I know it's a matter of preference but would like the honest opinion of men? I am small and pretty (5'2 frame 120 pounds) My girlfriend is large and prettyl (5'9 easily over 230 pounds, she won't tell me how much she weighs). We both take good care of ourselves, but she is more confident and sexy. I'm not as confident and am not as sexual as she is. She has been with alot more more than me. When we go out she easily attracts men, especially small men. I wonder why that is? We laugh about it and she says, "I'll break him like a twig in bed" . My question: which do men prefer? Big and Sexual or Small and Conversative?
2007-02-15 02:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the person. I like my women a little in between. I don't like them too thin, but thin is ok, but I also don't want them too big as it is harder to have s*x, as I am a little on the large side myself. You ask how your girlfriend gets all the men. Sexy is a frame of mind. You could weight 500 pounds and if you have the right frame of mind you can be just as sexy as any women on this Earth if you put your mind to it. Talk to your friend some and get some pointers from her or maybe some others that may be a little more concervative like yourself. I am a 51 year old male and when I was younger I had some of the same problems you are having now and it took me years to get myself into the frame of mind that women were not going to bite me if I spoke to them, so I understand where you are coming from. LOL I hope this little bit of insite helps.
2007-02-15 03:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ALL about the confidence! I promise you, nothing is more attractive to a person than confidence (not arrogance)!
Petite, small, big, tall, short, red headed or blonde... it is all about the self confidence! :)
2007-02-15 10:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
small women are more fun beacuse you can do what you want to their little frames. big women will do anything to get love. small women make you work for what you want from them. if big women give you what you want without a fight, then where is the fun in that??
2007-02-15 11:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends, me as a woman i like small and Conservative they are so easy to talk to and to boss around.
2007-02-15 10:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the small part but not the conservative part, why dont you take s l u t lessons from your friend?
2007-02-15 10:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by MagicalPussy V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Petite and sexual is my choice!
2007-02-15 12:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋