Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

2007-02-15 02:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by georgina 2 in Family

I'm engaged to a girl that I've know for over 2 years. A good portion of that time we were friends. We traveled and spent huge amounts of time together. We got engaged 3 days ago, and prior to that dating seriously for 3 months. We are getting married next year. Both of us have had some challenges shifting from friendship to lovers. When I say challenges, I mean the lack of passion. Lots and lots of affection and desire to be with each other though. She told me that it's going to take time for her to stop seeing me as a friend and for her to start seeing me as a lover. She's sure that will change in time. The love is there, but a part of her is still in friendship mode. I had small challenges in that area too but, I'm over it. I see progress in the area of passion in our relationship everyday. Is it worth the wait? Does it make sense to have a relationship that doesn't start of super passionate from the start and has to evolve? Has anyone ever been through sometime like this?

2007-02-15 02:44:11 · 16 answers · asked by Northstarr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the question about marrying your stepbrother sparked this one. Had a friend who liked her cousin she met recently in that way. It was her father's half sister's grandson. and she met all of them for the first time at the age of 24. He's 21.

I told her it was freaky and gross. more opinions please

2007-02-15 02:42:30 · 26 answers · asked by cruiser 2 in Weddings

suggest, but tell order him to do things. I am his assistance. The story, she planned a little get together at work celebrating boss and his girlfriend birthday, usally i plan those things, but i thank her for doing it, she planned this by herself. I thank her for doing this good dead, told her every thing turned out real nice. I really was pleased that some one else made a effort to do something like that other than me, i was getting tired of doing stuff like that on my own. After i told her thank great job. She went and told other women that i was crying because i was n ot included in the plan to plan the party. All the women just looked at her crazy didnot say anything. Question: Is this women jelouse of me?
Does she want my position at work?
Is she trying to make me look bad infront of my boss or does she like the boss always kissing up to him?

2007-02-15 02:42:17 · 5 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

How does one go about telling their boyfriend that they would like to try something new, in the bedroom (i.e. ana1)

2007-02-15 02:41:54 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I do?

2007-02-15 02:41:27 · 24 answers · asked by Sin Sister 1 in Singles & Dating

dazzling

2007-02-15 02:41:25 · 24 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

so ive been seeing a guy for a while now, we slept together a couple of times but he has no problems except he just wont come during sex, ive tried everything, even let him do what he wants but no success,spoke to him and he says its stress and lack of sleep, and he had it with his ex girlfriends too, but sometimes he manages it but most the time doesnt.
has anyone else come accross this as i have to admit its a first for me, and im starting to feel self conscious that im doing something wrong although he assures me im doing everything right!

2007-02-15 02:40:39 · 17 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating

If the girl is older. The guy I like is 2 years younger (20 and 18) and will I have to make the first move or will he?

2007-02-15 02:40:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My long distance boyfriend is coming after 6 months of seeing each other and I want to do something special for him. Any ideas???

2007-02-15 02:40:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 02:39:55 · 34 answers · asked by richa c 1 in Family

i'm 16 years old.i don't have any girlfriends but i'd like to!!!!!when i go to talk with girls i don't know to talk about what with them...i have many problems to talking with any girls...ugly or beautiful.....please explain everything to me...everything....please

2007-02-15 02:39:53 · 6 answers · asked by nima 2 in Friends

what do you find worse and why? someone who is having and emotional affair or a phisical one.
xxx.

2007-02-15 02:39:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a clean girl without any history of her previous relationships and she has to be over 18. It's very difficult to find in States. That's disappointing.

2007-02-15 02:39:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey i have a boyfriend over 10months now! and i get this feeling hes not interested, like for example we meet up and all but its always me asks him do you want to go to this place! and overall hes ask me to go to places only twice so far! and to me i feel im making all the effort! he never rings me until i ask him so! i dont know why? and i dont want to say anything to him because im afraid will breakup or somethinG and i dont want that to happen! help me! :(

2007-02-15 02:39:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live in an average sized town... 26 thousand.. and thers only one main high school (mine) and an alternate high school for dropouts that wanna go back...

problem?? i have been the only south asian, indian, girl in my classes for sooooooooo long, and the only indian/south asian in the class of 06....thers only one sophmore and junior indian girls in their class.... im spoiled with my uniqueness (??)

bigger problem??? theres this new girl that just moved from moline.. and she's a cousin of the sophomore indian gurl and i HATE HER!!!! omG!!!!! i kno this sounds soo immature.. but.. ppl are mistaking me for her... i feel like she robbed me... mentally... she thinks she can hang around my friends just cuz im indian and she is too... and i just want her EXPELLED!!!!! this is so frustating... at lunch i cant even talk cuz she wont shut UP... and i feel so lame next to her.. b/c all this time i felt like i had no competition, b/c i was always.. me... maybe im jealous.. wat to do???

2007-02-15 02:39:12 · 5 answers · asked by iyikka14 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

4 mo. ago I lost my virginity to co-worker after 2 months on the job. Our fling lasted a couple months, then he ignored me for about a month. Now we don't work much together b/c I requested it, so we're casual when we do work. He's started flirting again, and made me remember how much I liked him. We hung out once after it was "over" just so I could use his computer. Now we are getting along good. I texted him last weekend just b/c, and yesterday he was complaining about walking to school, and I offered to take him. He said no, but I'm sure he appreciated it. Problem is, I hear about all sorts of things he says when I'm not around to other co-workers that makes him look like a womanizer. What made me mad the other day was when some other guy said that almost no-one liked him, but **** them if they can't take a joke. My fling guy responded, "Ya, like I want to sleep with you but I don't want to go out w/ you? That kind of joke?" I'm too nice to take revenge.

2007-02-15 02:39:02 · 3 answers · asked by micha 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean like altogther???? like say i wanted to ...be a priest or something???? besides...its too much work and heartache being in relationships....

so is there a way or method or something i can do to rid my physical attraction to women?

2007-02-15 02:37:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend Alex and I have been dating for the past year and a half. I have been living with my sister so that I can save money cause I am still a college student. Recently Alex asked me to move in with him when his current roommate moves out. I feel it is just a little bit too soon for us to live together. What do you think? His roommate is moving out soon and he wants an answer.

2007-02-15 02:37:00 · 15 answers · asked by Caribbean Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel in love with the most perfect girl ever, but the problem is she was sleeping with my best friend right before her and I started going out. This bothers me to no end, it makes me think of how bad my wedding day will be knowing my bride slept with my best man, and other things like this. Is it ok that this bothers me? What should I do? For the record my girlfriend says she really doesn't even like my best friend anymore and he feels the same, but it doesn't mean that this problem won't always come between us.
any help would be great...ideas or advice, thank you.

2007-02-15 02:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by 13en 1 in Singles & Dating

I think size does matter to a degree. I have nice size and had women wanting to sack me just because they wanted my big tool. They did not care about anything else, just want to get some of my big tool.

So in my experiences, yes in many cases the women were just chasing size.

2007-02-15 02:35:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We met 5years ago at work....neither of us expected to fall in love.... we are both married... we are both still in our marriges......We did not talk for several years after I changed jobs...we are communicating again . I love him deeply.......I try to move on ....
.My husband and i argue and fight alot...He has anger issues that keep us emotionally distant..I have 3 children , so i am staying for them. Ken..not his real name....and i Talk on occasion, and talk about getting together....He says he is afraid if he starts seeing me again he will want to be with me all the time...t ...we made plans a few times ..but he did not show up...said he had to work....Why can i not get over him?

2007-02-15 02:35:29 · 19 answers · asked by janetw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently seeing this guys who only speaks spanish. And I have learned enough spanish for us to carry on a conversation. Things are starting to feel like we're headed for forever together. But I want to know everyone's thoughts on this. Do you think it will last? Why or why not? Just to spice it up, I'll tell you that we are intimate, infact we are worse than bunnies! :) Now what do you think?

2007-02-15 02:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by T P 1 in Singles & Dating

How many of you moms out there feel that fear 'I do my best but I still yell too much and my kids will be in counseling one day because of me!'. How many times can you ask your kids to do something before you yell?? They are good kids, sweet, considerate, polite....they just are kids so of course you have to repeat yourself, but what else can you do when you've said it 3 times and have to yell and then hear 'mommy why do you always yell?' and I say 'If you'd listen the first two times I wouldn't' But the next time, same thing. AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH. Sincerely, mother of three not sure of her sanity.

2007-02-15 02:35:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-15 02:34:22 · 12 answers · asked by biencutza47 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible to find a girl who don't have any story or feelings realted to her ex? That's insane

2007-02-15 02:33:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I 've been with my daughters father for eight years but this year things have changed.I'm emotionally destoyed because my entire family never liked him anyway,But that never matter to me reason I was in love.In the past few weeks he became very distant and I can't seem to feel this viod of emptyness.I most tell you this cause it a vital piece of information I'm only 22/he's 28 He was my first everything weve tried to break it off .We just always end up together because he is all that I know.He broke up with me today after I came to his house to find out what he did valenetine day.I complety confused and hurt .How do you get throw the pain?

2007-02-15 02:32:53 · 7 answers · asked by lostlove 1 in Family

The man I have been seeing for 6 weeks, gave me very nice perfume as a Valentine's Day gift. He commented that he liked the perfume I had been wearing, but he wanted to get me a fragrance that he picked out. When I told some of my friends about it, they thought it sounded possessive and that he didn't want me wearing the perfume I wore with the man I previously dated. My friends feel it is a red flag that he may be too possessive or controlling. What does everyone else think? I would love to hear thoughts from both men and women.

2007-02-15 02:31:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they dated for over two years....he really hurt her when they broke up.....but to me it feels like she loved him way more than she loves me....I know she loves me cause when I mention this to her she starts to cry and tells me not to leave....I really hate when she does this like I might be sitting there talking to her then she just freezez up and gets upset cause shes thinkin about this other guy...that makes me feel bad....it messes with my mind....she say its getting better...what should I say or do to make her heal quicker....I did something really nice for valentines she said it helped alot it made her feel wanted and speacial and like no other girl in the world matteres help me out please......leaving is not an option cause I really do love her(by the way were both 20/college students)

2007-02-15 02:30:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone,
I need your help! Opinion! I got married about 6 months back.. 2 weeks back my inlaws got here , and after having dinner my FIL tels his son not to pick up the plate he eat food in coz its the wife's duty to do soo!!! I was shocked... I tld my husband its not fair and i am not happy doing this.. was i wrong? After 2 days he tells me.. u have to perfrom ur duties such as pickin up my plate, serving me coffee wher i am sitting and many more. i am mainly concerned about me lifting his plate.... it freaks me out everytime i do it!!!! Is marriage not supp to be bonded with love and affection than duties which wer prob followed ages bk... N as a husband dont u ppl think he should provide me all the comforts i need.. wen he expects me to fulfil his duties though i am unhappy, is it wrong i expect the comforts he has to provide to me??? Plss advice!!

2007-02-15 02:29:47 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce