well me and my boyfriend (11) we've been kissing but not EVERY day and we dont kiss pationately just a couple sec. IS this normal
2007-02-15 01:53:52 · 29 answers · asked by sk8rgx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well me and my b/f (he's 11) have been kissing NOT every day and not pashionately just a couple sec. is this normal is it like inapropriate for me to be doing???IS IT NORMAL for a 6th grade girl 2 b doing???
2007-02-15 01:57:18 · update #1
Good question to ask!
Yes, I think it's "normal" for your age, but that doesn't make it "good" or "appropriate."
Remember, there are just a few years of getting to be a kid---and you only have a few of them left. Then the rest of your LIFE you are going to be a grown-up.
Don't waste any of your good kid years by trying to race ahead, especially in the area of relationships.
I love that you are asking, because it shows you are really trying to be a person of worth, who cares about doing and learning the right things. Good for you!
2007-02-23 02:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i dont think this is healthy behavior. You are developing a sexual appitite at a younger age than most kids. You shouldnt be kissing anyone for another year or more. You may think that kissing is innocent, and to a point it is but it will lead to other things in the future, and that can result into early sexual behavior. Which can not only get you called horrible names like slut or whore but also its not healthy. You should be focused in school and i know i sound like a mom but im only 19. If you get involved a little now then you will find it easier to give in to worst behavior in the future, and that is something you dont want, you dont want to be 15 with a baby, my best advise is to be smart, dont give in to anything youre not comfortable with, and stay true to yourself.
2007-02-23 02:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by ~*BabyGirlpinky06*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for my 6th grader!!!
No, it is NOT normal. There may be a FEW ( a very small number) of kids your age who do this, but it is not normal in the sense that it's OK for you to do it.
I am aware that this happens, but I think it is better to wait until later to have boyfriends and kiss them.
Remember, the earlier you start having relationships with boys, the earlier you are likely to have sex and sex leads to babies... are you ready to have a baby? Do you think you will want a baby when you are 15 and haven't even had a life of your own yet?
2007-02-15 10:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by not yet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess so for your generation. your nearly in high school and most ppl by the time there 13 have had sex already (but don't do it lol its not legal until you 16 and plus you don't have a real sense of what love is or a good understaning of who the right person is too) (and no i am not some old person telling you whats right or wrong i am only 19) just take it slow and have fun, kissin wont hurt but don;t take it any further until you are a million percent happy with it and wont regret it. have fun
2007-02-15 10:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's normal. You guys are barely growing up, and with time you will learn the proper way to kiss. Besides, everyone isn't born knowing how to do things. SInce you guys are still young, you are trying to learn how to kiss. Keep practicing, but don't let it get out of hand. At your age, there are many other interests out there, so that is why you don't kiss everyday. Besides, you are still young to know what passion is, and what passion feels like. Like I said, with time, you will learn how to do it properly. Hang in there.
2007-02-20 11:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Black Orchid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's normal as long as, like you say, it is not passionate
kissing which will lead to something else. You've got
a whole life ahead of you. Enjoy yourself, but always
respect yourself, and remember who you are and where
you are. There are limits we all must go by but we
can still have a good time.
Best of luck in life
2007-02-23 00:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Northwest Womps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing in 6th grade is very normal, u have nothing to be asshamed of! just dont let it go too much further just yet, ur still young and learning the basics of a relatioship but kissing is the first step its ok, its totally natural!
2007-02-15 10:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are only 11 you have many things to experience in life. its not normal try being friends and leave the kissing and other stuff and enjoy growing up and having fun.
2007-02-23 04:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I didn't get my first kiss until I was 15 but still its the generation thing. People are more open minded these days.
You just have a headstart in life I think.
Its ok
2007-02-18 05:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by contrastreverse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is. You're way too young for anything more, but there is nothing wrong with your actions. (In fact, just about every normal adult person on the planet has gone through the same thing.)
2007-02-15 10:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋