Shall I start just enjoying sex without any emotional attachment?

Question

How can I sleep with someone without having any emotion afterwards?

Answer 1

Is there any other way? Yes, by all means.

Answer 2

I believe sex without any feelings or emotional attachment would be empty and not as good if you did not have any feelings or the emotional intimacy involved. Granted, it hurts if things don't work out, but after a while of physical gratification without the emotional stuff, it would get to the point where you'll feel as if your missing something and wonder what was the point of the act other than a few fleeting moments of pleasure .

Answer 3

Come’ on people, sex is just sex, making love is having sex with someone you are in love with, and still there can be just sex with that same person.

The simple act to have sex is just that. If you just concentrate on enjoying it, having a good time, and making your partner enjoy it too (please him/her), you would be having sex, nothing more.

Now, if you love that one person, and actually take your time, touch, feel, kiss, look into each other’s eyes, say “I love you” to each other many times, and make that feeling become higher than anything else (including the fact that you are have sex and climaxing), then you find yourself making love.

Both my wife and I do both. Sometimes we just feel like having sex, we are usually wild, rough, and do crazy things, and we both consider that more sex than making love. But we also make out and do it slow, passionate, and for a long time, and that is what we call “making love”.

And you can tell when it really “hits” your heart if you feel like crying from happiness. My wife have done many times, and even I have done it some times, and is the best feel ever because you are embraced with the one you love.

Everybody is different, but I am sure we all can experience both. I think is a myth that guys only have sex and girl must have feelings all the time. I have experience both, and so my wife.

But whatever floats your boat….

Answer 4

Are you a prostitute?
It is a question of what do you want out of the relationship.
Some people only care for the physical part of the relationship, but that is very limited compared to the overall aspact of it. Imagine being 60 or 70. Are you still only going to want the physical relationship or so you wish to have more. Life is more than chocolate coating, it is the inside of the candy that matters.
Sooner or later you are bound to find a piece that suits your taste.

Answer 5

I'd be concerned if you didn't have any emotion afterward, that only means that you have no conscience. You need to feel something afterward, especially if you're a woman. For God's sake, you just let someone INSIDE of you, where your future baby will be.

Answer 6

no that is not any longer a nasty aspect. you do not experience emotional connected after sex because he would not furnish you with that feeling. that would not advise you don't like him; it basically means he's not any longer making you experience the way you want. do not sweat it...he receives more beneficial advantageous!!

Answer 7

jus sleep with them n stop carin bout ppls feelins boy life is about u until u find yoself the girl 4 u.

Street Science

Answer 8

You can't, especially if you are a girl, don't do it...you will start disrespecting yourself

Hold out for something meaningful emotionally and physically

Answer 9

it is easy go for casual sex only with people u r not emotianaly involved with already for eg avoid frds,co workers

Answer 10

You already answered your own question... YOU can't! Some people can... you just are not made that way - and there is nothing wrong with it!