My wife cheated on my about a year ago, ironically just before valentines day. I've been struggling on and off with it since I found out about 7 months ago. We have a house and a child and we both love each other enough to have decided to work things out, but I can't help but feel like I'm settling for unhappiness. I feel unfulfilled and lonely, there is still a lack of affection (mostly on my part). I keep feeling like if I were to seek revenge, by hooking up with someone, that I'll feel better about having been cheated on myself. We've been married for 7 years, and it's not like I've never wanted to, I just never acted on it and after she cheated on me I feel that I really want to hook up with someone, maybe once or maybe a few times. Am I wrong for feeling this way? If I am, how else do I cope with things? If I am justified, why does it seem so hard to find a woman who would understand my situation and want to have a little fun, for my benifit? Jeez, I must be crazy.
2007-02-15
04:03:22
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