4 mo. ago I lost my virginity to co-worker after 2 months on the job. Our fling lasted a couple months, then he ignored me for about a month. Now we don't work much together b/c I requested it, so we're casual when we do work. He's started flirting again, and made me remember how much I liked him. We hung out once after it was "over" just so I could use his computer. Now we are getting along good. I texted him last weekend just b/c, and yesterday he was complaining about walking to school, and I offered to take him. He said no, but I'm sure he appreciated it. Problem is, I hear about all sorts of things he says when I'm not around to other co-workers that makes him look like a womanizer. What made me mad the other day was when some other guy said that almost no-one liked him, but **** them if they can't take a joke. My fling guy responded, "Ya, like I want to sleep with you but I don't want to go out w/ you? That kind of joke?" I'm too nice to take revenge.
2007-02-15 02:39:02 · 3 answers · asked by micha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem is you slept with him befor you could define the kind of relationship he wanted. he wants free, no strings attach sex and you obviously dont want that. so my advice to you is, for you to call it off befor you get real hurt. dont ever believe you can make him change his mind and ways about just wanting sex from you, it wont work. let him be please
2007-02-15 02:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Frances O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being used. You gave him what he wanted to early in the relationship. You really didn't know anything about him, you weren't really friends before you decided to sleep with him. That was the biggest mistake that you could've done. You made the right choice to be moved within your working environment. Now you need to stay away from him all together. Be cordial to him within work so that he doesn't start rumors about you if he already hasn't but outside of work, keep your distance. He's not saying things to make himself look like a womanizer, he is a womanizer. I'm sure he's saying a lot worse than what you're hearing, it just hasn't gotten to you yet. This flirting fling of yours is only talking to you for one thing and one thing only. Other than that he doesn't want to be bothered with you. Let him go before your feelings and heart really end up hurt and broken. Do yourself a favor run, run from him and do it quickly.
2007-02-15 11:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for you to break contact with this guy...he got what he wanted but is not willing to put any more effort into the relationship.
2007-02-15 10:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋