Is hatred that spews out from words, insults and verbal attacks and blaming for all that went wrong, is this love trying to get out? Is hatred the sign of love trying to be expressed - internally setting off internal struggle turning into hate - targeted at the blamed?
There was no cheating, lying, abuse. Husband was too busy building financial empire to support interntional structure of multi-national marriage for families divided by long distance.
2007-02-15 01:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree that hate is a strong emotion and that the opposite of love is NOT hate but apathy
however,
I wouldn't find any hope in your situation. Like none at all. In fact, if I were on the receiving end of what you have described I believe it would kill any feeling I had. I certainly would not be searching for some tangled way to make it look good in my eyes.
Let it go sister. You can't make it something sweet.
2007-02-15 02:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this lady is not at ease herself and is trying to believe in her present love. She may have been feeling neglected and ignored and perhaps used because of the lack of matrimonial harmony. But since you both are already separated, discussing these things are in vain, until she is ready to talk about her feelings too. You may ask a common friend or relative to help you sort out the problems and explain to her that there was no malice behind all that happened. But I believe you can just hope to make her understand and there is nothing you can do beyond that.
2007-02-15 02:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are not actions or words of love but of frustration and anger and hurt. The marriage has not been the priority of the husband here as he was trying to make more money and a name for himself instead of putting his time and energy into his lovely home marriage and wife. Both of ya lose out on this one and you need marriage counseling and help to get things back on track where they belong. Sometimes we say these things because we want our spouse to know how we really feel and this is the only way that we know how to do it. Does not come out right this way but at least you are letting them know how hurt and angry you are. This is a release at times.
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2007-02-15 02:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to start respecting each other. How can you possibly think this is a form of showing love. This is the beginning of the end if you continue.
2007-02-15 02:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, they do no longer look to be opposites like I used to think of in my little ones. In my thinking now, the different of affection is "worry". Love and Hate are definitely borderline thoughts for specific. it is been mentioned they are separated via in trouble-free terms an outstanding line. the subject that separates love from hate is "appreciate". i truthfully do no longer think of they are the comparable emotion in any respect nonetheless basically bordering thoughts reflecting the fullness or appreciate or the absence of it.
2016-10-02 04:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a tool we use when we refuse to accept that it could have been our fault. I mean somebody has to take the blame and surely it's not me.
2007-02-15 02:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋