My new boyfriend and I have already had unprotected sex more than a few times and I don't know why. I haven't done that with anyone else and neither has he. I don't know why all of sudden i've been irresponsible with him. I wonder if its possibly that we both might want children or what but every single time we do it he says its the last time and its not.
What could be causing this? Please no comments about using condoms and etc. this is more of a mental question. I know what i need to do for birth control. Thanks
2007-02-15 04:06:01 · 13 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's face it. Intercourse without a condom just plain feels better for one. Secondly, you don't have to stop when he comes. Thirdly, it makes a second round much more desirable. Latex leaves a mildly unpleasant odor and taste on both parties, which is worsened if the latex was treated with monoxyl-9. Spontaneity makes things more exciting as well.
If you think you can trust him in a monogamous relationship, switch to a method other than condoms until you're sure you want to settle down with him and start a family. It seems that you both sense things are "right' with the both of you, but don't rush in to having kids till time proves you are sure.
I hope this helps. Good luck to both of you.
2007-02-15 04:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...what?!? You don't know why you had unprotected sex? Because he didn't want to wear a condom, maybe. If you're really asking this question, you should learn a bit more about sex first.
Birth control is not 100% so you can still get pregnant. That is fact.
2007-02-15 12:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in every relationship I have had I have never used condom protection except for a couple times. I do NOT have any STD's nor have I ever. "Bareback" is okay if you know the person your sleeping with. Maybe your not worried about what could happen it's just the "in the moment" feel. I'm not sure about him but I know most guys hate wearing them, and when they find that girl that won't nag about wearing one they just don't or won't.
2007-02-15 12:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by lilred25smc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 14 and i know i shouldnt be having sex but i do it anyways i have a really sweet boyfriend and i knwo it sounds bad but he is 16 but everything is perfect and i know it sounds like one of those freshman going out with a senior or something its not like that tho but i never have used a condom and i havent only dont it with this guy i did it with one other one too but i know i sound like a slut cause of that but either get birthcontrol or start using it. like next time you have sex just pull out a condom to show you want to have sex and maybe he will use it i dont know
2007-02-15 12:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak up and tell him unless ya'll are ready for children then you will not have unprotected sex. If he says he is ready ya'll need to sit down and discuss the problem. You may be letting him do this because you are scared to speak up and offend him. But you need to speak up or at least talk to each other about tis.
2007-02-15 12:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by neicee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being irresponsible. If you really can't stick condoms GET ON THE PILL!!
2007-02-15 12:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think mentally you want children.. i think he likes cumming in you & not wearing a condom.. that is that.
you have to be responsible adults.. doing what you are doing, is not responsible at all, unless you are PLANNING to have kids.. which involves a lot more then semen.. you have to be financially secure, in a great committed relationship and have a place to start your family - just to name a few.
please don't be naive.. tell him to wrap it up.
condoms are fair cheaper then kids!
good luck.
2007-02-15 13:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by a dork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental is right..your both Stupid... and you know he'll cut and run if you get pregnant... Just say "NO" one time and I'll guarantee he'll bring protection the next time..
2007-02-15 12:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u both got to comfortable with each other,,if u keep going the odds are not in ur favor ok mommy
2007-02-15 12:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you need to do and you're not doing it = irresponsible.
It's really that simple. Have fun changing diapers.
2007-02-15 12:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋