnt get my car out and he wanted to go out n eat. I offered to make him dinner, but he just got an attitude, help!

2007-02-15 02:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for unique music ideas for my wedding. I don't want the same stuff everybody plays. Any suggestions would be helpful

2007-02-15 02:26:05 · 19 answers · asked by spiderbaby_25 1 in Weddings

2007-02-15 02:25:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I want to leave a voicemail message for my friend who i really like (yes he likes me too) but i dont know what to say. I want to grab his attention so that he would want to call me back. I want it spicy and short. What should i say??

2007-02-15 02:25:46 · 12 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

i just moved into this new neighborhood and this this boy that lives down the street and like he a pastor son and i seen him once and like every time i find the tim to see him he never home or he always gone before i can introduce my self to him its like crazy or some thing out of a movie lol what do i do i want to meet him but i never get to him in time hes lives 3 house down im 18 hes 19 what do i do

2007-02-15 02:25:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple of months and neither have said 'I love you' yet. yesterday he gave me a card saying 'I'm nuts about you' on the front and he had written inside 'me love you long time'. Is this his rather lame way of avoiding saying the three little words? What do you think he means. Also if I'm honest I'm not quite at the point of saying it either so what can i write in his card to get round it?

2007-02-15 02:24:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every night I lay awake wondering how lucky I am
Knowing I have a sweet and wonderful girl like you in my arms
Never to let go
You will always be mine and I'll always be yours
As time goes on things change but one thing
That will never change is my love for you
It can only grow stronger never weakening
Every time I hear your voice my heart pounds
Knowing that I'll soon be with you
In your arms and you in mine
With you by my side I feel as though I own the world
Every moment I'm not with you, your words fill my head
Reminding me of how lucky I am to have you
I close my eyes and think of you and only you
You are more than just a girl to me you are an angle with a heart of gold
I can't stand to hear you cry it breaks my heart in two
Knowng I'm not there to comfort you
Your voice brings back the light I thought I lost
The thought of holding you in my arms
Brings tears to my eyes, wanting to touch you for the
First time, I'll hold you and never let go

2007-02-15 02:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

Been having problems for a few years. I am fed up, but still love the man. I want out

2007-02-15 02:24:12 · 25 answers · asked by Patsy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend broke up with her BFriend,i love her and i didn't tell her that.I want to be her new boyfriend.These day she started to romance me,oh,and one more thing:She ask me:"have you ever kiss anyone?she told me that i'm very handsome!"

2007-02-15 02:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

damn im gorgeous!!!....i do...;0)

2007-02-15 02:23:16 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time I try to have any conversation with my husband, whether serious or chit chat, he always has to make some referance to the size of my boobs. I guess he's always done it, but now after having two kids and having kept a few of those baby lbs every converations comes around to how big they are.
What's the darn obsession? And why can't he understand that that makes me very self consious about them.

2007-02-15 02:23:05 · 2 answers · asked by littlemama_rules 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So why do we get so uptight about paedophiles and the like when the majority of child abusers are relatives?
A stranger shouldn't necessarily be branded a bad person....that is a gross over-reaction.
The latest incident of a 2 year old being raped and murdered [allegedly by her uncle] makes me despair of the human race.
What say others?

2007-02-15 02:22:11 · 9 answers · asked by Pit Bull 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is my first weddin... my first serious relationship with my frist serious boyfriend so to speak.. and we ve been chattin on the net, talkin on the phone etc, but we ve never actually met eachother in person... but he is a great guy.. and i wanna do something really romantic for him on our weddin night..( but preferrably nothing realted to sex...) like give him a love poem or something...
any other bright ideas ? bcos my friends say the poem idea sort of sucks.. :(
thank you..

2007-02-15 02:21:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for an older man/guy to date or feel attracted to a young female. But it's not OK when a female is attracted to a younger guy?

2007-02-15 02:21:31 · 13 answers · asked by lupe s 1 in Singles & Dating

OK Ther is this girl that lives with me she is my sister's friend and my mom let her move in. I have been talking to this guy for like two or three months and this skank thinks its perfetly fine for her to butt in on may lif. now they have been talking on the phone and they have went out all night and she diddnt come home in till like 5:00 in the morning and that skank thinks im gonna let her in my house at 5:00 AM. she is crazy she says they didnt do anything but you dont go to the lake all night and dont do any thing help what do i do?

2007-02-15 02:21:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

making this brief. i have a girlfriend and a boyfriend. we all live together. as i stated before,{other Q} the man has no ambition to better himself or hold a full job, yet he helps around the house and helps me with my sis 2 yr old kid. in a quest. you all said i should kick him out due to his childish ways. the thing is recently i began having horrible thoughts. i was a victim of sexual violence and some other abuse and i thought it went away, so now it's like when he touches me or is around me and intimate, i just can't deal with it, or want to be around him and i cringe and i have painc attacks and this abuse was 10 yrs ago. i figured to move on, you know? i'm freaking out and i just want to cry, and i do appreciate him, but feel so bad and guilty. this has started like 4 months ago and i just can't handle it and i distance myself, and try to focus on other things like the baby, i just get frustrated and mad and i don't know what to do but feel like i want to run away. wht do i do?

2007-02-15 02:18:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like to get alot done in a day.my questions are only a day old,but i have got a friend to take my (ex)lover home,it was terrible.he would not stop crying and pleading with me.but i know it was the right thing to do.
i am in the birmingham area,does anyone know any good drug clinics?anger classes?and also to stop me drinking?
i am still afraid,should i hand myself and my brother into the police.its the right thing to do after what we have both done to my now ex.i just need that extra nudge.

2007-02-15 02:18:05 · 21 answers · asked by south_parker98 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, my mom doesn't let me go to the dance tomorrow but I'm going but i'm not telling her we get out early and the dance ends at 4:00 and so does school now they post that were going out early on the board outside if she see's it I'll be in big *** trouble! What should i tell her plz tell me what to tell her!

2007-02-15 02:17:52 · 3 answers · asked by jazzy108 1 in Family

2007-02-15 02:17:34 · 5 answers · asked by kim 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:17:00 · 16 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so confused yet so sad. I have been dating my now boyfriend for about 5 months and the first 3 months were out of this world. Honestly, we got along as the best of friend, we laughed together and he was there any time I needed him for a shoulder to cry on. I am completely and utterly attracted to the guy. He is honest, sincere, loyal, TRUSTWORTHY, HOT, has a beautiful house, and I KNOW he would be a Wonderful father. If I had the choice of any father for my "imaginary" children it would 150% be him. He is completely real. Although 6 months before we started dating I dated a complete jerk for a year. He was abusive, he was a cop until he got caught for abusing me, all in all short story he ended up getting fired and he is no longer a cop, got caught for DUI, is 35 and cannot keep a girlfriend cause he is a player. Although, he was able to steal my heart my sweet talking me and I ended up very hurt when we broke up - I think he still owns a piece of my heart although I hate him at the same time.

So that being said, this relationship I am in is my 1st non dramatic relationship and I feel as though something is missing. I hate saying what I dont like about him cause it makes me sound ridiculous but I feel like his niceness is too much sometimes, I analyze everything he does. My ex could dress up in a pink tu-tu with one of my bra's and I would have just laughed but honestly if my new beau were to do that I think I would judge him based on it. I still enjoy spending time with him, I enjoy having sex with him and I enjoy relaxing with him but for some reason I dont feel like I love him like I am supposed to. I sometimes get frustrated with how much he kisses me or is all over me but I think I can over it. What I am asking is why is this happening. During the 1st 3 months things became very serious. We moved in together and I was 150% sure I wanted to start my life with him, now I question myself and I dont know why. Is my gut trying to tell me something or am I just not used to having a normal/healthy relationship. If there is anything in this world that I want to work it would be this relationship. I know I could have an incredible life with him. But I feel stressed cause I dont know if this is what love is supposed to feel like?!?!?!

Or could it be because for the past 5 months we have spent EVERY night together. Honestly every night?!?!?!

2007-02-15 02:16:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 02:16:41 · 2 answers · asked by moose 1 in Singles & Dating

For the guys, how would you feel if you found out your girlfriend is bisexual. Would that gross you out, or would you not care. If it even worth mentioning to your boyfriend?

2007-02-15 02:16:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:16:36 · 10 answers · asked by divya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always been the type of person to help others even if it means that i go without and give them my best advice and all of my time.. basically the best friend, sister, daughter, girlfriend, enemy etc.. I mean I'm always willing to help ANYONE.. but recently I got sick and its like I'm the biggest problem because people are trying to be nice to me and its obvious that they dont want to.. I dont ask for help or bother anyone but this morning I ask someone if they would be able to give me a ride (wow) and I think I've heard 600 reasons why she can't do it and now shes giving me an attitude... How do I explain the help isn't needed THAT bad and I'm over the fact that she told me no?

2007-02-15 02:16:23 · 3 answers · asked by LaDy A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 02:15:18 · 9 answers · asked by your wonderwall 5 in Singles & Dating