One of them is well travelled, funny and exciting, but not stable and not looking for commitment.The other is intelligent wants to be serious, financially stable but really dull.Both are really nice guys, what would you do?
2007-02-15 01:50:29 · 32 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find guy #3
2007-02-15 01:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take Mr. Dull and turn him inside out and give him some experience on the non-dull side of life. If you are looking for commitment. Otherwise, go with Mr. Excitement knowing that he is but one stop on the trolley ride of life. Or introduce Mr. Dull to Mr. Excitement and pay Mr. Excitement to teach Mr. Dull to liven up. Or pay Mr. Dull to teach Mr. Excitement something about commitment. On the chance that they become an "item," start a business called "Opposites Attract" and match the unmacheable with one another. Then write a book and become famous and get your own TV show and hopefully get the very bald Dr. Phil off TV so he cannot use any more people to create wealth.
Then again, Dr. Laura has all the answers and therefore no one else need apply.
2007-02-15 02:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm well traveled, funny and exciting. I'm stable and looking for commitment. I'm intelligent but the financially stable part is really relative.
2007-02-15 02:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Gustav 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is easy just figure out what you want! If you are ready to settle down and bake cookies and vacuum on your Friday nights then Mr. Dull is the obvious choice. If you still want to dance on bars and do shots of of dudes you don't know with the 90% chance to end up on Girls Gone Wild every time you go out! Then I would suggest Mr. unstable so you can finish getting your unstable feeling sorted! If you are not ready for Mr. Dull rest assured it will not last long! You will either be bored out of your mind or he will dump you when he sees you doing a shot off a guy from Girls Gone Wild! Think about it...... Good Luck
2007-02-15 02:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by dfgrace22 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dullness can be treated through exposition to new things. Besides he is SERIOUS about making you happy and will do his best to suit your needs.
Commitment can't be coerced, coaxed or demanded of someone. Don't suffer the consequences of beating a dead horse and go for the stability, intelligence and seriousness!
2007-02-15 01:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For woman that seems to be the choice a lot from what i have seen. Me personaly i would pick a dull chick over some party sk*nk any day. To me nobody is really dull they are just chillen and more mature and just don't feel the need for consant attention.
2007-02-15 01:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say that for a young person, the traveller is far more preferrable than the intelligent. For a middle age peson the latter is far more promising than the former.
But, judging from your photo, I would choose YOU whatever category you are.
All the best!/
2007-02-15 01:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
#2.. Maybe the guy needs to be shown how to have fun. Successful people spend their time at being a success. Go sit in the UPPER DECKS at a hockey game. You can’t be dull up there……
If you tired with all your might to get the guy to break out of a shell and just can’t do it. Your just the WRONG starfish!
2007-02-15 01:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok, I'm not a woman, but go for the fun guy. I know a lot of people who settle to settle down. Don't be one of them. Actually, it looks like you can get any guy you want. I agree that you should find another one.
2007-02-15 01:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mike V 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would advise you to go for the intelligent but dull one. I think with the two of you getting deeper and deeper in love your brilliant and exciting virtue will surely rub on him and eraze the dullness in him, sure.
2007-02-15 02:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do you think you have to take either? You obviously have not found the man who makes your socks go up and down or you wouldn't have to ask.
Neither - run for the hills.
2007-02-15 01:56:10 · answer #11 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋