Hey i have a boyfriend over 10months now! and i get this feeling hes not interested, like for example we meet up and all but its always me asks him do you want to go to this place! and overall hes ask me to go to places only twice so far! and to me i feel im making all the effort! he never rings me until i ask him so! i dont know why? and i dont want to say anything to him because im afraid will breakup or somethinG and i dont want that to happen! help me! :(
2007-02-15 02:39:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think the best thing you can do is confront him with the fact that he's putting little to no effort in the relationship, and ask him why. Still, it could be that he really likes you but isn't really creative with those things or that he just finds it easy if you do everything. Still, I think its the best thing to just talk about him with it. At least then you won't doubt any longer
2007-02-15 02:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Marlieke89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about breaking up. Are you better off being in a relationship that doesn't support your needs or looking for one that will?
I'll tell you, it is better off to be along and available than to be with the wrong person.
Tell him how you feel.
My wife complained about the same thing & then I pointed out that every time I try to do plan something, she says no or changes the plan completely. She realized it was her fault that I stopped planning things. And we still argue about what to do & how to do it, but at least it is out in the open now...
Relationships take a lot of communication. And compromise...
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-15 10:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesten dear....it is always good to stay under the open sky rather than think with your eyes shut that the sky is clear. Very casually u shud ask him if he really loves you or are you just goof friends.
Believe me.....if A=1, B=2, C=3 and it goes on like this till Z=24. Chalk it out on a paper and then count the values of LOVE which comes down to 54.
Now count the values of FRIENDSHIP, it comes down to 108;
NOW you say, one sided love in your heart is better of which you are not sure OR a known fact that he is a real good friend.
2007-02-15 10:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like this guy is interested, but step back and see for yourself. Stop asking him to call and see how often he calls. Stop planning the dates and see how often you go places. Don't complain or say anything about the situation; just give it another whole month. If he hasn't shown you any more interest than he's showing now, drop this guy.
2007-02-15 10:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs space. Chill for a while and see if he calls. If it's over three weeks, start going out with someone else.
Being needy/not having your own life/pursuing the guy is the best way to end a relationship with a guy.
2007-02-15 10:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope he doesnt care about you at all. he is going through the motions to ensure he keeps getting his knob polished
2007-02-15 10:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not into you, sorry.
2007-02-15 10:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋