what should i do?

Question

i've been with my b/f for 7 months, i used to goout with him 5 yrs ago b4 i had my son, so i know him quite well. everything between us is great. we both have one child each and we're like a proper family. we get on brilliantly and he's jus bought a house and he's asked me to move in with him. the only thing is, i've found a wart down below. i know i've not slept with anyone else but him, and it was a while b4 i started seein him that i had sex with anyone else. he's all for honesty and trust, so i know he's not cheated either. i know i have to tell him jus incase he gets one too, but i really don't want him to think i've done something i shouldn't. i've looked on sexual health sites and apparently they can lie dormant for months even yrs b4 any even grow. what should i do?

Answer 1

i think you should tackle the issue straight away.If it was me I'd explain as best as i could that i,d been to see my GP and he,s advised you of the infection that you may be carrying maybe pick up a couple of leaflets just to explain the dormant aspect of your infection.If he kicks off then he may have something to hide but is it really worth falling out over?You obviously love him very much to be concerned for his health and your own.At least your not hiding a pregnancy.good luck it really isn't that bad you could have even picked it up from a public loo (hygiene) and all that. Clarie.

Answer 2

For safety purposes, tell him!! He deserves to know. This is one of those issues that there is really no easy way to tell your mate you have an STD, but you didn't cheat. Depending on your relationship how he'll take it, but never forget he may say it's OK, but in the back of his mind, it's still brewing. Just brace yourself and be honest. Oh, and tell him in private!!!

Answer 3

go to your doc and get it diagnosed properly and treated. then you can decide what to say to him once you have all the facts and you have asked the questions you need to of your doc.

if you decide to tell your bf you need to have the facts to hand along with the information of your individual circumstances so you can talk it through.

doesnt sound like you did anything to worry about, give yourself a break and stop worrying!

Answer 4

You MUST tell him. He is your boyfriend and has secual relatioships with you. You can contaminate him as well. Both of you should go see a doctor as soon as possible. If you keep it for yourself because you are afraid of loosing hi, that would be selfish of you.

Answer 5

tell him straight away, explain that warts lie dormant, and show him what you researched, i hope you two will be fine, but don't put it off honey, it will only make matters worse, good luck, x

Answer 6

You have to tell!!!
show him the sites you have researched on and let him see for himself how the can occur,i hope you sort this one out soon.

Answer 7

Well if someone's health is at risk you must tell him. I am sure he will understand, he might have given them to you, he just might not have any symptoms yet!

Answer 8

TELL HIM!!