How does one go about telling their boyfriend that they would like to try something new, in the bedroom (i.e. ana1)
2007-02-15 02:41:54 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all I am not immature, I am a mother!!!
I have beed a lil bit shy to talk about it cos I always thought ana1 was a bit wrong, but all my friends raved about it so a put a vibe there and loved it so I wanna try it with him
2007-02-15 02:59:16 · update #1
I thinks most guys are open to suggestion - why dont you when your in bed ask him if there is anything he would like to do thats new.and then sneak into the conversation what you want.
2007-02-15 02:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him or show him.
Most guys are afraid of asking us to do the wild and crazy things.
But when you bring it up it's more of a turn on for them.
Tell him what you want, and how you want it.
OR during the moment just go with the flow. Switch it up in the middle of everything, and 9 out of 10 he'll just tag along for the ride!
HAVE FUN!
2007-02-15 02:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Communication is vital, most men will oblige in making a woman happy in the bedroom but unfortunately because some are selfish they don't ask either.
Just ask him straight out you deserve sexual satisfaction as well as he does.
Go for it....or I'll be paying you a visit lol
2007-02-15 06:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have the necessary props. Hopefully, you ALWAYS use condoms anyway, if not make sure you use a condom any time you do anal sex. Next, have some lubricant (K-Y works well but there are others). Once you are prepared just ask him, preferably in the midst of foreplay when y'all are most receptive to new ideas anyways. I suspect he'll be as eager as you are for a new experience.
2007-02-15 02:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him - My partner and I decided from the beginning to be really open and honest about sex to each other - otherwise one or both of you could be missing out on something you are too afraid to try! Just ask him what he thinks about it and go from there.
2007-02-15 02:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by JoJi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...just say it!! communication is so very valuable and i can't imagine thinking about something so personal BEFORE considering talking about it. Just ask if he'd like to try something new or ask if he's every considered trying ****. Or ask if he's disgusted by it...i mean...this is ur guy...this shouldn't be a hard question to ask. if it is...then yall probably shouldn't be trying something so....risky?!?!?
2007-02-15 02:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Benny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him you've been thinking about it and want to try it or wait until you are both in the swing of things and ask him to put it in there.
2007-02-15 02:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gosh! It's true! The 70's have returned!
2007-02-15 02:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell/show him when you're in the bedroom and both worked up (he'll be more likely to oblige).
2007-02-15 02:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can't you just try talking to him, whilst you in bed... or about to have sex...?
Ask him how he feels about trying it???
Honestly I can't see many guys not wanting it....! lol
Recently my partner suggested something new, which isn't all that 'normal'...
He said ''Ive always wanted to try XYZ, how do you feel about it?'' It worked, im usually up for anything...! lol
Go ahead and just ask.. good luck!x
2007-02-15 02:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋