Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I know it's a matter of preference but would like the honest opinion of men? I am small and pretty (5'2 frame 120 pounds) My girlfriend is large and prettyl (5'9 easily over 230 pounds, she won't tell me how much she weighs). We both take good care of ourselves, but she is more confident and sexy. I'm not as confident and am not as sexual as she is. She has been with alot more more than me. When we go out she easily attracts men, especially small men. I wonder why that is? We laugh about it and she says, "I'll break him like a twig in bed" . My question: which do men prefer? Big and Sexual or Small and Conversative?

2007-02-15 02:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is getting married on saturday, and i'm her maid of honor. what do i need to have with me? how do i need to be prepared? i've never done this before, and i don't need her stressing out. how can i make this day easiest on her?

take into consideration that she might get more hormonal since she's pregnant...

2007-02-15 02:53:42 · 13 answers · asked by Barbara H 5 in Weddings

been going out with my girl for 3 months now and she had been treated badly by her ex and ive tried everything to reassure her that im not going to do what he did and she said it was ok but now im falling in love with her and if i say to her that i love i dont want her to run a mile cos thats what he said and she believed him so basically im not sure what to do

2007-02-15 02:53:36 · 14 answers · asked by ally b 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know very much about romance.......can any one help me?

2007-02-15 02:53:33 · 7 answers · asked by meets_the_eye 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a long time and we always fight anymore it`s not like it used to be. I love him so much! We took a break and we both seen other people and now we are back together and all we do is fight. Because
1. He doesn`t pay attetion on the phone.
2. He hung up the phone w. me one night to talk to his ex that beeped in because she said that his step-brother was going to beat him up.
3. His ex instant messanged him saying why won`t you answer your phone. When it was really me on his screen name because he wanted me to check something.
4. She called again Monday and said the same thing and he called me mad and yelling. ( I told him it shouldn`t matter to him what she says because he has me now)
What the Hell is going on here? I don`t know what to think. He said that he was sorry but that`s all I can think about. He cheated on me in the past about 3 years ago and Iam pretty sure that he has learned his lesson but what am I supposed to think??

2007-02-15 02:52:52 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley J 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I don't think I put enough detail in the compatible guy question earlier. This is my originial message: Why is it so hard to find a guy that not only shares some of the same common interests and is sexually compatible with me? I am a very physically active person, I do not watch tv…but I like the movies. I am an extremely sexual person and just can not find a guy that can “keep up” with me! Not really sure where to find a good guy! Where do you find good guys at that like rough sex?! **************************** To continue off that, when I say rough I don't mean I like to beat up lol. Just not gentle. Sex is not the ONLY thing I am looking for that is just a benefit. Nice guys seem to be a little hard to find in Nevada. I am very disappointed with the dating scene out here. I am 31 and have not found a decent guy yet. I won't date guys from the gym because most of them are stuck on themselves, not all just most. I tried cupid.com and have found married men trying to be secretive.

2007-02-15 02:52:52 · 9 answers · asked by supergoober 4 in Singles & Dating

this girl really flirts with me & she used to reply to my msgs to her on myspace, but now we still flirt a lot but she doent reply to my msgs anymore?..what does that mean?...btw she doesnt really use myspace but she does sign on evry once in a while but doesnt write bak like b4.

2007-02-15 02:52:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday when I was getting off from work, this girl made a huge deal about getting out 15 min early. She said that all people are leaving early because they have dates and big plans for their girls. I told her that I am hitting up strip clubs and she told me I am a loser.

2007-02-15 02:52:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how did it effect you and does it, still, now?

(I grew up with both parents, they never argued and are still happily married; my husband and I argue constantly and have a 2 year old son.)

Thanks

2007-02-15 02:52:21 · 18 answers · asked by Nina Lee 7 in Marriage & Divorce

this also goes back to my prior question about me annoying my gf. I don't have many friends that are girls, so she has no reason to get jealous. Yet, almost all of her friends are the deemed hottest guys in our school. I can see a million reasons why she would want them over me, and she liked just about all of them before we started dating. So, it makes me paranoid, and stressed, how do I get over that?

2007-02-15 02:51:58 · 21 answers · asked by Rob D 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to go out with someone for about 5 months, we then broke up and afterwards I hooked up with someone at school for about 2 weeks then I broke it off, and now he's (my ex from school) is still trying to get back with me and I feel like I should but then I feel like I shouldn't because I still have feelings for the person I was with for 5 months. BUT I feel that if I do go back with him , he would make me forget about the 5-month person. Should I take a risk and go for it?

2007-02-15 02:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Roman 1 in Singles & Dating

im trying to decide where i want to go to college...

ive narrowed it down to two possible choices,,im not certain i can get in but i think i can

my choices are
ORU- christain school (really want to get to know God better..and they have a really good psychology department...)
NSU- right here im my hometown (mys friends and family are here)

what do you think i should do??

2007-02-15 02:51:42 · 4 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 02:51:29 · 11 answers · asked by Mindrape 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My birth certificate only has my name, the nurses' name and my date of birth.

My parents names aren't on it. And I've never in my life got on with my parents. I asked them the other day and they got really angry at me for asking.
Is it possible I'm adopted?

2007-02-15 02:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are on a very tight budget. Any ideas on what to do with our reception???

2007-02-15 02:50:50 · 18 answers · asked by spiderbaby_25 1 in Weddings

2007-02-15 02:50:18 · 22 answers · asked by gazala k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and a few mates are looking for 1 of them sex numbers you ring up and just listen were in ireland anybody no any numbers

2007-02-15 02:49:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:49:03 · 28 answers · asked by Rachel N 1 in Singles & Dating

i have had a crush on him for three years. his name is nick.he goes to my school. he is a jr. like me. he is very smart and cute and plays baseball. and drives me to school every morning and i feel complete different when i am with him.

2007-02-15 02:48:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When the dreaded day comes when my twins ask why they don't have a father, what do I say? I can't very well give them the truth (he's selfish, abusive, abandoned his own children) But I also DO NOT want to excuse him in any way (example: He wasn't ready to be a father, or any crap like that)...

2007-02-15 02:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by mom2twins 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 02:47:00 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:46:54 · 16 answers · asked by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:46:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking for ideas on where to hold my wedding at the end of this year, theres only going to be a small amount of people attending, but would like some place thats memeroble and romantic. May be that does a package.

2007-02-15 02:45:44 · 4 answers · asked by Janet DS 1 in Weddings

i am a very big fan of sreesanth,i love him a lot .right now he is the most important person in this whole wide world. for him i had to give up many of my best friends but is this turning out to be a waste

2007-02-15 02:45:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is a carpenter and is constantly losing his tools, I thought a good gift for him would be to have his tools engraved or buy him new tools that has his initials on them. Does anyone know of a place that would do this?

2007-02-15 02:45:32 · 5 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:45:29 · 3 answers · asked by girlbluejeans 1 in Friends

I recently went out with this guy who is very sweet and polite, is a nanny to kids and actually emphasizes politeness, has been very nice to me (we had an awesome date and a very strong intimate connection), but systematically ignores any question which remotely deals with his emotions, like "how are you feeling today?" or "do you have any concerns about me?"

On a friend's advice, I've backed off and stopped asking stuff like that, and I am a firm believer that no one has to answer every question, but it seems rude to me to be completely ignored rather than told "I'd rather not talk about that," or even "that's too much," or "damn man, relax!" =] Am I crazy for thinking he's being rude or should I REALLY just relax and shut up?

2007-02-15 02:45:27 · 7 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

his guy is one of my best friends.he like me verymuch a he is wating for my approval since 4 yrs.i never felt nething for him but i don know y now a days i m thinking about him i have never gave him chance to show how he feel cause it was very difficult for me to face him.i told him not to talk much about it n b my same old friend only. but now i think i should give him atleast 1 chance to show how he feel for me cause i have never gave a thought that do i feel anything for him. i don know if i would b comfertable with him in relation like love cause i m very much comfertable with him in our FRIENDSHIP and i dont want to loos it any how.and there is one more thing that he takes very long to clear anything i mean it took him 2 yrs to say that he love me. he know me so well then also it took him 2 yrs.by looks we r not that much good mach but cause of our friendship i m thinking like that. if i don give him chance then everything will b the same for us.now what should i do?

2007-02-15 02:45:00 · 4 answers · asked by pank_ti 2 in Singles & Dating

my man is not romantic n has no passion when it comes to the bedroom.i am passionate and sensual i make sure i look sexy and make a effort.he just rams his tounge down my throat then proceeds to lift me on to him with out no foreplay,sometimes he even keeps his top on,its starting to put me off.i do seduce him and give him pleasure but wheres mine?he's too fast and rough.he even shuns me sometimes,i told him what i felt but he seems to think its all in my head,i do care for him but i want him to take his time with me,to be slow and sensual,what should i do.

2007-02-15 02:44:26 · 19 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Singles & Dating