Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

2007-02-15 02:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by bill b 2 in Friends

2007-02-15 02:02:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just read somewhere that people never get over it when a loved one dies and it will always make u terribly sad throughout ur life. I love being happy, but I just can't help feeling excruciating pain off and on throughout the day. She was the most compassionate person a live and I constantly felt lonely and no one else was there form. She called me almost every night of the week to see how I was doing and to make sure everything was ok and how I needed to stay on top of things. She actually was going on a trip because her sister is not feeling well and is in bad condition to. Well, on that trip she was sent to the emergency room. My dad comes in my room in tears yesterday and breaks me the news. I told him to calm down and that everything was going to be ok. I was calm and I calmed him at first. But then, I start crying throughout the day. I feel like piece of me is missing inside and I will never get it back. I'm scared because what happens when the rest of my family goes. I'll be:(

2007-02-15 02:02:04 · 22 answers · asked by Crancrab1 1 in Family

2007-02-15 02:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with the same girl for at least 9 months, and I am sure I'm not in love with her. I don't think I will ever fall in love with her. I am already 22. I still like her and attracted to her though. Is there a way to take it another step so I will fall in love with her? She told me she loved me a lot of times. I didn't know what to reply to that. I can't tell her I love her because she probably wants me to and I'm not in love with her.

2007-02-15 02:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by Raymond 1 in Singles & Dating

You have the choice of going out with this fantastic looking girl the so called model type but the only conversation she has is purely about herself or the other girl.

The other girl is normal but has not got the looks but the most fantastic sense of humour.
You will be meeting up with your friends later on which one would you take along?

Be truethfull if possible!

2007-02-15 02:00:23 · 16 answers · asked by rachelsweet2001 4 in Singles & Dating

Is hatred that spews out from words, insults and verbal attacks and blaming for all that went wrong, is this love trying to get out? Is hatred the sign of love trying to be expressed - internally setting off internal struggle turning into hate - targeted at the blamed?

There was no cheating, lying, abuse. Husband was too busy building financial empire to support interntional structure of multi-national marriage for families divided by long distance.

2007-02-15 01:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You get nothing out of it. He gets all of the benefits of a wife. You get no benefits of a legal document. I am starting to date and find that so many women have lived with men and then were devestated when he left them or put them out. Men have all of the advatanges. Why do it? What were you thinking?

2007-02-15 01:59:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 01:59:06 · 46 answers · asked by kim 1 in Singles & Dating

i git roses from a secret admioror and HELLA candy what did you get??

2007-02-15 01:58:04 · 6 answers · asked by surfer girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i are married for 10 years. He is 51, and im 35. thought our marriage was ok. Until i found out he was cheating on me. He told me it was all my fault because i was never a good wife to him as he claims. He never realized my effort, and my endearing qualities. I tried my best to be the wife he wants me to be. For a year we tried holding on to each other. I was more of a giver than receiver. Inspite of it all, i noticed his feeling of emptiness &, loneliness. He says he is not happy, he doesnt know what he wants, and he's sick and tired of being a father, a husband, and a provider to us. He just want to think about himself, and give happiness for himself. He thinks time is running out, and he hasn't done so much in his life. but he left me with my 2 sons, after finding out again that he was still seeing the other woman. I begged him to stay, but he said he feels his going to die if he stays. He wants time and space to search for himself and if he still loves me.

2007-02-15 01:57:32 · 13 answers · asked by kaye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently become engaged. My fiance and I decided on having four couples stand up....4 of his best friends and 4 of mine. This would mean my brother is left out. My brother and I aren't super close but we talk usually once a week and he is family. Do I create another spot as a groomsman or do you think it's ok that he does not stand up? I think I already know what I need to do, I just want some other input.

2007-02-15 01:57:26 · 19 answers · asked by Smiles 1 in Weddings

I asked this guy out on Valentines Day by using a note, and I gave it to my friend to put in his valentine box because I'm not in his class. She said that she read it, put it in her pocket, and then lost it, so she wrote a new one that said the exact same thing. Then everyone at lunch said that they found it on the ground. But isn't that the origanal one that my friend lost? If you knew this guy that I asked out, you would know that he would never ever EVER throw it on the ground. He's popular, but not the mean popular. He's popular because he's the nicest guy that you could ever ever ever meet. (and he's hoooooottttttt) But do you think that he threw it on the ground or do you think that it was the origanal. My friend sai dthat he hadn't even read it yet, when everone that's NOT in his class said that he threw it on the ground. But my friend that is in my class said that he hadn't even read it yet, and she was watching him the whole time. Who do I beleive. I need some imput.

2007-02-15 01:56:39 · 10 answers · asked by me 2 in Friends

We sit across from each other and can talk forever. We look deeply in each other's eyes. She knows me inside out, and I want to know her too. Sometimes, our feet accidently rub against each other under the table. Our conversations tend to block out everyone around us, and we are in our own little world. She knows I like her but cannot date, but she wants our friendship to grow. I sent her an ecard yesterday. How might she react?

2007-02-15 01:55:32 · 8 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

I was listnening to a radio station last night and so many people rang in giving out because of the fact that the British National Anthem is going to be played at Croke Park on Sunday before the kick off considering what happened there in the 1920's (Bloody Sunday), is this alot of peoples opinion or can they not move on from the past as that was our ancestors but why do so many Irish people have such a hate against the English because of something that they themselves(the Brits) cant do anything about in this day and age because they weren't around in the 1920s' (before u think im British im not im 100% Irish) just want peoples opinions on whether they agree with the Irish and where there coming from or not?

2007-02-15 01:53:55 · 4 answers · asked by rainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend (11) we've been kissing but not EVERY day and we dont kiss pationately just a couple sec. IS this normal

2007-02-15 01:53:52 · 29 answers · asked by sk8rgx 1 in Friends

...can a woman go on hating her ex and not wanting to even speak with him about the child issues. She is deeply involved with boyfriend and it would appear that she would be happy and this would spill into all aspects of her life - including dealing with ex about child issues. Instead, anger, hatred, denial and refusing to communicate even for the simplest matters, attempts at custody demanding little time (4 days a month) of son with father when there are no grounds and son and father spend many days a month together, extended weekends, father drops son off at school Mondays and Thursdays, and a dinner night in between. Is this just a control game? Is this lack of concern for the father and son? Mother will not allow meeting with boyfriend between him and concerned father - who is this man who is disturbing son? Why is son disturbed? Question asked of son, "if your father was not around is there anything about this man that you could consider as a good role model?" "NO!" he replied.

2007-02-15 01:53:35 · 7 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is 20 and 29 to big of an age gap to be dating someone? I recently found this guy that I really REALLY like. He's sweet, funny, and we have a lot in common. He recently told me however that he wasn't the original age he told me which is (25), because I told him I'd only date guys that were 18-25. He said that he liked me so much that he couldn't help but lying about his age and that it had been eating up at him ever since we met and he finally just told me the truth. I've never really liked a guy as much as I do him and his dishonesty was only because he wanted to be with me and give him a chance. However, I'm really worried that 20 and 29 are too far apart. I might have called things off if he told me this right off the bat, but now I've learned about him and like him a lot. The thing is, I feel that it's better to be with someone closer to your age and it's always been something I followed. I'll be broken if I leave him. He likes me and his apology for lying was so long and sweet.

2007-02-15 01:51:13 · 23 answers · asked by Crancrab1 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are experiencing some tough times - she is going through some changes - is discovering aspects to herself for the first time and we have been married for seven years. I betrayed our trust by looking at her email accounts. She lied to me about two guys, telling me they were gay (To protect me, because I would freak out) when they were not. Now we are barely speaking to eachother and I am giving her as much space as our family of six can. I am wondering what I can do to help make the situation better for all involved. I know that any pressure I put on her will make her just want to run in the opposite direction. Help.

2007-02-15 01:50:29 · 8 answers · asked by findingselflove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of them is well travelled, funny and exciting, but not stable and not looking for commitment.The other is intelligent wants to be serious, financially stable but really dull.Both are really nice guys, what would you do?

2007-02-15 01:50:29 · 32 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Singles & Dating

i just want to know this

2007-02-15 01:49:36 · 1 answers · asked by zapprah s 1 in Singles & Dating

if youre girlfriend is not ready to have sex how much you will wait her?is sex so important for you?

2007-02-15 01:47:32 · 4 answers · asked by madakill 1 in Singles & Dating

Anything funny or cute or thought provoking, please email me them, my friends boyfriend has just dumped her and shes away on a course for another week, wanna cheer her up with some funny and cute etc emails, thanks in advance.

2007-02-15 01:47:16 · 8 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Friends

This is a pretty long story that needs to be condensed. My wife and I are in couples therapy. We are going through the first big hurdle in our relationship after seven years and four kids. I was very stressed out over the last month or so- intense work related problems, trouble with a very good friend I have known since HS, four kids, plus my wife has gone away to two conferences for the first time ever, as she is getting more independent. Some of her actions were disturbing, she lied to me about two of these guys being gay- and I snooped into her email account and looked at her phone 2X. I told her I did as it made me feel like crap and now we are barely talking. It has been a week of ice cold- but I am giving her the space she has asked for. We had planned to go to a romantic overnighter and I asked her if she still thought it was a good idea day before yesterday and she said, "We always have wanted to go, so lets do it." I dont want to do more damage. What should I do?

2007-02-15 01:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by findingselflove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I got really drunk last night and we started having sex when we got home and I passed out, well this morning he is giving me a bunch of ****, so i needed a second opinion.

2007-02-15 01:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by Erika D 1 in Singles & Dating

Nothing mjor has happened. An old boyfriend contacted me. He is married with three kids. We have seen on another twice. He wants to take this further. Usual lines about not happy with wife, etc. I refused to marry him about ten years ago for reasons I don't remember. Tell me how this is a mistake and I will regret it.

2007-02-15 01:45:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Nothing mjor has happened. An old boyfriend contacted me. He is married with three kids. We have seen on another twice. He wants to take this further. Usual lines about not happy with wife, etc. I refused to marry him about ten years ago for reasons I don't remember. Tell me how this is a mistake and I will regret it.

2007-02-15 01:44:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm falling for this guy and I don't know what to do. We haven't met in person yet but our conversations are awsome. But it seems too good to be true. We've already talked about a future together but everytime he plans to come and see me some goes wrong. There is always an excuse and explantion. I don't know if I trust him or believe anything he says anymore. But I also don't want to make the mistake that if he is telling me the truth, I would have lost him for not trusting him. Please help!

2007-02-15 01:44:14 · 13 answers · asked by flctya 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I sleep with someone without having any emotion afterwards?

2007-02-15 01:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on valentines day it was our 30th wedding anniversary,our daughter gave us 30 pounds towards a meal.because of no child minder we decided to either get a take away or i;d do a meal. so i brought everything for a home made chinese 10 pounds to get some wine and a DVD i used the other 20 for the meal and to make it extra special i also brought some strawberrys and cream a bunch of flowers and a card . i really did need this to be special as at christmas my mother died i was with her for the last 9 days of her life she passed away in my arms s my hubby did not attend the funrall with me as he had other obuligations and hes never been keen on my mum any way so as you can see i really needed to feel his love,when he came home from work he had the wine and dvd, was it wrong of me to be so upset that i recived no card or flowers in fact nothing that would have come out of his own pocket. i told him i felt upset so he went out and got me a plastic flower some chocks and a mag ,

2007-02-15 01:43:30 · 8 answers · asked by susiesnowdrop 3 in Marriage & Divorce