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There is this I girl and she knows that I have feelings for her. One night, after our hospital shift, her ex-boyfriend (as she said it to us) didnt came to pick her up so I do the job. But instead of going to her house, she told me that she is going to her "ex-boyfriend's" house. I felt shock. I tell myself, how could she be so insensitive not to feel that "hey someone's who's gonna be hurt is in here." But instead, we waited outside her "Ex-boyfriend's house" so he can take her home instead of me who was just concern for her safety. Definitely it hurts and I cry a lot to think that I have given him my week-long allowance just to buy her a doll for the valentines day. I dont expect something for return about the gift but what I was thinking is that does she really that insensitive or am is she only challenging my patience... Right now, i decided not to continue courting her because I have already received enough. My only problem is how can i forget her and how to move on with my life..

2007-02-15 04:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by RoughY 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

12 answers

You need someone who will love you in return. She obviously doesn't see you as more than a co-worker.

2007-02-15 04:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Iv'e been to that relationship man, it is not a weakness like the others reply to you. I never cared as others laugh at me because they see it as a weakness but they were not aware that the colossus is just emerging my persona. The girl's drifting and nothing you can do, she has no right to test you because she's not even capable to give true love. Achieve the real understanding like a man, not the ego of a man. When you meet another girl who loves you so, all your fancied girl's quality will go down the drain. Those who are not capable to love does not deserve love. So don't love her, trust me, its best when you love the one who loves you too. She's a big loser from now on.

2007-02-15 04:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dosage 3 · 0 0

She enjoys the pattern of being in a relationship that included hurt and chaos. You cannot provide that for her because you are nice, compassionate, loving person. You need to find someone who will accept the gifts you have to offer. Time heals, this will hurt because you are sensitive, it is not a bad thing to be sensitive. In fact it is very good... be patient, the right one will come along. Have a lovely day!

2007-02-15 04:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Have you ever heard of Charles Dickens' Great Expectations? you are in the same postition as pip. except you are WAY nicer. but, he loves this gal that just torments him. and he knows that, but he still falls for her anyways.
you need to look towards another direction. and you are by thinking about how she treats you. she is a coworker, stay away as far as possible. don't condescend with her, unless it is something about your job.
this gal has issues. if she is having her ex take her places, that means that she may still have feelings for him. it doesn't matter if she broke up with him or him with her, she still has those feelings. cos, no girl wants their ex taking them home.
be strong and try listening to music or take a hobby. do something to get your mind off her. and try going after girls that aren't so cold hearted about other people's feelings.

2007-02-15 04:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by christi t 2 · 0 0

What did she do that's so insensative? You offered her a ride and she accepted it, so what if she went to her ex-boyfriend's house, it's not like she's your girlfriend. Sounds to me like you are acting as if you guys are in a relationship but you're really not. And, it sounds like she doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for her (I could be wrong). Either hook up with the girl or stop agonizing over her.

2007-02-15 04:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Dam man grow some nuts, and stop shaving your chest. Man up She is not the only woman in the world.Never put in work like that unless you know she is filling you.Just stop F_cking with her that will let her know how strong your pimp hand is

2007-02-15 04:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0 0

Well just because u have feelings for her doesn't mean she has them for u, maybe she jus sees u as a friend. Don't get played stop being nice to her, let her man do what he suppose to do.

2007-02-15 05:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by CaramelLuv 3 · 0 0

Jeez, be a man already and don't get all EMO on us.

You were interested in her, she is interested in an "ex" (says a lot about her already, and it says a lot about you too since you are wussing out on her).

Get over it, move on, don't waste your time, and learn to be a man.

2007-02-15 04:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This is an easy answer...Time. Time heals all wounds if you give enough of it. You'll never forget her, no one forgets someone they had feelings for, but emotionally you will move on.

2007-02-15 04:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0 0

What's her PROBLEM? Tell that biitch to get back in the kitchen and make you a sandwich.

2016-05-24 03:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 4 · 0 0

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