Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

My boyfriend brooke up with me the day before valentines day and he rite away asked out sum other girl and brought her a rose and all that happy valentines day stuff 4 her on valentines day. And i saw them hugging and stuff in the hallways at school and is it normal for people in my situation to feel jelouse and heartbroken and all depressed?

2007-02-15 03:37:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is not to big on Valentines Day. So I told him that rather me forcing him to go out and buy something, we just skip it. Right? Who likes a forced gift? To my suprise he told me that he already had my gift - and that it was at his office. Well that was weird from the start. He never buys me anything early, it's always the day of the Holiday or event. And why would he take it to his office? So I started getting curious as to what it was, or if he really had anything at all.

Well it turned out, he re-gifted my Valentines gift.

He received a gift from a client while we were on vacation last week & saved it to give to me as my gift from him. It's a carton of carmels.

When I got it out of him, we both kinda laughed, yet I told him that I was hurt that he tried to lie about it, and pass it off as something he did on his own. And as much as I didn't/don't want to make a big deal about it, why is it bothering me?

Would it bother you?? Thanks, Gals!

2007-02-15 03:37:26 · 24 answers · asked by jt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Everything was going fine, then monday she told me that she wanted some time to think. She got out of a 7 year abusive realationship mid last year. We started dating about 6-8 months after that.

Does she realy just need some time or is there no chance in hell of us getting back together.

Just curios on what I should do or not do.

Thanks for the help

2007-02-15 03:37:08 · 17 answers · asked by striderknight2000 3 in Singles & Dating

he's my fiance and I love him so much and I think he's cute and even if he's not I wouldn't care. my parents are making a big deal out of it (our relationship) saying that he's too ugly for me and I will regret marrying him, I don't see him as ugly at all.
I'm 5'8 and 140 lbs and hot....they say :)
here's his pic, what do you think of him, and what would you think when you see me walking with him?
I don't get opinions from people about him..except from my family, so I just wanted to get some opinions about him from people here :) I really don't care for what you all say about him (don't mean to be rude :D)but I just wanted to know what you all are gonna say :D

please be honest, I won't get hurt :)
http://flickr.com/photos/23156252@N00/384245827/?edited=1
by the way, the girl standing next to him is not me it's his sister, I'm hotter LOL :D

Please don't tell me it's on the inside that counts or it's in the eye of the beholder...etc just tell me your opinion....PLEASE!

2007-02-15 03:37:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I desperately need advice! I have been married to 'Kyle' for 7 yrs. The past 5 yrs we had serious issues in our relationship that he never wanted to work on. So, we finally separated just to have some time for us both to think. I then met 'Kobie'and to make a long story short, became pregnant with his baby. Over the course of the pregnancy, I basically had a mental breakdown. After Kyle found out I was pregnant, it was kind of his 'wake-up' call and he began being the husband I always wanted him to be and working on the long term issues we had. I was so confused about if I should stay and work on my marriage or be with the father of my child. I literally bounced back and forth between living with both Kyle and Kobie's. Both of them love very much and want to spend the rest of thier life with me. I just want to do what is right. Please help me! Counseling is not working. Being on my own is not an option financially and I have no family or friends I can live with.

2007-02-15 03:37:01 · 13 answers · asked by newyorknewyork 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a **** and having ssex with a girl doesnt seem right but I feel its right what do I do?

2007-02-15 03:36:44 · 11 answers · asked by Tish 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone have this trouble. Someone doesn't want to be with me and for some reason, even after a week of knowing this, I go to bed lonely and wake up sad. I feel so regretful I told her how I felt and let things get physical. Anyone have any suggestions. Thanks.

2007-02-15 03:35:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My situation is that I am interested in this girl that works at the gym I go to. I've talked to her a couple of times, but am running out of things to ask her, so it's tough for me to confront her and keep the conversation going. What are a few things I could ask her to strike up a conversation again, and then what are some questions I can ask to see if she is interested in me at all?

2007-02-15 03:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Pedro 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:35:04 · 5 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:34:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think I am falling in love with someone who believes in love but not the act of falling in love. What does this mean for us?

2007-02-15 03:34:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:34:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:33:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my fiance are both 37, and have been together a bit over a year. when we first started dating I found out he chewed tobacco, thats fine, then he stated he wanted to quit. He said he did, then found out he was still doing it,he told me. Thats fine. So we agree on getting him patches. I just again recently found he is still chewing, but he denys it. Why? I told him I want to help him and that I wouldn't get mad or upset. Why does he feel the need to keep that he is still chewing from me? How can I get him to tell me he still is without causing more fights? I don't care if he still does it, it's the lying to me that bothers me. I just want to help him. Any more details u need, ask. Too much to type and hard to get point across on here.

2007-02-15 03:33:47 · 1 answers · asked by Jeanine W 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years now and its been one long miserable marriage to me as the husband...
i am the step-dad to her three boys and i have none of my own,
my wife does not share the same intemacy in anything that i am into, be it hobbies, or sexual, she always needs to make appointments for sex or it seems, it cant just be spuntanious, she is never up for it either. so that was not in or marriage for a long time now, i was unhappy, emotionally and phisically, not to mention that she does not want to combine incomes and have one account. i want out two years ago I met someone that cares
very deeply about me and i know without a doubt that she would be my soulmate, we enjoy and have the same passion for life in a mutual way .
i told my wife that i want out for real and she does no wnat it of course! and now she is wanting to try harder for the marriage. and i have falling out of love with her. i am just looking for support in my feelings right now

2007-02-15 03:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

looking to find a nice girl to date

2007-02-15 03:33:36 · 1 answers · asked by bigredyum 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:33:13 · 4 answers · asked by yadira 1 in Singles & Dating

I think i dont have any need to describe my questions. But yes girls are in the priority to answer this

2007-02-15 03:33:00 · 11 answers · asked by rahul1982m 1 in Singles & Dating

I did something very wrong that i want to make right. I ran away and then when i got taken to child haven i made up a lie about my dad out of anger. Then i got sent to my aunts house and she said i could not talk to my fiance, but i did anyways. Now my cousin is mad at me for what he says was disrespecting HIS aunt but she is my aunt too. Then on Valentines Day i texted him to tell him that and he texted me back " why are you texting me i am mad at you," What can I do to make all of this right again???

2007-02-15 03:32:52 · 18 answers · asked by *TURTLE* 2 in Family

Since the girl asks, does she pay?

2007-02-15 03:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if there were no barriers or obstacles, who would it be and why?

2007-02-15 03:32:34 · 5 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

Can I ask for supervised visits if the boyfriend of my daughter (they recently had a son) has been put out of my house? He has used abusive language and I am not comfortable with him being in my home with my daughter and grandson unattended. I put him out of my house last week and he is insisting that he has a right to see his son. I agree with that but there has to be a time limit.

2007-02-15 03:32:30 · 4 answers · asked by stlouisphile 2 in Family

My husband has a friend that is a complete horrible person. His friend keeps telling my husband to divorce me and since they have been hanging out together we have had so many problems. In less than two weeks they are going together to some kind of training for a month and I am afraid the influence this guy has on my husband will make him leave me. I cant just ask him to stop talking to this guy and if they both complete the training both of our families will be moved together to another state. This guy is coming in between my family.

2007-02-15 03:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by GIRL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

About 8-9 years ago my sisters boyfriend of 6 years raped me in my parents house *he lived with us*..My sister never believed me after i told her and i even had to take a lie detector test to prove and get him to confess on a tapped phone. She still didnt believe me and told me to tell everyone he didnt rape me because she loved him still. I told her i could not and her and him broke up after he confessed to her..In the past he has also abused her emotionally and physically. They broke up and during christmas time she told me she is talking to him again and how happy she is..She said it like she didnt care that he friggin raped me. I was soo hurt but didnt say anything,i know if her and him get back together that i will one day see him again and i cant go through the pain of that. I just cant believe this and dont know what to do about this situation. Everyone in my family knows and they dont care at all. what would u do and why is she doing this to me?

2007-02-15 03:32:04 · 13 answers · asked by cheerychumms 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 03:31:41 · 20 answers · asked by Dark Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to act out a fanasty with my man, where I am in complete control of the action. No M&S. If it were you what would you like to see, what would you like to have done to you.

2007-02-15 03:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by Sherilyn M 1 in Singles & Dating

she nevr stops talking about how cool he is. been there, done that

2007-02-15 03:31:00 · 22 answers · asked by iluvhandschuh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 03:30:53 · 15 answers · asked by Sari 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife likes to sleep with our men,but our sex life is great ...I think she likes the older man ...male here 33

2007-02-15 03:30:51 · 56 answers · asked by ivorhard_on 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he cheats on all his g/f's...he's totally wrong for me, and soo opposite, but can I do it for fun?

2007-02-15 03:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2 in Singles & Dating