Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

Well....amazing enough my mom went to the doctors today she came back and said she was having twins!I'm thinking we might have to move because there are no rooms left in the house(I mean Justin(16)sleeps in the living room!!)But if we do move I'm gonna be really mad because it would be the 4th time I've moved and I'm tired of it.Plus I love our house and our neighborhood and my friends here.I want to ask my mom if we won't move but how should I approach her without seeming too desperate not too move or annoying?

2007-02-15 03:07:26 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica-Just Another Girl 2 in Family

someone discreet,not looking for relationship,living in south east england.....are there any men out there? is there a safe chat room i can use to meet guys?

2007-02-15 03:06:53 · 11 answers · asked by jd07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:06:47 · 8 answers · asked by jennifer j 1 in Singles & Dating

make me jealous, i wanna know how the other half live !!

2007-02-15 03:06:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Damn it, if a man wants to be single and enjoy life, what's wrong with that? But this damn girls and my grandman can't leave me alone. They are threating me that if I don't find one now I won't be able to find younger girls anymore.

2007-02-15 03:06:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look I'm only 19 and my boyfriend in 28 and WE been dating for a year and some months.............We were currently living together along until the mother of his son passed away about a week ago and now his child is living with us and I have to step up and be a mother to the poor two year old at such a young age.......I love him and the baby so am I doing the right thing or what although I get less attention from my boy friend now I mean I'm not jelious but I just don't feel wanted by him anymore although he don't want to break up with me

2007-02-15 03:06:10 · 15 answers · asked by sexsired 4 in Family

as some people already know im going out with this guy who i really like wait scratch that who i really love the thing is b4 i started dating him he was showing interest in one of my close freinds now that im going out with him she is really upset even though when he was showing interest she turnd him down i really love him and dont want to lose him to but i dont want to lose her either what do you think i should do to settle everthing between the three of us

2007-02-15 03:05:38 · 2 answers · asked by bb2 3 in Singles & Dating

his name is pete and he cheated on me and i dont know what to do he said he loved me but on v day i saw him kissing my best friend so can you people tell me what i should do

2007-02-15 03:04:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom who now lives in NC who is STILL fighting for Child Support in Texas. My oldest son is about to be 17 and we have gotten a total of $905.66 from him. I have called and called so many times that it just just unreal. I have requested everything and anything and have gotten nothing in return. This is unfair to our children and the people who are suppose to be on our side to help us are not helping us. I cant hire anyone from the outside to help because of it being linked to TAGO. Anyone have any idea's? I am willing to work with anyone and everyone else interested in finding these adsent parents! He has been in so much trouble with the law there with drugs and so forth so I dont understand why he is not locked up or something over this. My son deserves his child support!! And so many other children do to!! Email me with any ideas or anything. I am looking at starting a yahoo group to get more ppl together to help each other if possible!!!

2007-02-15 03:04:20 · 1 answers · asked by looking4work5 1 in Family

...become paramount in a divorce that is used like daggers to kill the other person? In the marriage, these differences amount to squat - it seemed. In a couirt of divorce, these differences become tools to discredit and humiliate - twisted to be something other than they were not - Why does the dynamics in a marriage that lasted for years all of a sudden turn into poison and bad blood in a court room or lawyers office? Can anyone in a realtionship be safe with being themselves or should everyone have to walk on thin ice worried that one day the ex may go after you in court for being yourself? Do we have to look at someone potentially could be great to be with for the rest of your life - or look at them in regards to how is this person going to treat me if we get divorced?

2007-02-15 03:02:54 · 6 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a good friend who recently asked me if it would be a good idea if we got married. I have been friends with her for years, and we discussed it the past. She is going through a lonely time. Anyway, after that conversation, we had another. She started mentioning things like the fact that she swims in her underwear sometimes. She wonders if I skinny dip or whether I would do so. She also made the comment in a joking way that I am not fulfilling my purpose in life by giving my sister a sister in law. Why does she say such things now?

2007-02-15 03:02:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:02:34 · 6 answers · asked by gucci 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom who now lives in NC who is STILL fighting for Child Support in Texas. My oldest son is about to be 17 and we have gotten a total of $905.66 from him. I have called and called so many times that it just just unreal. I have requested everything and anything and have gotten nothing in return. This is unfair to our children and the people who are suppose to be on our side to help us are not helping us. I cant hire anyone from the outside to help because of it being linked to TAGO. Anyone have any idea's? I am willing to work with anyone and everyone else interested in finding these adsent parents! He has been in so much trouble with the law there with drugs and so forth so I dont understand why he is not locked up or something over this. My son deserves his child support!! And so many other children do to!! Email me with any ideas or anything. I am looking at starting a yahoo group to get more ppl together to help each other if possible!!!

2007-02-15 03:02:27 · 4 answers · asked by looking4work5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, Im from South America. I have plans to go to USA for a year to study. I want to date a beautiful american girl, but I dont know how. What do american girls like to do? What kind of guys do they like? How do they like to be treated? Give me some advice!

2007-02-15 03:02:18 · 3 answers · asked by Viviendo el Amor 1 in Singles & Dating

other than looking at u and smiling at u?

2007-02-15 03:01:04 · 10 answers · asked by Ebto 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Has anyone ever dated someone more than 10 years older than you? If so, what was/is it like? There is a guy that is interested in me and he is 13 years older then me.

2007-02-15 03:00:42 · 19 answers · asked by Fireanddesir 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:00:35 · 3 answers · asked by april 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure it's entirely intentional, but it has always seemed to make him feel good to make other people feel bad. It seems to be a character trait that runs in his family. His father & brother exhibit this same behavior. For a long time I've done my best to ignore it, but it really bothers me. I've tried to talk to him about it , but he denies it, and then says he'll do better, but never does. I love him.Sometimes he is a good person. We have a child together, and I really do not want to leave him, but he's making me unhappy. Does any one have any idea what might help?

2007-02-15 03:00:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am so confused yet so sad. I have been dating my now boyfriend for about 5 months and the first 3 months were out of this world. Honestly, we got along as the best of friend, we laughed together and he was there any time I needed him for a shoulder to cry on. I am completely and utterly attracted to the guy. He is honest, sincere, loyal, TRUSTWORTHY, HOT, has a beautiful house, and I KNOW he would be a Wonderful father. If I had the choice of any father for my "imaginary" children it would 150% be him. He is completely real. Although 6 months before we started dating I dated a complete jerk for a year. He was abusive, he was a cop until he got caught for abusing me, all in all short story he ended up getting fired and he is no longer a cop, got caught for DUI, is 35 and cannot keep a girlfriend cause he is a player. Although, he was able to steal my heart my sweet talking me and I ended up very hurt when we broke up - I think he still owns a piece of my heart although I hate him at the same time.

So that being said, this relationship I am in is my 1st non dramatic relationship and I feel as though something is missing. I hate saying what I dont like about him cause it makes me sound ridiculous but I feel like his niceness is too much sometimes, I analyze everything he does. My ex could dress up in a pink tu-tu with one of my bra's and I would have just laughed but honestly if my new beau were to do that I think I would judge him based on it. I still enjoy spending time with him, I enjoy having sex with him and I enjoy relaxing with him but for some reason I dont feel like I love him like I am supposed to. I sometimes get frustrated with how much he kisses me or is all over me but I think I can over it. What I am asking is why is this happening. During the 1st 3 months things became very serious. We moved in together and I was 150% sure I wanted to start my life with him, now I question myself and I dont know why. Is my gut trying to tell me something or am I just not used to having a normal/healthy relationship. If there is anything in this world that I want to work it would be this relationship. I know I could have an incredible life with him. But I feel stressed cause I dont know if this is what love is supposed to feel like?!?!?!

Or could it be because for the past 5 months we have spent EVERY night together. Honestly every night?!?!?!

2007-02-15 02:59:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They will be going with their Uncle, Aunt, and two cousins (11 and 8). Two cousins also do not know about the trip and will be surprised with it as well. So we need something to surprise all four of them at once.

2007-02-15 02:59:44 · 8 answers · asked by Ouch! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I referred a close family member for a job at the company I work for and she got it. Now, after a week she doesn't like it and is going to quit as soon as she can find another job. I've only been there 9 months, but it's the best job I've ever had. The owner's cardinal rule is honesty and I feel somewhat obligated to let him know what's going on, but then again it would cause a lot of hard feelings in the family, especially if she is unable to find another job and ends up staying.

Also, how should I handle things on the personal side with our family relationship? I feel betrayed and used, but she's barely speaking to me now. I really thought I was doing her a favor.

2007-02-15 02:59:13 · 9 answers · asked by Lori 2 in Family

2007-02-15 02:59:13 · 11 answers · asked by asbawrh 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy tht goes to my high school. he is shy and doesnt talk to alot of girls tht i know of. i want him to like me but i dont know how to talk to him and i dont know how to give him a clue that i like him. i also dont want to look like a fool. is there any way to talk to him without making an embarrasement out of myself. i am shy too so i dont talk to alot of guys. please help.

2007-02-15 02:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by Lolly 4 in Friends

this guy
i get a big feeling that he likes me
we did have sex
he some times make converstaions
and the otherday i seen him and i had to go and he waved and look a bit upset
so what should i do

2007-02-15 02:57:04 · 1 answers · asked by palmtreesareheaven 1 in Singles & Dating

Am in a great relationship with a guy i really love. The thing is am only 20 years old.... I really want to explore my options. The thing is, i dont know how to tell the other that i want a break...

2007-02-15 02:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by *SeXyB* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:56:29 · 19 answers · asked by vulu 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my b/f have been together for a little over a year. we are 19 years old and live together. yes! i kno thats young but because of some really bad things that happened we had no other choice. I really love my b/f and i want to be with him but im starting to wonder if its time to end it. all we do is argue and im tired of it. i just want us to be a normal couple!! please help let me kno what we can do to work it out or if its time to let it go......i hope not cuz i really luv him

2007-02-15 02:55:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

According to an article I've just read, more and more couples are not getting married and living together. I would suspect that a majority of those couples came from a divorce and didn't want to take that risk again. Then the rest witnessed the effercts of divorce on someone close to them and therefore refused to experience that pain themselves by not getting married. Living together unmarried seems like less of an headache when you break up, but if your partners die you may end up just like James Brown widow, with nothing.

2007-02-15 02:54:27 · 17 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 02:54:07 · 16 answers · asked by amazing 2 in Singles & Dating

I received a text message from a guy for my birthday and valentines day (they both fall on the same day) now I havent talked with this guy in about seven months. We never had a relationship we actually did school related work together. There was some chemistry there however we really didnt have a chance to explore it. Now I have moved and still think about this guy often. How can I interpert his text message and how do I reply (besides just saying thank you) I need something appealing

2007-02-15 02:54:02 · 11 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating